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To think this is why the high street is failing?

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MiamiWindMachine · 14/08/2024 11:03

I’m off on holiday in a couple of days, so thought I’d go up to the big shopping centre for a couple of last minute things.

In the massive H&M, all the tills bar one had been converted to self-service. The ones on the floor I was on were ALL closed. I went down to the lower floor and there was a huge queue, because no one could work out the machines. There was a step to remove security tags, and people couldn’t work out whether this was only for those plastic tags or if there was some flag on the barcodes for lower value items. Someone else was trying to process a return via these tills. When a member of staff eventually appeared, she confirmed returns could only be processed at a manned till. The customer pointed out that there were no manned tills. The staff member had no idea who to ask about it, then disappeared to find someone, so the queue was getting even longer.

I was on the way out about 15 minutes before closing time and went past M&S. I thought “I wonder if the Bureau de Change is still open” and went to check. The woman saw me approach and had a pained look on her face, saying “Arrgghh, I’ve just cashed uuuppp!” I was a bit taken aback, but said “Oh well, never mind. What time do you close, for future reference?” She then reluctantly admitted that she was supposed to be open until 8, but said “But I do start cashing up at around 7.30”. I was about to ask why when she started saying, “It’s fine; I’ll do it, I’ll do it”, like she was doing me a massive favour. I tried to pay on Revolut and she said “We can’t take those cards!”, as if it was somehow obvious. I asked about Apple Pay and she said, “No, it has to be a proper bank card or credit card”. I therefore went to pay with my credit card and she said, “You do know we have to charge a fee for these, don’t you?” I said I didn’t have a choice given she’d rejected two other payment methods.

I then went down to foods to grab a ready meal and some wine. I went to a manned till as I had alcohol and the girl said, “Oh, could you go to the self-service? It’s just that I’m closing this one”. I asked about the alcohol and she said, “I can approve that from here; it’s just that it’s easier for me”.

I feel like we’re constantly told in the media “Use it or lose it” re: the high street; how sad it would be if we lost the personal touch. From what I could see yesterday, one store has done everything possible to eliminate personal interaction, while in the other, the staff are more bothered about their convenience than the customers’. Is it any wonder that people would rather click a couple of buttons to get something delivered?

OP posts:
Whynottrythis · 14/08/2024 19:34

Seeline · 14/08/2024 11:19

I am perfectly capable of using self checkout. I just don't see the point. The other day I had 5 items and had to call the assistant over 4 times. The machine won't accept an empty shopping bag without staff approval, I had alcohol and paracetamol, the birthday card wouldn't register in the bagging area.

The trolley self checkout area is too small and not everyone can place the trollies near their till. The bagging area is too small for a full trolley so things keep falling off. The bagging area is also at a ridiculously low level and I have a bad back which makes it impossible for me to use. Then you have all the issues of the standard self checkout.

And there are never enough staff to man the area with everyone needing multiple assists.

If shops want to convert to self checkout, at least make sure the systems and facilities are capable of running the service in the first place!

I agree with this. To me, the self-checkouts are such an infuriating experience I avoid them like the plague.

suburburban · 14/08/2024 19:33

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 14/08/2024 19:01

Yes, @taxguru is right. It's like when people complain about lack of butcher, green grocer etc.... My dad was talking about this the other day. He grew up in London during and after the war. His point was that his mum had to stop and do the shopping for the night on the way home from work because they didn't have a large kitchen and they certainly didn't have refrigeration. So the local butcher and baker and all the rest of it was needed and it was all walkable - between the bus stop and home and with one bag of shopping for one night's food. But his mother, who was a keen cook but also had a full time job, was thrilled when she could buy a fridge and abandon daily shopping.

Also not many people had cars

taxguru · 14/08/2024 19:28

MzHz · 14/08/2024 19:05

I suppose if you’re outside of a city etc, somewhere really rural, no phone signal etc (some remote parts of Sicily apparently) then yeah, suppose so. Fair point

it’s the bloody shrapnel coins that end up being such a nuisance

There'll be fewer and fewer places without a mobile signal as time passes. The analogue phone network is being shut down over the next few years, so all phones will have to be digital/internet. That opens up the way for mobile signals in places where there isn't currently a mobile internet signal. Having said that, the mobile network is also being expanded and improved with 5g etc. Within a few years, there won't be anywhere that can't get the internet, not even remote places. For the very few most remotest of places, there'll be satellite such as Starlink. People living/working will need the internet wherever they live and work, so provision will have to be made for them, for residential and business premises. Not having access to the internet won't be an option.

the80sweregreat · 14/08/2024 19:27

Where I live it's not just the high street that is dying out it's the night life too. I have sons in their late 20s who rarely go out and when they do it's never that busy and the night clubs are shutting everywhere. Hospitality seems to be suffering too.
I agree op that finding anyone to actually serve you anymore is difficult too

MrsWinkly · 14/08/2024 19:24

BigDayAhead · 14/08/2024 18:37

I love shopping of all kinds.

