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Taking food from a hotel breakfast buffet- cheeky??

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Nannyogg134 · 15/08/2024 19:56

Was chatting with Brother and SIL about their upcoming holiday. They've got a long drive with 2 young DCs, so they've booked a chain hotel with free buffet breakfast part way along (to break up the drive.) DM said "Oh good, don't forget to make sandwiches for the drive later.".
This led to a whole family breakdown of what it is/isn't cheeky to do at a breakfast buffet 😂...

  • DM would happily take tupperware with her and fill up because 'it's been paid for' (I don't think she does take tupperware, I think it was a figure of speech!)
  • DH said he's too embarrassed to take anything more than a banana for later.
  • DSIL confessed that she can't resist taking pots of jam

I just wondered what everyone thought- Is it unreasonable to take from the buffet breakfast for 'later'?

OP posts:
assumethatIcan · 16/08/2024 08:38

FunkyClunky · 15/08/2024 22:17

😂😂😂😂😂 are you sure about that@assumethatIcan ?

110% 😂

assumethatIcan · 16/08/2024 08:37

CoastalCalm · 15/08/2024 22:16

Eh no it’s Tupperware

Yeah I know. A pp wrote how she brought her tuppaware to the hotel breakfast..

rookiemere · 16/08/2024 08:27

It's funny how people think it's more acceptable to take out fruit which could last a few days and be put out the next morning, versus perishable items like rolls and cheese which are presumably binned after service.

LadyInDecline · 16/08/2024 08:17

I took teen dd to an all day sporting event, we had a nice big breakfast and each took a piece of fruit out with us in our hand and popped a mini muffin in our bag.
I wouldn't make up sandwiches!

Funnywonder · 16/08/2024 08:10

It depends. If, for some reason, I hadn't managed to eat breakfast before I headed out for the day or if I had only had a tea/coffee, then yes, I might grab a few things to take away for later. But not if I've already eaten.

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 16/08/2024 08:09

Justforoncecansomethinggoright · 16/08/2024 07:57

This is what normal people do. Not MNers though who are outraged at such lower class practices. 🤣

This is not what normal people do

LiquoriceAllsorts2 · 16/08/2024 08:08

exLtEveDallas · 16/08/2024 05:56

We stayed at an airport hotel recently and watched a pilot make 3 or 4 baguettes with scrambled egg, spinach, sausages and bacon from the buffet. No shame involved, was very open about it.

We were inspired to do the same and had a lovely bacon butty on the plane a few hours later. Much nicer (and cheaper) than the Tui offerings!

Cheeky beyond belief.

Justforoncecansomethinggoright · 16/08/2024 07:57

Differentstarts · 15/08/2024 22:52

I always take food for lunch from breakfast buffets if I'm out for the day or on holiday as it saves money. If I'm going home afterwards I will take some jam and Nutella packs and other similar things I don't have at home but wouldn't want to buy a full jar off.

This is what normal people do. Not MNers though who are outraged at such lower class practices. 🤣

rookiemere · 16/08/2024 07:54

At a few hotels in France I have stayed in they put out the leftover pastries at reception, which I think is a nice idea as I don't often fancy a mini pain au chocolat at breakfast, but it's sometimes a nice afternoon snack after a day of skiing in winter or hill walking in summer.

Onehotday · 16/08/2024 07:50

Andwegoroundagain · 16/08/2024 06:40

This ! I like to have a cup of coffee in the morning and eat a couple of hours later.
I've been to a couple of hotels where there's no in room coffee option and no café so you have to pay for breakfast in order to get a coffee ! I'll therefore take a yoghurt and pastry or something like that to eat later. I don't want to pay twice for something

Edited

I just don't understand this argument.

If you don't want a buffet breakfast then don't pay for a buffet. Go elsewhere and buy a coffee.

Andwegoroundagain · 16/08/2024 06:40

MumblesParty · 16/08/2024 00:00

@Lynus theres nothing cheapskate about wanting what you’ve paid for. I would happily pay a reduced rate for my coffee and fruit, but that’s not an option. So I’m going to take my £15 breakfast, but I’ll eat it later.

This ! I like to have a cup of coffee in the morning and eat a couple of hours later.
I've been to a couple of hotels where there's no in room coffee option and no café so you have to pay for breakfast in order to get a coffee ! I'll therefore take a yoghurt and pastry or something like that to eat later. I don't want to pay twice for something

GordonRamsey · 16/08/2024 06:35

It can be a bit tricky, I find the sausages tend to roll off the plate unless it is held flat (and then it is more likely to be spotted by staff), bacon, if crispy can be slipped into the breast pocket of a jacket or if flexible, wrapped around each wrist like a watch strap. Baked beans - you just have to leave these. Black pudding and hash browns, under a baseball cap. Toast/fried bread (cut in half NOT triangles) in trouser pockets.
The outfit of choice is one of those 'fishing jackets' as they are positively smothered in individual pockets.

