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To think it's ok to want to travel at 70mph on the motorway...

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JacquesHarlow · 12/08/2024 10:51

...or am I now completely unreasonable, and the Highway Code is irrelevant?

Hear me out if you will:

I have done a LOT of driving in the past two weeks. M1, A1, A23, M25, M40, M6, you name it.

I am middle aged, F, live in Surrey, for what any of that is worth. I am also it seems one of the stranger folk...in that when I join a motorway, I drive at 70mph on the dot. I also stay in the left lane until overtaking.

AIBU for doing this?

It seems so, judging by the habits of hundreds of road users I encountered, who come onto the motorway and automatically slide into lane 3 of 4, or lane 2 of 3. And sit there for absolutely ages, at around 60 mph.

I kid you not, 60mph.

It's maddening. I am driving at 70mph, in lane 1. It is clear in front of me.

Next to me is someone doing 60 mph. I know this because I am coming up on them quickly. I cannot however undertake them - this is against the Highway Code.

So I indicate, check it's clear, move out to lane 2 behind them. I then look to move to lane 3 to overtake.

Only I can't move over to lane 3, because there is someone doing 60 (or maybe less), right alongside them. Not overtaking, just cruising next to them in their own little lane.

So I indicate again, move out to lane 4. Where of course it takes me 30 seconds or so to overtake, at which point someone is barrelling down on me wanting to do 80mph in their private fast lane. (I'm fine with this, I assert my right to overtake legally etc).

So that's three lane changes to overtake two cars who due to their speed (and the highway code's rules) should be sitting in lane 1.

Why do people do this?

I notice that when I've brought this up years ago on here, or when I've spoken to folk in real life, people often say

"It's more dangerous to do all that 'weaving about' than stay in a lane"
"I'm not going to get trapped in a lorry sandwich"
"People join constantly on motorways and I don't want to have to move over"

OK, great.

So you're going to make me change three lanes, just because you want your own little personal bubble on the motorway, and are happy to be a rolling roadblock?

I think middle lane hoggers are not only selfish, but actually dangerous.

But AIBU?

OP posts:
Oblomov24 · 12/08/2024 14:39

I find this a lot. Drives me crackers.

Uglyandgrumpy · 12/08/2024 14:38

Timeturnerplease · 12/08/2024 13:04

I must admit that I find my natural motorway speed is 80mph, which I’m aware is above the speed limit before anyone points that out. I try to stay slower but it’s too easy to speed up if you’re not watching the speedometer constantly. However, I’d argue that an 80mph driver observing the lane discipline customs is a lot safer than a 60mph driver sitting in the middle lane, causing others to have to weave around them.

It’s clear that lots of people aren’t confident driving on the motorway; DH for one. I grew up being ferried 200 miles between my parents’ houses and driving to Alpine ski resorts so am comfortable with multiples lanes and higher speeds. Poor DH goes into ex firefighter ‘I’ve seen loads of accidents’ mode and ends up being a 60mph danger out of sheer worry.

It would be sensible for the law surrounding motorway lanes to form part of the driving theory test, then for a motorway lesson to be mandatory before the final full driving licence can be issued after passing the main test.

whatever anyone else says, i agree 80 is much safer than 60, although i keep to 77 nowadays which is above the slow ones.
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Inlaw · 12/08/2024 14:37

@Zimunya

In the majority of other countries I've driven in, the equivalent of the left lane is for lorries, trucks, very slow moving vehicles, and people leaving / joining the motorway; the middle lane is for those doing a decent clip; and the right lane is the fast lane - mainly used for high speeds and overtaking.

This is what 99% of uk drivers think and do.

This is a bizarre MN phenomenon and not reflective of how the majority drive in UK roads.

I wouldn't worry about it. Although occasionally you do see one in the wild. Where it's best to just wait for them to finish whatever it is they are doing then try to speed up a bit so your not permanently stuck in their vicinity.

Wrennyjenwren · 12/08/2024 14:37

I just undertake and make sure to give them a good glare as I go past.

Worst for me is lorry drivers who don't understand a 50 limit. They insist on still cruising along at 60, so they get right up my arse and flash at me. Gives me the rage.

Towelin · 12/08/2024 14:35

I have several times driven in lane 1, seeing a car in the distance on an empty motorway in lane 3 / furthest right lane. So I've stuck to my speed and undertook in lane 1. And then in my rear view mirror, can still see them trogging along in lane 3 as I disappear into the distance on a still empty motorway. Ridiculous.

Everyoneesleistheproblem · 12/08/2024 14:34

MeYouAndAQuestion · 12/08/2024 14:18

Scary to think so many people think it's ok to undertake unless in the already mentioned case where the traffic is all travelling at the same congested pace and where it is SAFE to do so. It is not typically safe to undertake as the cars you are undertaking will not be expecting you to do so and you will be in their blind spot. People are stupid if they think that it's safe and it worrying that people with police links think it's ok.
Would anyone seriously think it's safe to undertake a lorry?
I'd rather overtake the middle lane hoggers by overtaking them normally. It's hardly a hardship and much better than causing an accident.

