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12 year old obsessed with Jacqueline Wilson books.. Aibu to think there is better out there?

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Breakdancing · 14/08/2024 12:58

My 12 year old has come back from the library with another stack of Jacqueline Wilson books. I've flicked through some & they are mildly inappropriate but are in the young readers section.. I love that she is a bookworm but aibu to be annoyed with her obsession with Jacqueline Wilson?

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Psychoville78 · 14/08/2024 15:28

Think yourself lucky- I was reading James Herbert by 12 years old!!

KreedKafer · 14/08/2024 15:25

Definitelyrandom · 14/08/2024 14:58

Be pleased that she's reading at all, even if it is JW. Fair to say that one of my DSs had to read one of hers (Tracy Beaker?) in Y6 and had to be dissuaded from writing an extremely sarcastic review for his homework.

Back in the day, though, they didn't have YA books. I dimly remember reading historical novels, science fiction and the odd classic (Jane Eyre, I think) at that age.

I became a teenager in 1989 and they were YA books - maybe not as many as there were now, but they were out there! Jean Ure, for example, was a popular British YA author who wrote some books for younger kids but also some that were very much not.

My favourite Jean Ure was The Other Side Of The Fence, about a middle-class teenager who has been thrown out by his parents and meets a homeless girl his own age who is escaping from an abusive relationship. They go to London and live in a scuzzy bedsit together (platonically, though, because as it's revealed later on, the reason the boy has been thrown out by his parents is because he's told them he's gay).

Demonhunter · 14/08/2024 15:22

I was a Stephen King reader, probably why I ended up so fascinated with the supernatural, demonic entities and the mind of psychotic humans. I'd recommend! 🤣

Toddlerteaplease · 14/08/2024 15:21

Member984815 · 14/08/2024 13:03

Could be worse she could be reading flowers in the attic like me at that age , my own dd read loads of jacqueline wilson I still have them , they are completely inappropriate looking back . Youngest daughter is horrified by the storylines

I read them when I was a teenager. Looking back, I can't believe how inappropriate they are.

NotSoHotMess24 · 14/08/2024 15:19

Greigeisthelatestbeige · 14/08/2024 14:57

Yet you’ve managed to come up with quite a few different possible t reasons, but you don’t understand the OP’s gripe. You are not coming across half as clever as you think you are.

Im not a fan of JW either OP. Reading the thread with interest.

Edited

Not saying there isn't a reason? Wondered which, if any, of those reasons was the one OP had in mind. Then people can answer with relevant points... No point arguing or agreeing about how "appropriate" it is, if the OP thinks their daughter should be brushing up on her GCSE physics. I'm getting the feeling there are a lot of things you have an interest in not being a fan of??

And fwiw, I am pretty clever 😊Unsure how much it was helped or hindered by reading JW as a girl.

Izzosaura · 14/08/2024 15:17

Member984815 · 14/08/2024 13:03

Could be worse she could be reading flowers in the attic like me at that age , my own dd read loads of jacqueline wilson I still have them , they are completely inappropriate looking back . Youngest daughter is horrified by the storylines

Inappropriate how?

Genuinely interested as loved them as a kid and can't think how they would be but perhaps I've blanked out plot details in my mind!

My understanding is they were written with a desire to depict kids in challenging situations grappling with challenging issues - to ensure that kids with all sorts of circumstances get representation and to encourage kids to be more empathetic about what others might be going through.

Had some of it dated really badly?

Justrolledmyeyesoutloud · 14/08/2024 15:17

My DD (reluctant reader) LOVES the Lottie Brookes books

Himawarigirl · 14/08/2024 15:17

I think it’s partly the cartoony covers that suggest they are lighter weight than they are. Many have some quite heavy themes or they’re set in historical periods which they then learn about. I’d take them over Percy Jackson any day, they are incredibly repetitive. But they did create a real love of history and myths in my son so I won’t complain about them either. I read constantly but at that age was working my way through all the babysitters club books and all the sweet valley high books. Hardly educational! But they’re all nurturing a love of reading.

ElleWoods15 · 14/08/2024 15:14

I was despairing of my 11yo DD who will only read Lottie Brooks and graphic novels the other day. My mum told me she’d similarly despaired of me at the same age as I’d only read the Chalet School, Trebizon etc, but my English teacher’s view was to just keep me reading whatever I chose- better than not reading (and the English teacher’s own child who was on the year above was obsessed with Jilly Cooper, so she thought Chalet School sounded a bit more appropriate 😂).

Like one of the PPs, I got an A at English A level and did a lit based degree, so it clearly didn’t do me any harm! I wouldn’t worry OP, just be glad she reads!

Snowdrop80 · 14/08/2024 15:06

What educational books were you hoping she would read over the summer holidays?! She’s 12 and at that age I’d just be happy that she’s reading and not spending all her time on tiktok.

I loved the JW books at that age and it hasn’t scarred me. I am still a bookworm now.

YesYesAllGood · 14/08/2024 15:05

C0rdeliaChase · 14/08/2024 14:14

I was reading Stephen King, Christopher Pike and Virginia Andrews when I was 12, so I'd say Jacqueline Wilson is quite tame.

Ah, Christopher Pike, loved those books too! 😄

Thesnoozingsighthound · 14/08/2024 15:02

@aodirjjd @Blarn After Junk, did you read Melvin Burgess' teen mash up of Norse myths and London gang warfare: Bloodsong?