I like browsing online and ordering several items and then keeping what fits. Over time, I have learned what shapes and sizes suit me.

I loved the older ‘real’ shops too. Does anyone remember the chaos of Foyles bookshop on Charing Cross Road, or the Hyper Hyper shop in Kensington?

In regards to modern high street shopping, I will never not be excited and amazed by the Uniqlo tills. Forgive me!

I remember Hyper - used to get my DMs from there and then pop down the road to the cinema! Memories 😁

taxguru · 14/08/2024 19:22

MzHz · 14/08/2024 19:05

I suppose if you’re outside of a city etc, somewhere really rural, no phone signal etc (some remote parts of Sicily apparently) then yeah, suppose so. Fair point

it’s the bloody shrapnel coins that end up being such a nuisance

I think we'll see the end of small coins within the next few years. There's no need for them really anymore. I'd imagine we're pretty close to only needing the 50p and £1 coin as there's not much denominated in less than 50p these days. With another few years of inflation, we could be close to things being in multiples of £1 as minimum. Maybe in a decade's time, all we'd "need" would be £1 coins. All the smaller coins can be withdrawn, maybe the 1p, 2p and 5p could be withdrawn now with everything rounded to 10p. And then 10p and 20p withdrawn in say 5 years time with everything rounded to 50p and so on.

Wouldn't surprise me if all coins were withdrawn within 20 years or so, with the £5 note being the minimum currency denomination for cash transactions.

MzHz · 14/08/2024 19:05

MiamiWindMachine · 14/08/2024 13:42

I like to have some cash at least. You never know if everywhere will take cards.

I suppose if you’re outside of a city etc, somewhere really rural, no phone signal etc (some remote parts of Sicily apparently) then yeah, suppose so. Fair point

it’s the bloody shrapnel coins that end up being such a nuisance

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 14/08/2024 19:01

Yes, @taxguru is right. It's like when people complain about lack of butcher, green grocer etc.... My dad was talking about this the other day. He grew up in London during and after the war. His point was that his mum had to stop and do the shopping for the night on the way home from work because they didn't have a large kitchen and they certainly didn't have refrigeration. So the local butcher and baker and all the rest of it was needed and it was all walkable - between the bus stop and home and with one bag of shopping for one night's food. But his mother, who was a keen cook but also had a full time job, was thrilled when she could buy a fridge and abandon daily shopping.

taxguru · 14/08/2024 18:57

We also shouldn't forget that town centres dominated by retail was a very short term thing. People used to live in town centres and there were all kinds of workplace in the town centre, such as breweries, printworks, factories, car garages, warehouses, cinemas/theatres, professional offices, etc., as well as a huge range of shops, big and small, independent and chains. It was the 70s and 80s when retail took over, particularly chain stores moved in which forced out the smaller independents. At the same time "non retail" moved out to industrial estates etc., and with the closure of small independent shops, the "living" accommodation above got abandoned as the ground floor shops were knocked together for the bigger chains.

Come the 90s and 00s, "High St" retail suffered by the out of town supermarkets, retail parks, shopping mall, etc.

Then into the 10's and 20's, a further kick in the teeth was online shopping.

It's all evolution. But the High Street of 20 years ago was absolutely nothing like the High Street of 40 years ago. Big chains killed off smaller independents and now the internet and big supermarkets are killing off those chains. As I say, it's evolution. Town centres need to get back to being where people can live and work, and harking back to the days of retail dominance isn't the answer. As a few people have said, Universities are breathing new life into lots of town centres, mainly because the students live in them rather than on out of town housing estates so are within easy walking distance of bars, cafes, and other amenities.

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 14/08/2024 18:55

MrsSunshine2b · 14/08/2024 18:46

But that's not what's happened. People have given up faffing around with "Unknown item detected in basket, please wait for assistance," and so on and just order online, and then the shops say, "Oh, come and use your high street, the shops are empty and we can't survive."

