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Taking food from a hotel breakfast buffet- cheeky??

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Nannyogg134 · 15/08/2024 19:56

Was chatting with Brother and SIL about their upcoming holiday. They've got a long drive with 2 young DCs, so they've booked a chain hotel with free buffet breakfast part way along (to break up the drive.) DM said "Oh good, don't forget to make sandwiches for the drive later.".
This led to a whole family breakdown of what it is/isn't cheeky to do at a breakfast buffet 😂...

  • DM would happily take tupperware with her and fill up because 'it's been paid for' (I don't think she does take tupperware, I think it was a figure of speech!)
  • DH said he's too embarrassed to take anything more than a banana for later.
  • DSIL confessed that she can't resist taking pots of jam

I just wondered what everyone thought- Is it unreasonable to take from the buffet breakfast for 'later'?

OP posts:
Premierout · 15/08/2024 22:18

helpfulperson · 15/08/2024 21:44

Somehow that is even worse than taking food for lunch. You make your husband stay in the room and feed him leftovers for breakfast??

I don’t make him! We agree to it. He gets to shower, and pack for us, in peace, and gets a free breakfast! Winner winner rolls for dinner!

wizzywig · 15/08/2024 22:17

ilovesooty · 15/08/2024 21:30

Rude, cheapskate behaviour.

But not if you are petite

FunkyClunky · 15/08/2024 22:17

assumethatIcan · 15/08/2024 22:10

It’s called Tuppaware though. ^^ 😂

😂😂😂😂😂 are you sure about that@assumethatIcan ?

otravezempezamos · 15/08/2024 22:16

Yup, I do this. I once had a roll of foil waiting in my room ready to wrap the sandwiches up in 🤣🤣🤣 couple of bananas too and lunch sorted

CoastalCalm · 15/08/2024 22:16

assumethatIcan · 15/08/2024 22:10

It’s called Tuppaware though. ^^ 😂

Eh no it’s Tupperware

Vizella · 15/08/2024 22:11

xsquared · 15/08/2024 22:01

If the amount of food is the same, then what difference does it make to the hotel whether you have it all at once or save some of it for later?

Because it’s more honest- I’m saying that I’m a greedy person and I’m okay with that. Whereas the latter is walking around in a shifty and guilty way, which gives you the air of a thief. The former is more dignified. It gives the message that I am entitled to eat a bit extra on holiday and I’ve paid for it. No one can argue with that.

wizzywig · 15/08/2024 22:10

It's similar to taking all the shower gels and tea an coffee sachets from the room

assumethatIcan · 15/08/2024 22:10

FunkyClunky · 15/08/2024 22:08

Hotel abroad last year. Every morning a British family sat down and ate a massive breakfast. Then the mum proceeded to fill their insulated bottles full of fresh fruit juice and filled 2 large Tupperware boxes with bread, cheese, fruit etc. in full sight. Saw them tucking into their nice lunch on the beach one day. Even if they’d gone for the all inclusive option it’s super tacky. If half board it’s just theft, isn’t it?

It’s called Tuppaware though. ^^ 😂

Byllis · 15/08/2024 22:09

Hotel buffets bring out a very unattractive side of human nature. I’ve realised that one of the reasons I love self-catering is that I avoid having to be around gimlet-eyed, sharp-elbowed fellow guests in the morning. I don’t want to deal with rude strangers on my holiday. No more AI after trying it once and being jostled by people who couldn’t wait to grab food.

This is more of the same - greedy. Although I agree with posters saying if you’ve not piled your plate high, taking a small item or two to eat later is fine.

I also appreciate hotels that offer breakfasts off a menu - much more pleasant and I assume they don’t have much waste.

FunkyClunky · 15/08/2024 22:08

Hotel abroad last year. Every morning a British family sat down and ate a massive breakfast. Then the mum proceeded to fill their insulated bottles full of fresh fruit juice and filled 2 large Tupperware boxes with bread, cheese, fruit etc. in full sight. Saw them tucking into their nice lunch on the beach one day. Even if they’d gone for the all inclusive option it’s super tacky. If half board it’s just theft, isn’t it?

BusyBeatle · 15/08/2024 22:08

I also think fruit or a pot of yoghurt is reasonable but I we stayed at a hotel last year where the staff brought take away containers for the kids. They had a kids breakfast corner which included treat you wouldn't really give your kids for breakfast but they urged us to help ourselves.

So I guess it depends

Branster · 15/08/2024 22:07

DinnaeFashYersel · 15/08/2024 20:16

Very cringey and cheap

Not cheap in the Norwegian hotel another poster mentioned earlier.