I think I read that at 12ish and bloody hell It sticks in my mind as my introduction to what being hamstrung was 😱 Pretty sure there was some shape shifting incest in there too…

The Illustrated Mum seemed very tame after that!

Crispsarethebestfood · 14/08/2024 15:02

I was obsessed with Enid Blyton as a kid and my family had to endure hours of me pretending I lived in a boarding school (dad was the gardener, mum was matron etc). There are some very unfashionable views in those books but I’ve turned out alright.
As others have said; she’s reading and that’s a good thing. I love John Grisham books now. Hardly stretches my brain but that’s partly the appeal.

Rummly · 14/08/2024 15:00

Trinity65 · 14/08/2024 14:54

That is amazing
Well Done to your DD

Is she Lisa Jewell ? I ask as I love her books and bought a new one just Today. The Girls.

No. Her work is a sort of creative cross-over of Jackie Collins and Pam Ayres. It’s very niche.

Definitelyrandom · 14/08/2024 14:58

Be pleased that she's reading at all, even if it is JW. Fair to say that one of my DSs had to read one of hers (Tracy Beaker?) in Y6 and had to be dissuaded from writing an extremely sarcastic review for his homework.

Back in the day, though, they didn't have YA books. I dimly remember reading historical novels, science fiction and the odd classic (Jane Eyre, I think) at that age.

HowIrresponsible · 14/08/2024 14:58

Yes ffs let her enjoy it.

My mother was like this. Hated me liking stuff she didn't like and tried to put me off it.

It only intensified my interest.

TurquoiseDress · 14/08/2024 14:58

User478 · 14/08/2024 14:27

They were banned at my school (along with Mizz magazine) naturally that made sure we read every single one!

I would steer away from "Love Lessons" (the one with the teacher-pupil relationship which is not framed as grooming, and the pupil gets blamed for it in the end) and some of the very early ones like "Falling Apart" (main character attempts suicide)

I suspect it's a similar misogyny that makes books aimed at women "Chick-lit" and almost identical books with a male protagonist as "an interesting character study"

Mizz magazine!

Ha ha blast from the past

Reminds me of Just 17 and the much more racy More! magazine with its 'position of the fortnight'...lol we were 15/16 and not having sex with anyone

BobbyBiscuits · 14/08/2024 14:58

I read those. Along with Judy blum and Paula danziger. The less said about 'the babysitters club' the better. Not exactly Dostoyevsky is it.

I guess it's cool that kids now still read them though? I'm not familiar about current early teen authors I'm afraid.

godmum56 · 14/08/2024 14:57

Leafygreen84 · 14/08/2024 13:15

Oh ffs. She’s off school, give the poor girl a break.

this x 100

Greigeisthelatestbeige · 14/08/2024 14:57

NotSoHotMess24 · 14/08/2024 14:44

What aspect of JW do you object to?

As in, you think she should be reading up on chemistry?

Or, you think she should be reading books for adults, as JW too easy?

Or that they're somehow inappropriate?

Or that the stories she reads should be more varied, rather than by the one author?

Or something else?

I don't get what your gripe is...

Yet you’ve managed to come up with quite a few different possible t reasons, but you don’t understand the OP’s gripe. You are not coming across half as clever as you think you are.

Im not a fan of JW either OP. Reading the thread with interest.

MrsSunshine2b · 14/08/2024 14:56

I wouldn't say they are especially inappropriate for a 12 yo, they deal with many of the same themes you find in the secondary school RSE and PSCHE curriculums, but they are terribly written. I'm sure it's just a phase which will pass and she'll read something better one day.

EchoGreen · 14/08/2024 14:54

Snobbish and strange comments on this thread.

I read Jacqueline Wilson as a child. I’m still a voracious reader as an adult, and work as a writer, so it obviously didn’t hinder me.

My six year old reads Jacqueline Wilson. I don’t think they are inappropriate. They talk about real-life issues e.g., foster families. Anything my daughter doesn’t understand, she can chat about with me. Can’t abide the idea of certain books being inappropriate for children. I’d rather my kids learn about any topic through a book than the brain rot that is tiktok/social media.

Trinity65 · 14/08/2024 14:54

Rummly · 14/08/2024 14:53

No, that’s very MN pedestrian.

My daughter read Jacqueline Wilson and is now a best-selling author, Emeritus Professor of English Literature at Harvard and frankly a shoo-in for the Nobel Prize.

That is amazing
Well Done to your DD

Is she Lisa Jewell ? I ask as I love her books and bought a new one just Today. The Girls.

MK19590 · 14/08/2024 14:53

I was a massive JW fan as a child. My mum didn't approve of them (said they were sexist against men) but I wasn't an academic child at all much to her disappointment and she was glad I was reading at all

I'm horrified at the pedo teacher one though. Im sure that has to be out of print by now??

Rummly · 14/08/2024 14:53

meandkarmavibe · 14/08/2024 14:43

This makes me sound like the biggest MN arse of all time but I had a dc was obsessed with JW and is now reading English at Oxford so I wouldn't worry ...

No, that’s very MN pedestrian.

My daughter read Jacqueline Wilson and is now a best-selling author, Emeritus Professor of English Literature at Harvard and frankly a shoo-in for the Nobel Prize.