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To think people at work shouldn't ask 'what happened to your hand?'

307 replies

StarShineHello · 12/08/2024 18:55

Currently have a bandage on my hand due to a skin infection. I have bad eczema which got infected and in a very bad state.

I've had to wrap it up because it's just so gross to see.

Today five different people have asked me what's wrong with my hand.

I don't want to explain my medical issues to strangers.

I understand there's a level of small talk in the bank/shop/post office but to ask someone a medical question just seems rude? It was every shop I went in.

And I just lied and said I burnt myself because I didn't want to go into details about infected skin and my eczema.

AIBU to think people in general shouldn't ask things like that and especially in a professional capacity? It's common sense to not point out something 'wrong' with a customer??

OP posts:
mitogoshi · 12/08/2024 19:02

They are worried about you, most people would think injury hence asking. Don't be offended

devildeepbluesea · 12/08/2024 19:01

Oh come on. People will be curious. This is just ridiculous. Just say you had an accident if you don’t want to go into detail?

OraettaMayflower · 12/08/2024 19:00

You’re right it’s slightly personal. Have some fun with it. Tell people you were bitten by a tarantula, it happened feeding my piranhas or a lion scratched you

ComealongMartha · 12/08/2024 19:00

Of course people will ask. They are curious and some probably are worried.

You don’t have to tell them but it’s ridiculous to think that people won’t ask.

PetrichorSoul · 12/08/2024 19:00

YABU.

A visible injury would prompt people to ask what happened. It’s natural curiosity rather than nosiness.

I’d ask you.

Aheadfullofwords · 12/08/2024 19:00

Honestly, I think it's just natural curiosity to ask/be curious. However, if they push further after a simple answer; wanting to know the ins and outs, then I would say it's not appropriate.

Thunderboltandlightningveryveryfrighteningg · 12/08/2024 18:56

Ds being an angry teen smashed a mirror. Needed surgery. Told everyone he was bitten by a shark. Practice a stoney face and tell them that op.