If I want to learn to use new technology I'll take a course. I didn't go to the shops for an IT lesson.

I think you're missing a key point - it's much much cheaper and better for Sainsburys or whatever for you to do your shopping online. They can store the bulk of their items in cheaper, out of the way places and not in expensive towns. They don't need to worry about the same "user experience" of a store - ie good flooring and lighting and nicely labelled shelving etc. They don't have to have loads of employees. They can control stock better - eg, so many of us will actively look for the longest use-by date on milk and leave those with only 3 or 4 days behind. Some of that gets wasted. They don't have that problem online - their online packers are taking the stuff that is closest to use by first. Every time. etc etc etc.

There are some benefits to them if you shop in person such as spontaneous shopping etc - but even that is being cleverly managed online. And even more importantly, they can adapt what they offer you at the checkout online so that you a) are more likely to buy because it's the kind of stuff you like and b) they can manage their stock better by showing you discounts on things that are close to expiy or whatever.

So no, the shops don't want you to come in. They provide the service because they have a large enough customer base who wants/needs it and because it's helpful to their overall brand and marketing. But it's not something they do because they WANT you to shop there.

User79853257976 · 14/08/2024 18:51

YANBU

I left Tesco because no one came when the self service machine messed up. I just left all my items because I was fed up.

TheyreStillGoingWithThemPlumsKerr · 14/08/2024 18:48

BigDayAhead · 14/08/2024 18:37

I love shopping of all kinds.

I like browsing online and ordering several items and then keeping what fits. Over time, I have learned what shapes and sizes suit me.

I loved the older ‘real’ shops too. Does anyone remember the chaos of Foyles bookshop on Charing Cross Road, or the Hyper Hyper shop in Kensington?

In regards to modern high street shopping, I will never not be excited and amazed by the Uniqlo tills. Forgive me!

This thread is giving me many trips down memory lane! I used to love Hyper Hyper. Still have a couple of tops from there (bit musty now, but can’t bring myself to throw them). And Kensington Market across the road

Alltheunreadbooks · 14/08/2024 18:46

MistressoftheDarkSide · 14/08/2024 17:03

And they do it online........

The Chinese students in my city keep the city centre going.

They are the ones with the money, the ones that use the market to but fresh produce instead of one of the chains. They buy from the pricey independents .

I don't know how non university towns cope .

MrsSunshine2b · 14/08/2024 18:46

taxguru · 14/08/2024 15:23

Because they're not going away any time soon. If you don't keep up with changing tech etc then you'll end up left behind.

But that's not what's happened. People have given up faffing around with "Unknown item detected in basket, please wait for assistance," and so on and just order online, and then the shops say, "Oh, come and use your high street, the shops are empty and we can't survive."

If I want to learn to use new technology I'll take a course. I didn't go to the shops for an IT lesson.

Bideshi · 14/08/2024 18:46

NeedSomeAnswersPlease · 14/08/2024 12:39

@GoldenLegend no, ignorant. They're incredibly simple and there's no reason why the vast majority of the population can't use them.

I don't think you what ignorant means. I'm not remotely ignorant. I'm very clever and carry a huge amount of data of all sorts in my brain. I am well read and an expert in my field. Can't be arsed to use the self-scanner though.
Pig-headed, maybe?

WearyAuldWumman · 14/08/2024 18:44

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 14/08/2024 17:53

The issues of high streets are a lot more complex than most people on this thread are discussing. As a few posters have pointed out - a lot of the things we're seeing now are symptoms of the bigger changes but the problem is that our high streets haven't adapted for this sufficiently.

So online has lots of advantages - variety and choice being a key one, as well as convenience. This means that in store shopping needs to meet a very specific purpose. I suspect this is partly why we're seeing new shopping districts prioritising higher end or specialist retail - look at Battersea Power Station for example.

Town centres also haven't figured out the shift so rents are still exorbitant, often based on high levels of footfall and physically large stores. But again, that's simply not practical. Let's take me shopping for DS 13 - most of what he wears is cheap and cheerful t-shirts and trackies, which we can buy online anywhere. When there's a bit more cash on offer, he likes a Nike t-shirt or similar. Most of this I can do online as well. The things we do in person are, for example, when for his birthday he wants a "proper" Nike trackie - those are harder to assess and check for sizing online, and they're expensive. So we go into our locak JD Sport or similar. I don't think it's a co-incidence that these stores have loads of shoes, loads of trackies and a fair number of t-shirts, but not the variety that they offer online - the stuff people are happy to buy online, stay online. This allows the in-person store to be smaller and more compact, with lower rents. Our local shopping mall has two massive empty spaces - I suspect because they can't find anyone to replace the department store and the large H&M that used to use those spaces. If they split it into multiple spaces, perhaps they'd have more luck?