Cangar · 16/08/2024 06:32

heinzseight · 16/08/2024 04:05

Everything I hear about Disneyland Paris makes it sound a bloody miserable holiday 😄

I mean my 8 year old loved it! But yes wouldn’t be my first choice. I felt like they were trying to squeeze every last euro out of me. They’ve just changed the dining rules again and now you don’t even get a soft drink with meals under the (expensive!) dining plans.

I did not witness the carnage others describe (people were definitely making themselves lunch but there was never a shortage of food nor was it ever difficult to access) but was at the most expensive hotel and it was February. Maybe worse in summer.

DancefloorAcrobatics · 16/08/2024 06:30

Unacceptable. Hotels cater for x amount of people having breakfast.

That can easily leave some guests without some of the breakfast items or none at all.

By all means go last and take what is left 2 min before end, anything else is greedy and selfish.

Setyoufree · 16/08/2024 06:13

PumpkinPie2016 · 15/08/2024 20:10

I wouldn't in the UK as it's not the done thing and would feel really cheeky.

We are currently staying in a hotel in Austria and making a packed lunch (including sandwiches) at breakfast is actively encouraged! They even provide paper bags and napkins. I brought my insulated lunch bag so we could put stuff in there.
It's been brilliant for the whole holiday- especially when out on the mountains and everyone does it. Very different to back home.

It would have been specifically baked into their pricing. I've stayed in a lot of Austrian hotels and they're either the way you describe, or they are very strictly the other way that if you're caught taking from the buffet, they'll add €20 pp (or whatever) to your bill. They'll all happily give you materials to make a packed lunch, it's just that some will make an explicit charge for it.

Chrispackhamspoodle · 16/08/2024 06:09

I take 2 mini Nutellas if they have them as a present for my kids.TBF I don't eat full english so I've usually paid the hotel £10 for a croissant banana and coffee.Bit I still would even if I did.

AnnieMcFanny · 16/08/2024 06:07

@HunterHearstHelmsley if you haven’t seen a melee at a Disney hotel breakfast when people have their own containers to fill with food to top up on throughout the day you haven’t lived. 🙈

HunterHearstHelmsley · 16/08/2024 06:04

I'll sometimes grab a muffin, yoghurt and a banana. Only when I'm not in the mood for breakfast so I'm not actually taking more.

AnnieMcFanny · 16/08/2024 06:02

Everything I hear about Disneyland Paris makes it sound a bloody miserable holiday 😄

Over the years Ive had some lovely times there with my son who’s severely autistic. He’s 33 now and still asks to go but declining health means he can no longer travel.

But that said - it’s great breakfasts are no longer included in a hotel stay because the melees I witnessed at breakfasts the last time we were there were disgraceful. You couldn’t even get near the buffet the throng were so feral and people who had decided to stand back and let them get on with it had to ask staff for help getting breakfast.

exLtEveDallas · 16/08/2024 05:56

We stayed at an airport hotel recently and watched a pilot make 3 or 4 baguettes with scrambled egg, spinach, sausages and bacon from the buffet. No shame involved, was very open about it.

We were inspired to do the same and had a lovely bacon butty on the plane a few hours later. Much nicer (and cheaper) than the Tui offerings!

AnnieMcFanny · 16/08/2024 05:49

Differentstarts · 15/08/2024 23:34

We did it everyday at Disney it's so expensive otherwise for food.

@Meanwhile33

not everyone else was doing it and even if they were why would you want to be like them.

heinzseight · 16/08/2024 04:05

Cangar · 15/08/2024 20:26

I’ll admit to doing this at Disney Paris. It was tricky to get lunch (huge queues) and we’d paid a fortune for the hotel. Only me and one child so I just popped a couple of rolls and some cheese in my bag and a banana each. That easily kept us going until a very expensive dinner in the park. Staff certainly didn’t care there were people full on making piles of sandwiches from the sliced bread by the toaster.

I can live with myself to be honest!

Everything I hear about Disneyland Paris makes it sound a bloody miserable holiday 😄

autienotnaughty · 16/08/2024 04:04

I stayed in a hotel in Disneyland Paris with breakfast included. Everyone was making sandwiches for lunch!!

bridgetreilly · 16/08/2024 03:53

Of course not! You have paid for breakfast. You haven’t paid for as many meals as you could carry away. Can you imagine trying to fill takeout containers from an all-you-can-eat Chinese buffet? Wow.

I might possibly grab a piece of fruit, but sandwiches is absolutely CFery.

TheCatterall · 16/08/2024 01:50

I’m staying at the Hilton in Bristol next week (it was cheaper than premier inn I promise…) and they have always provided waxed containers and tubs, little card lunchboxes and paper bags to take fruit, yogurt etc - and I will happily help myself to a few things to nibble on as I sightsee and make up a travel cup of tea. They actively encourage it so I happily oblige. If they didn’t I think I’d still take a pastry or two to scoff as I set off into town.

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