Other people’s Botox habits making me look old

I started getting preventative Botox in my mid-20s - I was a seriously bad frowner and face scruncher to the point where people would regularly mention it to me and I had visible lines even when I was “resting.” Tried computer glasses, face tape, behavioral changes, but nothing worked, which is why I got the Botox - not to look younger or to look like Molly Mae, but to “train” myself to stop constantly frowning. Genetics also aren’t on my side.

I’m really pleased with the results, apart from one time when I went to a different doctor who injected too much and I did look quite “frozen” for a few months. It also gives a nice glow and generally makes me look more rested and refreshed. At this point I only get it twice a year, and I think it’s gone a long way in “training” me not to frown even once it’s worn off.

I don’t think I’m fooling anyone about my age now that I’m in my 30s though, nor do I intend to!

If you've used tret religiously since your twenties, you won't have any wrinkles even in your fifties and beyond even if you don't use botox or fillers.

the problem with fillers is that they stay in your body and do not go away. Who knows what health issue that would create down the line.

Botox always looks awful and unnatural. People might think that they look better but they never do.

Whats wrong with looking as if you're in your mid thirties when you're in your mid thirties?

I am 39, no wrinkles here (and no botox as I am terrified of needles) but obviously the skin looks different than at 30, 33, 36 , even last year. I can't even put my finger on what it is.
BTW you can spot botox miles away. the majority would get it done with beauticians that have no clue re how to administer it the way that it actually takes years off and does not create this "SW London mum who has money for botox" look.

Not everyone who looks half their age has had Botox it's called not smoking, drinking water and eating good along with good genes. Learn to look after yourself

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Botox is best used as a prevention rather than a cure, best to have it younger.
I started in my early 30s to prevent the deep lines.
I wouldn't bother now if you're happy and not worried about the opinions of others.

Those saying they would shout at the innocent comment of a 17 yr old, really???
She is a teenager who thinks everyone over 30 is ancient. Leave her alone.

What's Tret?

A little knobhead 😂

Yes, also interested in this!

How are you guys getting hold of tretinoin?!

After a particularly brutal season of life, I was smiling and realised I did have smile lines around my eyes and I was so happy to have them! My face is a testament to some joy!

Anyway, I think there are lots of things we can do but genetics will get us in the end. My SIL is a ‘clean’ eating aficionado, but she’s got the genes of the parent who looks every inch her pensioner age.

I think it’s unusual to have lines at 35ish even without Botox but it varies based on genetics. My partner does but I don’t. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with having lines.

I think the problem is these things only work for so long.

People can look great into their 40s and with the really expensive stuff into their 50s as people like Jennifer Aniston prove. But even with all that money there comes a tipping point.

I think I'd rather sacrifice a few 'years' now and look normal as I age. I was looking at my mum and aunt the other day and thinking how good they look at Kate 60s and early 70s totally make up free. I'm aiming for that!

Good moisturizer, sun protection etc but definitely not fillers.

Loool just had to google this! Never heard of it before.

I have never had botox or fillers in my life. Everywhere I go, people say I look 20 something while I am actually in my 40s. They don't even believe I have child who is almost 20. I use sun block throughout the year, drink plenty of water, eat a balanced diet and get enough sleep. I also don't stress myself out. I believe healthy daily routine can maintain youthful look. My parents are in their 70s but they look no way near their actual age.

The comments which are having a go at women for wanting to look younger/get Botox etc, yes of course in an ideal world everyone would age gracefully without a care in the world.

Unfortunately we live in a high pressure, misogynistic society and not everyone has the self esteem to simply ignore the ridiculously high standards we are expected to adhere to.

I don't think sweeping statements that simply shut down women's feelings on the subject or berate them for feeling any sort of way other than grateful to be alive is in any way kind or helpful to be honest.

Yes I totally agree with you. Looking good for your age if you're natural is pointless if everyone around you has had work done.

What is tret and where can I get some 😂

I agree to a certain extent, no one in my friendship group have Botox and I am the only one you has had fillers (in 2017 I had my ‘11’ lines done and it was the best money I’ve ever spent, they still haven’t come back)

if done subtlety it can be youthful.