Then food. Again, many of us do our big shops online. So why do we use in-person stores? For some it's because they don't like online - often older or with some mobility issues or because it's not practical for them with their lifestyles. These people are therefore more likely to find doing their shopping at a big superstore, outside of town, a bit easier - parking in disabled spaces near to the door, plenty of choice, options for mobility etc. For others, instore is because they have specific needs and preferences in terms of food types/quality and for others it's about speed - even Amazon Fresh can't always deliver on the day. I don't think it's surprising therefore that the smaller supermarkets are often popular and even less so that we're seeing a proliferation of Waitrose and M&S in these sort of situations because people ewant to whip in and grab some nibbles and a pizza vs going in to bulk buy Persil - almost every one of our local garages now has either a mini Waitrose or a mini M&S. A few have a Tesco or a generic brand, but it's fewer and fewer all the time because it's the Waitrose and M&S that people want when they're doing mini-shops.

Then there's transport. As people have said - we don't live in our town centres, and too often public transport isn't reliable or sufficient but parking is expensive. And then once these shoppers do arrive, it's often spread out and/or congested and unpleasant to navigate. Again, town centres have to accept that things are changing - if people ARE coming into town, they want it to be a useful and pleasant experience. Towns have to get this right if they want to see changes.

So, in brief, my point is that the way we want to use high streets is changing and the shops/high streets have to change with us, and that's simply not happening fast enough.

There's a village high street where our children do their extra curricular activities that is absolutely BOOMING. They've completely nailed so many of these issues. All the stores are physically small which I assume keeps rents down. They have a mix of independent and chains providing things that people WANT to buy in person and want to browse in OR that are more convenient in a quick in-person trip. A huge variety of cafes and restaurants so everyone is catered to. The high street itself is easy to navigate with wide pavements and few roads to cross, and where you do need to cross, there are plenty of options. There is a butcher and a greengrocer which are expensive, but they can get away with it because foot traffic is huge so they get a lot of people who are willing to pay, and the ones that aren't, go to one of the supermarkets (that are not overwhelmingly large). Parking is accessible and not over the top expensive. Its becoming so popular that more and more I hear of people driving there from neighbouring villages and not just because they're in the area for some other purpose or live locally. The locals are starting to complain! Grin

There's similar here. There's a village a dozen miles away that has a Co-op supermarket, a cafe, a butcher's and a greengrocer's side by side. People drive there to use the cafe, the butcher's and the greengrocer's and the Co-op benefits from the footfall.

TheyreStillGoingWithThemPlumsKerr · 14/08/2024 18:41

allaloneandlost · 14/08/2024 16:12

It was very quirky and glad somebody else remembers, the strawberry scrunch is unrivalled! The Sanctuary was lovely as well.

I was just racking my brain trying to remember the name of that gorgeous pudding they did. Strawberry scrunch!
I used to work as a beauty therapist at the Sanctuary! Another lost gem (I’d long gone by then, but think the rent became astronomical)

Alltheunreadbooks · 14/08/2024 18:41

MiamiWindMachine · 14/08/2024 11:19

The woman cashing up at 7:30 probably doesn’t get paid past her shift so why wait?

Because the service is supposed to be available until 8.

I know it's not your problem, but if cashing up takes her 15 -20 mins then she's obviously going to be annoyed if she can only start doing that 8pm.

Some retailers do pay staff for opening and closing though, knowing realistically each takes about 15 minutes .

I'd have thought M&S would be one of these to be honest.

WearyAuldWumman · 14/08/2024 18:39

MorvernBlack · 14/08/2024 17:16

It's not the card payments, but the need for a bricks and mortar bank to transfer money, arrange direct debits etc, pay bills. Or deal with other problems. The nearest is 15 miles away.
Neither of my patents 70 and 80s will bank online, Dad is incapable and Mum is terrified of scams and not knowing what is genuine online. Neither have had jobs using technology.
My mum uses cards happily.
I can't believe some people are so ignorant in believing that they're alright jack, sod anyone else.
A lady I work with only has a feature phone, she doesn't use computers or anything like that, she probably has a mild learning disability, but has always managed until now. Again she is struggling with online systems.

