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Taking food from a hotel breakfast buffet- cheeky??

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Nannyogg134 · 15/08/2024 19:56

Was chatting with Brother and SIL about their upcoming holiday. They've got a long drive with 2 young DCs, so they've booked a chain hotel with free buffet breakfast part way along (to break up the drive.) DM said "Oh good, don't forget to make sandwiches for the drive later.".
This led to a whole family breakdown of what it is/isn't cheeky to do at a breakfast buffet 😂...

  • DM would happily take tupperware with her and fill up because 'it's been paid for' (I don't think she does take tupperware, I think it was a figure of speech!)
  • DH said he's too embarrassed to take anything more than a banana for later.
  • DSIL confessed that she can't resist taking pots of jam

I just wondered what everyone thought- Is it unreasonable to take from the buffet breakfast for 'later'?

OP posts:
MilkyCappuchino · 15/08/2024 20:38

One of those things. Is the hotel unhappy about it?

Onehotday · 15/08/2024 20:38

Leoraah · 15/08/2024 20:30

I will sometimes make a sandwich for later from the breakfast buffet...they're generally £17-£20 a head with no child rate. My child would eat a bowl of cereal and maybe some fruit and I generally would just have some fruit so I can't see the harm in taking something else to eat later. Especially when you see how much other people eat at breakfast!😯

Well if it's unsuitable then just don't go. Don't steal and come up with excuses to justify it.

Papyrophile · 15/08/2024 20:38

I don't and wouldn't take a picnic pack for later from the buffet.

MouseMinge · 15/08/2024 20:37

I will take stuff to the table and know there's a chance I won't eat the piece of fruit and maybe a muffin which I'll take with me. More comfortable with just a piece of fruit though. If they've got really good jam I would be tempted to take some with me but probably wouldn't. I would not take enough for a full lunch and if I was with someone who was doing that I'd have to walk away from them because I'd find it embarrassing and plain wrong.

LondonFox · 15/08/2024 20:37

I don't eat breakfast so I am happy to take reasonable amount (a sandwich and pastry or fruit with me).
If I ate breakfast I would call it CF.

Shoxfordian · 15/08/2024 20:37

Really embarrassing to take anything

Gwenhwyfar · 15/08/2024 20:35

It's theft.
Bit of a cliche, but I was queuing behind two Dutch girls for buffet breakfast in a hostel once and they took the last slices of bread for their lunch. No breakfast for me!

I think in posher places they would replenish, but in budget places they don't so if you take extra you're taking from the other guests.

MiddleAgedDread · 15/08/2024 20:35

I often take a banana or pastry for later in the day if I’m working away and don’t have easy access to other sources of food but I don’t eat a massive breakfast on those days anyway so it’s no more than some folk would eat in the breakfast sitting. I’ve was in a hotel one week and a bloke made a full packed lunch every morning with 4 rounds of bread for sandwiches!

assumethatIcan · 15/08/2024 20:34

MJOverInvestor · 15/08/2024 20:14

I think that culturally it's more accepted in Scandinavia - in fact, I think I've once seen paper bags laid out so people can take things away with them. I've only ever filched a banana or (very occasionally a miniature jam). I'd say outside places where it's accepted/encouraged/facilitated hotels would be ok for very small kids (who might needs snacks, esp in remote places that might not have easy to access cafes...)

We have doggy bags, but this only includes what you’ve paid for. Not CF’s at hotels. If you are at a B&B or hotel where you would go ’på tur’ after breakfast, noone would say no to taking a bread roll and some cheese.

Lovesacake · 15/08/2024 20:34

I’ve done this but only where breakfast is included, I don’t eat breakfast so I’ll make a sandwich and take an apple or something to eat at lunchtime. It’s still less food than most people have on their breakfast plates!

NoLongerNHS · 15/08/2024 20:33

Yes it is cheeky. Yes I do it! Boiled eggs are my go to for later in the day. Or a banana.