It perfectly clear in the Highway Code. I don't understand why people are confused.

The cars in the middle lane don't care what's happening in the inside though, that's the problem.
I would happily let them pull into the lane in front of me. They don't. You can go miles waiting for the person in the middle lane to finish the manoeuvred of overtaking and they don't. There's no accidents because they have no intention of moving. Nothing to do with blind spots - both mirrors have them.

Zimunya · 12/08/2024 14:33

This is intriguing. 11 pages in and posters can't completely agree on passing and overtaking (are they different / the same?) Add to this that in the summer there will be many visitors from other countries, and many EU countries do not make the difference between overtaking and passing, and it's no wonder that everyone is upset. As a British person who did not grow up in the UK, the driving in the left lane rule appears quite dangerous to me. As other posters have said - weaving between other moving vehicles to "overtake" when you can simply "pass" in your own lane seems crazy. In the majority of other countries I've driven in, the equivalent of the left lane is for lorries, trucks, very slow moving vehicles, and people leaving / joining the motorway; the middle lane is for those doing a decent clip; and the right lane is the fast lane - mainly used for high speeds and overtaking. Everyone weaving back in into the left lane between trucks and vehicles doing wildly differing speeds strikes me as dangerous.

I do it here, as it is the law - but I'm not convinced it's the safest way to organise a motorway.

pleasehelpwi3 · 12/08/2024 14:31

Agree with post. Lane discipline in this country is awful!
So bad I'm surprised the DM hasn't blamed Labour for it yet!

Towelin · 12/08/2024 14:29

JudgeJ · 12/08/2024 11:08

I would agree but I wonder what would be the ruling if the idiot in the middle lane decided to pull into the left lane as I was passing?

This is why I always move out, and out again to overtake the middle laner. They are clearly so unobservant and/or ignorant, that the chances of them suddenly moving back to the 'correct' lane for their speed but with no idea I am there is worryingly high. Which I guess is why the no undertaking rule in freely moving traffic is part of the highway code.

Hayliebells · 12/08/2024 14:28

Every driver, regardless of speed, is unreasonably to just sit in the middle lane (or outer lane, as I've seen some do). All lanes other than the inside lane are for overtaking, and overtaking only. But plenty of people drive like twats, so I'm not surprised.

Uglyandgrumpy · 12/08/2024 14:28

LlamaNoDrama · 12/08/2024 14:21

@Uglyandgrumpy I imagine you'd be more like to get stopped for your speeding

No, 77 on the speedo is circa 74 in real life which is a tiny bit over the limit but so much safer due to bad drivers who are unaware of watching speed, it is forced upon me.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 12/08/2024 14:25

Moier · 12/08/2024 11:01

It's illegal to hog/ cruise in the middle lane .
Last week on the local news a reporter was out and about asking people about this and 89% didn't know . Said they like to cruise at @ 60mph in the middle lane .
They should be cameras capturing and giving them fines.

No it's not

Everyoneesleistheproblem · 12/08/2024 14:24

I hear you Op and my husband is one of the middle lane hoggers. It drives me insane.

I openly admit I break the law on occasion by overtaking in the slow lane . There are often massive stretches where on the two outside lanes are used (M40 is bad for this). I'm always interested to see that people then do start using the inside lane as if they've been reminded.

Good and bad lane discipline seems to be catching. The worse the lane discipline is up ahead the more other drivers follow suit.

Keepingittogetherstepbystep · 12/08/2024 14:23

There are road rules? I just thought it had become a free for all. I get the most fuel economy from my car at around 60mph but I'd never sit hogging the middle lane.

I passed my test 35 years ago next month and the standard of driving is appalling not just on motorways. Just yesterday twice within 5 minutes I was approaching a t junction when a vehicle turned right on my side of the road. The first one was so close on my side of the I recognised the driver, it was my sibblings bil.

HotCrossBunplease · 12/08/2024 14:23

Porridgeislife · 12/08/2024 14:21

There is virtually always a gap. In Australia absolutely no one moves over and you get quite confident at either speeding up or slowing down to pull into a short space at speed. In some 20 years on the road I’ve never come up short merging onto the motorway.

Neither have I, to be fair (driving since 1990), but it always worries me!
Why don’t people move over in Australia?

Porridgeislife · 12/08/2024 14:21

HotCrossBunplease · 12/08/2024 14:19

But what if there are no gaps? You’d have to stop. As someone else said, the safe stopping distance gap between vehicles is not there to move into.