I guess it depends on the setup but I always take fruit to eat mid-morning as I wouldn't have an apple/banana during breakfast. It's there, so why not. Also balances out my ridiculously small breakfast I would consume as I'm not hungry in the mornings.

Whenever I go to an all inclusive I always take at least two piece of fruit with me for later and don't feel in the least bit guilty. They're more than covered as I don't touch the freely available alcohol, fizzy drinks and a lot of other stuff I wouldn't consume anyway.

YOYOK · 15/08/2024 22:07

I can’t really get worked up by someone taking a bread roll and some fruit or a pastry. I wouldn’t take a 3 course meal for a family of 6 but a small snack type lunch or just some snacks for the kids is fine.

asterixa · 15/08/2024 22:07

@Pebbles16 Imagine if everyone with a chronic condition considered it an acceptable excuse to start stealing. Your husband can just as easily wait in a cafe and buy a drink, even carry a book. Such a strange attitude.

WhereDoBrokenHeartsGo · 15/08/2024 22:04

I stayed in a hotel close to Disneyland Paris recently and guests weren’t allowed to take bags into the breakfast room, not even handbags. I don’t really enjoy breakfast so I stayed in bed but my DH took the kids down and said they were turning people with bags away and making them leave them back in their bedrooms!

assumethatIcan · 15/08/2024 22:03

Pebbles16 · 15/08/2024 21:54

Well you do you and we'll do us. I will say no more except... UNCLENCH

I am very unclenched and can afford to pay for our holidays. No need to steal. You do you. Being CF’s and blaming it on you having a disease.

xsquared · 15/08/2024 22:01

Vizella · 15/08/2024 21:57

I’d rather eat a hearty breakfast at the hotel and skip lunch than eat moderately at breakfast and pack a moderate sandwich for later. It’s more socially acceptable to overeat than to try and trick the system.

If the amount of food is the same, then what difference does it make to the hotel whether you have it all at once or save some of it for later?

Beenhereforever1978 · 15/08/2024 21:59

I work in a hotel with a ver posh breakfast buffet - if you're coming down near the end of service, take the damned food. We are going to bin it otherwise, things like cheeses and meats and pastries we simply can't put in the fridge and set out again tomorrow because it's a cross-contamination/temperature of storage thing.

Don't do it at the beginning of service though and please don't nick the little jams in jars.

Ask and we'll usually wrap it for you also. 😁

Vizella · 15/08/2024 21:57

I’d rather eat a hearty breakfast at the hotel and skip lunch than eat moderately at breakfast and pack a moderate sandwich for later. It’s more socially acceptable to overeat than to try and trick the system.

Howdidtheydothat · 15/08/2024 21:56

Have taken the odd item of food away when in a hurry, have also filled my coffee flask for the drive /train journey too. Meh, I think loading up boxes is a step too far, but saw this at an all inclusive in Egypt (was Egyptian families doing this) then they had an afternoon long picnic by the pool. No idea it was seen as acceptable or they were just CFs

Applesonthelawn · 15/08/2024 21:56

It's tacky. You pay for breakfast, not lunch too. It's like when people to to those "as much as you can eat" buffets and stuff their fat faces.

morningtoncrescent62 · 15/08/2024 21:56

I'm in Team DH. Take out a piece of fruit for later (feeling like a criminal and expecting to be challenged if spotted by a member of staff) but there's no way I'd take a full packed lunch. It hasn't been paid for - the prices would have to go up considerably if everyone stocked up for the full day ahead.

Pebbles16 · 15/08/2024 21:54

assumethatIcan · 15/08/2024 21:41

Your dh is a true CF. There are no excuses. I have spent half my life looking for toilets just like you, it is horrible. No way in hell would my bored dh take advantage and steal things. Your husband is s thief, and it’s hardly charming, And ”looking very European”, what does that mean? We’re Scandinavian and look it, and I never once used it to be CF’s. Or my illness. You should be ashsmed of yourself, but entiitled people like you never be.

Well you do you and we'll do us. I will say no more except... UNCLENCH

PassingStranger · 15/08/2024 21:53

It all goes to waste the leftovers anyway, better to be eaten.

DodoTired · 15/08/2024 21:52

Demonhunter · 15/08/2024 20:58

When I was a rep, I'd actively encourage people to make themselves a packed lunch from the breakfast buffet, esp those who I knew were on a tight budget. Hell, I'd even give them ideas, and when I was in the 4* flagship hotel, the receptionists would join in and give people sandwich ideas 😂 no one cares, a lot of the food would just be wasted anyway.

Not all heroes wear capes! :)

but seriously, good on you and good point about food waste.