Scirocco · 15/08/2024 20:32

If DC has a mini pastry or piece of fruit left on their plate that they might want in an hour, I'll wrap it up and take it with us rather than leave it to go to waste. I wouldn't go back up to get more stuff specifically to take away though.

BigBurrata · 15/08/2024 20:31

I tried it once at a hotel in Barcelona and one of the staff stopped me and asked for the croissant back. Felt like a shoplifter!
Never dared since. 😀

Leoraah · 15/08/2024 20:30

I will sometimes make a sandwich for later from the breakfast buffet...they're generally £17-£20 a head with no child rate. My child would eat a bowl of cereal and maybe some fruit and I generally would just have some fruit so I can't see the harm in taking something else to eat later. Especially when you see how much other people eat at breakfast!😯

Latenightreader · 15/08/2024 20:30

I once stayed in a hotel in Norway (half board) which put paper bags on the tables at breakfast so people could make sandwiches for lunch!

assumethatIcan · 15/08/2024 20:29

llamajohn · 15/08/2024 20:07

Why was that the hotels problem to solve?

It wasn’t.

DogInATent · 15/08/2024 20:27

Perfectly normal on the continent to make up a roll or two for later from the breakfast buffet.

Cangar · 15/08/2024 20:26

I’ll admit to doing this at Disney Paris. It was tricky to get lunch (huge queues) and we’d paid a fortune for the hotel. Only me and one child so I just popped a couple of rolls and some cheese in my bag and a banana each. That easily kept us going until a very expensive dinner in the park. Staff certainly didn’t care there were people full on making piles of sandwiches from the sliced bread by the toaster.

I can live with myself to be honest!

OfficerChurlish · 15/08/2024 20:24

I think it's OK to take away something that is part of your breakfast - for example, if you come down and use the free buffet but have to get back to your room to pack or do some work or get ready to check out, it's OK to take a drink or a piece of fruit or pastry back up with you. If you're taking things you are going to use for lunch that's not OK because lunch is not included.

Werweisswohin · 15/08/2024 20:23

Eat as much as you can, fine.
Take maybe a muffin or something which you picked up when 'eyes greedier than tummy', fineish.
Filling a tub, not fine.

suburburban · 15/08/2024 20:22

TheTripThatWasnt · 15/08/2024 20:05

When we were in holiday in Norway, pretty much everyone was doing this at breakfast! We'd never done it before, but thought 'if you can't beat them, join them' and took a cheese/ham roll with us every day. But then we don't eat massive breakfasts and were probably eating less food in total than most people.

Yes we did the same

Had a fridge in the room

It was convenient as it was so hot and saved going out

Onehotday · 15/08/2024 20:21

It's theft as far as I'm concerned.

Kitkat1523 · 15/08/2024 20:21

There’s a whole gransnet thread about this from a few days ago…..it was about 50/50 who would and who wouldn’t take food for later

coldcallerbaiter · 15/08/2024 20:20

llamajohn · 15/08/2024 20:11

It's not the hotel's fault you can't be arsed to go and get fruit or because you don't want a full meal at lunch.

It is not the hotels fault, but given that people can take as much as they like and it is effectively all you can eat, why does it matter if I eat an orange and banana now or a bit later. I do not pile food up and leave it. If you order at a restaurant you can get a doggy bag, it’s no different. What you put in your plate is what you have ordered and you can take anything you haven’t eaten.

BobbyBiscuits · 15/08/2024 20:19

I think BC of my financial circumstances and eating habits I'd probably be inclined to take a few bits and bobs.
Just subtly make a couple ham/cheese rolls and wrap in tissue or I guess a small sandwich bag.
If there's no rules against it then you should take a little extra if you fancy. It's included in the price if you have one or take five sandwiches worth of meat and cheese. But only take enough for yourself personally.
I don't like eating first thing so I'd probably grab a sandwich for an hour later else I'd only end up having coffee when paying for food as well.