Yup. You get to a certain stage where you simply cannot cope with new tech.

I think people possibly only realise that when they've experienced it themselves or have seen a family member or friend struggling.

I can cope with a certain amount of tech, but some things are now just too much. My late husband was older than me. He used a debit card, but didn't trust credit cards. I got one at a point when certain hotels would only accept a credit card and not a debit card for some reason. (That was more than 20 years ago.)

I live in a terraced block of three houses. I'm in my 60s, but the youngest homeowner here. During lockdown all three women in this block became widows. (No Covid deaths.)

One woman had her daughter able to organise everything for her. My neighbour and her sons are dyslexic and couldn't cope with doing everything online. Fortunately, lockdown had just ended, so I was allowed to take her down to the funeral parlour.

My husband died at the point where we were only allowed 20 to a funeral. Everything had to be done via phone, email or online. (The one exception was signing the form to say that I'd pay for the funeral - funnily enough, I had to do that in person at the funeral parlour and then had to pay upfront.)

It took me all my time, in spite of the fact that I had previous experience of organising funerals. It sounds stupid, but having to access an online catalogue for coffins was dreadful. It's bad enough when you're sitting at the undertaker's looking through a catalogue, but at least you can ask a human being questions then. When you're in a state like that, coping with an online catalogue really isn't so easy.

BigDayAhead · 14/08/2024 18:37

I love shopping of all kinds.

I like browsing online and ordering several items and then keeping what fits. Over time, I have learned what shapes and sizes suit me.

I loved the older ‘real’ shops too. Does anyone remember the chaos of Foyles bookshop on Charing Cross Road, or the Hyper Hyper shop in Kensington?

In regards to modern high street shopping, I will never not be excited and amazed by the Uniqlo tills. Forgive me!

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 14/08/2024 18:35

@Nadeed I just did a very quick google research and I see that cameras, whether used by people or AI, are supposed to look for behaviours, mannerisms etc vs profiling although I wonder if some profiling, based on actual data (vs vague impressions people have), might be overlaid as well? It's interesting, I don't know. Also that some even use face recognition technology (not sure how that would work).

suburburban · 14/08/2024 18:32

@ComeOnThenFanny

Exactly

Its another inconvenience

Whothefuckdoesthat · 14/08/2024 18:31

MiamiWindMachine · 14/08/2024 11:19

The woman cashing up at 7:30 probably doesn’t get paid past her shift so why wait?

Because the service is supposed to be available until 8.

And in the days when retailers treated their staff like human beings, she’d probably have been only too happy to wait until after closing to start cashing up, in addition to coming in 15 minutes early each day to sort all the cash out ready to start serving at opening time. But in the days where staff are expected to do twice as much work for half the pay, are given zero support from their managers and are generally treated like shit, why would she choose to give them an extra 45 minutes each day, free of charge? I can’t say I blame her.

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 14/08/2024 18:29

Nadeed · 14/08/2024 18:24

@IdLikeToBeAFraser I wonder if they racially profile?

Sorry, hadn't seen this when I answered originally. To answer your question, I don't know. From a technology perspective, I am sure they have loads of data on what kind of people are higher risk and more likely to be stealing. So, theoretically, using technology and good datasets would get a profile that is far more accurate than some kind of slightly dodgy instinctive "black teenagers are the worst" that we sadly so often see.

I mean, I'm assuming that to use my Boots example, teenage girls of any race are the highest risk for petty thieving. I have no idea in a supermarket. I do know that around here, many of our smaller stores now keep the more expensive high ticket items like meat away from the main shelves as they found the theft is so high. I'd like to think that it's people who are desperate vs a particular age/race/gender but I have no idea. It would be very interesting to see data on this.

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 14/08/2024 18:26

Nadeed · 14/08/2024 18:23

@IdLikeToBeAFraser That is interesting. It explains why some people are checked all the time and others rarely.

Yes - it happens in "real life" too. Stores like Boots are a good place to watch it happening. Check out the security guards in the areas where the cosmetics are... they will often profile/target specific people who they think look "dodgy" and follow them around because shop lifting of small items is so prevalent (teenagers are particularly concerning for them). The bigger stores like Waitrose or Asda or Sainsbury are moving to doing this with technology but the basic premise of profiling to understand who is supposedly riskier, remains. I have no idea HOW sophisticated it is so far, but I imagine it will get more and more sophisticated very quickly.