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To book a 6 person lodge for myself?

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MaryRoze · 12/08/2024 12:29

One of my favourite things to do since escaping my controlling ex is to get away by myself for a couple of nights, somewhere remote with a good view, a hot tub, where I can just relax and recharge.

I've found a lovely site that has a few 2 person glamping pods, and 2 self-catering cottages. One cottage sleeps 4, the other sleeps 6. I dithered over both of them but decided to go for the 6 person lodge as it has nicer facilities, bigger kitchen, nicer views, and an enclosed garden for if I decide to bring my dog with me.

I've just received an email from the company asking me to clarify it's just for me. I've said yes. They've come back and said it's a busy time of year for them (October), so would I like to have one of the glamping pods instead as the cottages are really for bigger parties only.

I've had another look on their website and can see now it says they charge a fixed rate for 2 people, and for each additional person it's an extra £50 per person, per night! So they're obviously thinking they can make more money out of a bigger party rather than just me on my own.

I haven't specified this to them yet but I was planning on paying extra for early check in (£30), bringing the dog (£25), and a bottle of fizzy on arrival (£40). So it's not like they won't be getting their moneys worth out of me.

AIBU to book the larger property just for me?

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TheOnlyLivingBoyInNewCross · 12/08/2024 12:35

They’re being cheeky!

You could explain the reasons you’ve given here for booking the bigger lodge and ask whether they can guarantee a glamping pod which satisfies all those criteria. And when they say no - you can simply 🤷‍♀️ and continue with your booked accommodation!

lmhj · 12/08/2024 12:35

I would be going elsewhere.

OpizpuHeuvHiyo · 12/08/2024 12:34

Yanbu

Just reply and say you chose that because it had the enclosed garden for your dog and you want space and comfort to relax rather than being in the rather cramped conditions of a glamping pod where you are standing right by your bed as you cook.

Your money is as good as the next person's. You've paid the advertised rate and it's not reasonable of them to shift the goalposts now. If they only want 6 person groups they should whack the cost up by £200 and get rid of the extra charge per-person but they can't do that retrospectively.

JabbaTheBeachHut · 12/08/2024 12:34

Go for it but it sounds like they might refuse your booking.

No harm in trying though.

olympicsrock · 12/08/2024 12:34

YANBU to ask to book it.
TANBU to decline if they think they can book a larger group and make more money.

YANBU to refuse a glamping pod instead. Take your money elsewhere if they don’t want it.

MabelMaybe · 12/08/2024 12:33

No, if you're willing to pay for the accommodation. Because of the large age gap between our DC, we tend to book 6 sleeper accommodation, because it will have 3 bedrooms, although there are only 4 of us. sometimes we've had to pay a supplement because we're under-occupying.

I see no reason for you not to have the accommodation you're happy to pay for though. "Thank you for your email, but I will be bringing a dog, and so need the contained garden with this accommodation, and will be paying for early check in and a bottle of fizz, which will help cover cots associated with it being let under occupied" might do the trick. A rental is a rental, they may not get the big group coming along.

WonderingWanda · 12/08/2024 12:33

Cheeky twats, you are not being unreasonable. Why don't they just charge for the unit rather than per person.

ArchieStar · 12/08/2024 12:31

Go for it! I certainly would if I had the money