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There is virtually always a gap. In Australia absolutely no one moves over and you get quite confident at either speeding up or slowing down to pull into a short space at speed. In some 20 years on the road I’ve never come up short merging onto the motorway.

LlamaNoDrama · 12/08/2024 14:21

@Uglyandgrumpy I imagine you'd be more like to get stopped for your speeding

HotCrossBunplease · 12/08/2024 14:19

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 12/08/2024 14:16

the slip lane is to adjust your speed so you can slip into lane 1 - the necessary speed can vary depending on road conditions so it is up to you to figure that out and adjust. So if it's full of lorries going at say 55mp, you get your speed up to about that and slip between them then wait for an opportunity to continue moving out again.

But what if there are no gaps? You’d have to stop. As someone else said, the safe stopping distance gap between vehicles is not there to move into.

Uglyandgrumpy · 12/08/2024 14:19

Honestlynotsure · 12/08/2024 10:58

You don't need to overtake them. The definition of undertake is if you use the left lane to go past someone in the middle lane then cut back in front of them. Just keep moving along at your pace in your clear lane, no need to overtake them at all. For reference I work within the police.

Well Honestlynotsure i do appreciate your input, whether you do actually work for the police or not I am not convinced.... do you really? I have taken notes of your advice and will present them if I ever get pulled up for continuing my pace when alongside one of these dimwitted drongo's that should never ever be allowed out on a motorway. I drive around 45k per year and detest dumb drivers.
although i will admit my cruise set speed is 77mph on the speedo which takes me away from the above mentioned drivers who think it good to drive between 63 and 74 on the middle lane - or lane 3 out of 4 which seems to be the new middle lane magnet.
Why oh why is motorway driving not a part of learning to drive? Beggars belief that a 17 year old with 12 weeks of driving around town can jump in a car the day they pass their test and drive 300 miles on a motorway.

HotCrossBunplease · 12/08/2024 14:18

It strikes me that a motorway driving simulator would be a great thing to build and offer to the public in places where nervous drivers could go in and practice, with simulations of middle lane hoggers, aggressive overtakers flashing you, rain, darkness, complicated lane changes etc. you could start off with a test in which you drive as you normally would then it could tell you what you did right and wrong and have a virtual instructor talking you through it.

I might take this to Dragons’ Den…

MeYouAndAQuestion · 12/08/2024 14:18

Scary to think so many people think it's ok to undertake unless in the already mentioned case where the traffic is all travelling at the same congested pace and where it is SAFE to do so. It is not typically safe to undertake as the cars you are undertaking will not be expecting you to do so and you will be in their blind spot. People are stupid if they think that it's safe and it worrying that people with police links think it's ok.
Would anyone seriously think it's safe to undertake a lorry?
I'd rather overtake the middle lane hoggers by overtaking them normally. It's hardly a hardship and much better than causing an accident.

It perfectly clear in the Highway Code. I don't understand why people are confused.

Triffid1 · 12/08/2024 14:17

ApplesOrangesBananas · 12/08/2024 14:15

I travel at 70mph on the motorway because that is the speed limit.. just like I wouldn’t travel at 20mph in a 30mph zone.

I get some people don’t like travelling as fast especially in smaller cars, so they absolutely should not go anywhere near the fast lane.

Are you travelling in the outside lane at the speed limit? Because, as has been pointed out on this thread many times, that is inappropriate unless all the other lanes are full with people travelling at lower speeds.

mrshoho · 12/08/2024 14:16

Nanana1 · 12/08/2024 14:08

and tons of congestion on what could be otherwise clear roads.
Surely it’s because of too many cars?

Yes I agree! And talking of safety for those who feel they are safe, superior motorway drivers. Do you leave a stopping distance of 24 car lengths when you are doing 70mph? That's what we should all be doing in an ideal world.

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 12/08/2024 14:16

HotCrossBunplease · 12/08/2024 14:13

I agree with this, but I will admit to always being slightly nervous that there won’t be a gap for me to pull into. Not everyone does what they are supposed to do and moves into lane 2 in order to let traffic join from the slip road. Sometimes lane 2 is too congested and the traffic in lane 1 can’t get in (esp if Lane 1 is all lorries), other times the person in lane 1 is just not paying attention.
Does anyone have any tips for that scenario?

the slip lane is to adjust your speed so you can slip into lane 1 - the necessary speed can vary depending on road conditions so it is up to you to figure that out and adjust. So if it's full of lorries going at say 55mp, you get your speed up to about that and slip between them then wait for an opportunity to continue moving out again.

ApplesOrangesBananas · 12/08/2024 14:15

I travel at 70mph on the motorway because that is the speed limit.. just like I wouldn’t travel at 20mph in a 30mph zone.

I get some people don’t like travelling as fast especially in smaller cars, so they absolutely should not go anywhere near the fast lane.