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12 year old obsessed with Jacqueline Wilson books.. Aibu to think there is better out there?

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Breakdancing · 14/08/2024 12:58

My 12 year old has come back from the library with another stack of Jacqueline Wilson books. I've flicked through some & they are mildly inappropriate but are in the young readers section.. I love that she is a bookworm but aibu to be annoyed with her obsession with Jacqueline Wilson?

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Justthistime1234 · 16/08/2024 15:48

Omg are we talking about A Wrinkle In Time?? It’s one of the best books ever

Tricho · 16/08/2024 15:46

you sound really fun.

Justthistime1234 · 16/08/2024 15:46

I read a mills and boon a day from my great aunt when I was 13 or so - I now have have several professional qualifications and a law degree, and just took War and Peace on holiday 😂
Reading is reading - it’s amazing whatever it is (in my view)!

YellowphantGrey · 16/08/2024 15:33

Britinme · 16/08/2024 14:46

Maybe Wrinkle in Time is banned in some ultra-conservative states, but it certainly isn't in mine.

It's one of the most frequently challenged and banned books in America.

It wasn't a personal attack on you 😕

Britinme · 16/08/2024 14:46

Maybe Wrinkle in Time is banned in some ultra-conservative states, but it certainly isn't in mine.

YellowphantGrey · 16/08/2024 12:53

Grammarnut · 16/08/2024 12:39

'A Wrinkle in Time' is one of my favourite books ever. One of those books that changed my life (along with Dr Syn, which got me interested in history, which I later studied at uni) by showing me that sci-fi was not all about teenage boys having adventures in space. W in T is also a good intro to dystopias like Brave New World and 1984. Wonderful. Why is it banned in US?

For undermining Christianity by showing the occult apparently!

Mysa74 · 16/08/2024 12:46

DoNotScrapeMyDataBishes · 14/08/2024 13:06

DD1 went through a phase of it at about 10/11 - I just gritted teeth, screened out the ones aimed at an older audience and eventually she moved on to other stuff.

Now she insists on carrying around ALL the Percy Jackson books in her school backpack in case she gets an idle 2 minutes between lessons! At least the Jacqueline Wilson ones were lighter in weight!

My 12 yo is obsessed with rick Riordan's books. She has all of them has gone through tje fables and non fiction and now wants to go to Greece...

Grammarnut · 16/08/2024 12:42

@rosyAndMoo as several have pointed out J W has been Children's Laureate and also won major children's book prizes. She is not trashy. The Rainbow and Ark series are - but they are written by syndicate (like Sexton Blake).

WandsOut · 16/08/2024 12:41

@Grammarnut 💯

I think this is a bit of snobbery by OP. Sometimes wannabe writers are like this about female authors in particular.

Grammarnut · 16/08/2024 12:39

YellowphantGrey · 15/08/2024 20:51

You could always give her a list of banned books to read as well!

I believe A Wrinkle in Time is one of the banned lists too (in America I think)

'A Wrinkle in Time' is one of my favourite books ever. One of those books that changed my life (along with Dr Syn, which got me interested in history, which I later studied at uni) by showing me that sci-fi was not all about teenage boys having adventures in space. W in T is also a good intro to dystopias like Brave New World and 1984. Wonderful. Why is it banned in US?

WandsOut · 16/08/2024 12:37

JW writes about unconventional families and mothers - she's great. My daughter devoured them all and then moved on to Judy Blume, S.E Hinton and now is on Jane Austin, and George Orwell.

Maybe read some of them before dismissing them? I enjoyed reading some of my daughter's JW novels and JW herself is a talented and prolific writer - a lovely woman who really cares about children. www.newstatesman.com/culture/books/2020/12/jacqueline-wilson-interview-2020-childhood-fiction-books-sexuality

Grammarnut · 16/08/2024 12:36

Heyheyitsanotherday · 15/08/2024 12:27

Book snobbery annoys me. She’s reading. That’s a great thing. You say she’s academic which is wonderful but … You’re allowed to read for pleasure. Let her enjoy the books. She will move on at some point. So much better than watching rubbish on tik tok or you tube.

Not only are you allowed to read for pleasure, doing so is a strong marker for success academically. OP is being snobbish - also a lot of other people on this board. JW writes about working-class life without being supercilious about it. Good thing.

Grammarnut · 16/08/2024 12:30

RedOnyx · 16/08/2024 09:33

I agree with your DD about Wuthering Heights. I love reading and read widely ACR all genres. Wuthering Heights is one of the worst books I've ever read. It took me 3 attempts to get through it! I actually liked Hard Times though. But I detested They Catcher in the Rye, which everyone else seems to love.

I think The Tenant of Wildfell Hall underated - Anne was the best of the Brontes.

Sue2704 · 16/08/2024 11:07

I think you are lucky to have a bookworm. My children all were and it was great - I used to read along with them so we had things to talk about at dinner. Another good series that she might miss are the Artemis Fowl books by Eoin Colfer. They are great fun.

MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 16/08/2024 09:48

TBF at that age, I was reading a combination of real life murder books, Jean Plaidy and Jilly Cooper 😂

CautionaryTaleGirl · 16/08/2024 09:41

My friends and I were reading Judy Blume books at that age. Anyone remember Forever? And Ralph? 😆

Member984815 · 16/08/2024 09:40

Grammarnut · 16/08/2024 08:56

Youngest DD must be very sheltered! I have read some JW's and afaik they were not inappropriate - not very middle-class, though. Don't like her historical ones, which can be a bit anachronistic.

No more than oldest, I only wish she would read jw , she's less into reading and follows a tiktok where they review them . She's 13 oldest is a lot older and had quite the collection of jw . I'm just glad they have no interest in v.c. Andrews

Grammarnut · 16/08/2024 09:39

Loggedinunix · 15/08/2024 20:31

Help her branch out. Ask in Library/bookshop for suggestions on other authors she might like. Even a visit to 2nd hand book shop with a £20 budget as long as not JW. Even google “what to read after JW” / “similar to JW”. (I regularly do this if I like an author and sniff sniff read everything they have published)

As long she knows fiction and what happens is not real life and you are always willing to listen to her if she reads anything that bugs her or finds funny or just anything connected to reading.

Whatever you do don’t use reading as a punishment either forcing to read or removing the ability. Always encourage her to read, listen to audiobooks.

Why are you so down on JW? And suggesting that fiction is not real life in connection with JW is molly-coddling - the situations she rights on are real life for a lot of children. By all means go to a second hand bookshop and give £20 - to buy what she likes, including JW. Telling a child not to read what she enjoys is the best way ever of putting her off reading for pleasure, or for any other reason.

ByTheSea · 16/08/2024 09:35

My DD who is now 25, read all the JW and Judy Blume she could read when younger and went on to get a first in Classics from a top university.

RedOnyx · 16/08/2024 09:33

Grammarnut · 16/08/2024 09:19

Agree! @Leafygreen84! I suspect OP is a book snob and wants her DD reading classics. She will put DD off reading if she tries - stuff like 'Wuthering Heights' (own DD did this for A level and said it was the worst written book she had ever read with too many characters have the same name! Only one worse was 'Hard Times' which is didactic) etc are not for 12 year olds; nor is Dickens (Victorian families read them aloud but we are not Victorians).

I agree with your DD about Wuthering Heights. I love reading and read widely ACR all genres. Wuthering Heights is one of the worst books I've ever read. It took me 3 attempts to get through it! I actually liked Hard Times though. But I detested They Catcher in the Rye, which everyone else seems to love.

Grammarnut · 16/08/2024 09:27

Custardandrhubarbcrumble · 14/08/2024 13:54

I have the opposite problem, my highly literate bookworm 14 year old is obsessed the Warrior Cats series (labelled for age 9 plus). His English teacher has told him off and said he needs to choose more mature books. I'm torn, I can see why, he's very capable of reading and understanding proper literature. But if he's reading he's not gaming, and also it's light entertainment for him, no worse than an adult woman reading trashy chicklit on holiday. Generally I think if kids are choosing to read, let them read.

No-one should tell your DS off for reading Warrior Cats - his teacher is doing him a disservice! If DS wants to read Warrior Cats let him. Leave some sci-fi and fantasy around that he might like. Reading is for pleasure and those who read for pleasure (rather than because they are told it's good for them or that they must read classics) do well in later life. Indeed, reading for pleasure is one of the indicators of future success - and it does not matter what DS reads (but check he's not discovered porn!).
I think this obsession that all DC reading should be improving is a left-over from Blair's national curriculum which taught children that reading was for information etc but that reading for pleasure was a waste of time (truly, I found children who had absorbed that notion!).

Rummly · 16/08/2024 09:26

Grammarnut · 16/08/2024 09:21

Does DD still read after you stopped her reading something she actually enjoyed?

Yes. (She probably read them anyway!)

Donsyb · 16/08/2024 09:24

Well I read Judy Blume, not sure that’s any better! But I turned out ok. It actually helped educated me in some things I would have been too embarrassed to talk to my mum about.

To be fair, I was obsessed with reading and would read almost anything.

Grammarnut · 16/08/2024 09:21

Rummly · 14/08/2024 13:40

Jacqueline Wilson books are tedious crap. But they’re books; and (nearly) all teen reading is a good thing.

I did step in some years ago when one of my daughters started reading Cathy Glass. Not because I think there’s anything so ‘inappropriate’ for teens in them that they should be restricted, but because they’re so shit that I’d prefer she’d read the back of a cornflakes box.

Does DD still read after you stopped her reading something she actually enjoyed?

Grammarnut · 16/08/2024 09:19

Agree! @Leafygreen84! I suspect OP is a book snob and wants her DD reading classics. She will put DD off reading if she tries - stuff like 'Wuthering Heights' (own DD did this for A level and said it was the worst written book she had ever read with too many characters have the same name! Only one worse was 'Hard Times' which is didactic) etc are not for 12 year olds; nor is Dickens (Victorian families read them aloud but we are not Victorians).

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