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Who is the CF, me or the beauty salon?

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superdelooper · 13/08/2024 07:41

Last week my DM was talking about getting powder ombre brows done. My friend had them done, and they are lovely, so asked friend for the salon details so I could contact them for DM.
I reached out to the salon via WhatsApp on Friday (there is no online booking or website) and someone responded immediately with details and an appointment time for this week (Thursday).
All good, fairly reasonable pricing and DM was happy to go ahead and get me to book. There was a £50 booking fee, which I paid, with the balance to be paid at the appointment.
Within an hour of making the booking DM realised she had forgotten about the blood thinners she takes and after a bit of google searching, we realised she needed at least a week off the thinners before she could safely have her eyebrows done. I reached out to the salon again and they assured me she would be fine to continue with the booking, even while still taking the thinners. DM is in her 70's and we didn't want to risk it and requested to cancel the booking. Salon again said it would be fine (these messages have since been deleted by salon) but I insisted we cancelled and apologised. Fine, booking cancelled. I then asked for the booking fee to be refunded. Salon refused stating this booking fee was 'non refundable'.
When we made the initial booking she sent a message with bank details and a note about things to do/not do prior to the appointment. It also stated there was a £50 'booking fee', no mention of this being non refundable.
Who is in the wrong here? We tried asking politely for the fee to be refunded as it seems like a lot to be charged for an appointment we booked and cancelled within an hour, DM would have been happy to pay a small admin fee but £50 is a quarter of what the eyebrows would have cost to have done.

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superdelooper · 13/08/2024 08:04

Doingmybest12 · 13/08/2024 08:01

I am not sure I'd want to go to a Salon that tried to persuade me to have the treatment against advice. On this basis I'd want my money back.

This is why we did not ask to reschedule.

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Sethera · 13/08/2024 08:01

Did you ask them about postponing the appointment rather than cancelling?

If there is a 'booking fee' 'admin charge' or 'deposit' attached to booking something, I always assume it is non-refundable otherwise what would be the point of having it? You might as well pay the whole balance on the day. It's so they are not totally out of pocket if you cancel and in the meantime they have turned away other bookings.

Doingmybest12 · 13/08/2024 08:01

I am not sure I'd want to go to a Salon that tried to persuade me to have the treatment against advice. On this basis I'd want my money back.

planAplanB · 13/08/2024 08:00

The £50 is to stop people messing them around. Surely you can just rebook a different date?

Also, are you seriously paying £200 for eyebrows?!?!???

Superhansrantowindsor · 13/08/2024 07:57

First post spot on.
But I’m going to be that poster who expresses bemusement that someone would stop pretty vital sounding medicine for a beauty treatment that sounds hideously expensive and pointless.

Shawdee · 13/08/2024 07:56

I mean if I was already £50 in and she's seen the job they do and likes it....why wouldn't she use them?

superdelooper · 13/08/2024 07:51

She is willing to come off them for a week but not with this salon now. It just seemed like a lot to pay when we cancelled almost immediately once we realised.

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Shawdee · 13/08/2024 07:50

I think if they didn't state it was non refundable they are being a bit unfair, especially if it was all done within the hour. And to delete messages saying her treatment will be fine shows they are shite.

MiddleParking · 13/08/2024 07:46

Just to be clear OP - is your mum willing to have a week off the blood thinners and then get her eyebrows done? Or is she just wanting to forget the whole thing? In the latter case I’m not sure you’ve got any grounds for recourse tbh.

StormingNorman · 13/08/2024 07:44

First post nailed it.

MrsPerfect12 · 13/08/2024 07:43

The salon should move the booking but not refund. That's the point in a booking fee - to cut out the time wasters