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To think it's ok to want to travel at 70mph on the motorway...

459 replies

JacquesHarlow · 12/08/2024 10:51

...or am I now completely unreasonable, and the Highway Code is irrelevant?

Hear me out if you will:

I have done a LOT of driving in the past two weeks. M1, A1, A23, M25, M40, M6, you name it.

I am middle aged, F, live in Surrey, for what any of that is worth. I am also it seems one of the stranger folk...in that when I join a motorway, I drive at 70mph on the dot. I also stay in the left lane until overtaking.

AIBU for doing this?

It seems so, judging by the habits of hundreds of road users I encountered, who come onto the motorway and automatically slide into lane 3 of 4, or lane 2 of 3. And sit there for absolutely ages, at around 60 mph.

I kid you not, 60mph.

It's maddening. I am driving at 70mph, in lane 1. It is clear in front of me.

Next to me is someone doing 60 mph. I know this because I am coming up on them quickly. I cannot however undertake them - this is against the Highway Code.

So I indicate, check it's clear, move out to lane 2 behind them. I then look to move to lane 3 to overtake.

Only I can't move over to lane 3, because there is someone doing 60 (or maybe less), right alongside them. Not overtaking, just cruising next to them in their own little lane.

So I indicate again, move out to lane 4. Where of course it takes me 30 seconds or so to overtake, at which point someone is barrelling down on me wanting to do 80mph in their private fast lane. (I'm fine with this, I assert my right to overtake legally etc).

So that's three lane changes to overtake two cars who due to their speed (and the highway code's rules) should be sitting in lane 1.

Why do people do this?

I notice that when I've brought this up years ago on here, or when I've spoken to folk in real life, people often say

"It's more dangerous to do all that 'weaving about' than stay in a lane"
"I'm not going to get trapped in a lorry sandwich"
"People join constantly on motorways and I don't want to have to move over"

OK, great.

So you're going to make me change three lanes, just because you want your own little personal bubble on the motorway, and are happy to be a rolling roadblock?

I think middle lane hoggers are not only selfish, but actually dangerous.

But AIBU?

OP posts:
OssomMummy1 · 13/08/2024 06:26

Spectre8 · 12/08/2024 14:06

I drove down to the beach yesterday and by far the scariest motorway is the M2 just after the A229, everytime I've been on it the min speed is 75mph in all lanes, with the last lane beijg at least 80mph + It is scarily fast and with 3 lanes merging into 2 ...eek surprised there aren't alot more accidents.

You have not driven on M62 and M606. It is the slowest motorway in the country(Source: RAC and AA) but also the most dangerous motorway!

thing47 · 12/08/2024 22:51

Surely it's the process of passing a car on the inside that is dangerous (and so illegal)?

It's not illegal though. It might be if the manoeuvre is carried out in a careless or dangerous fashion – such as weaving in and out of traffic, or accelerating excessively – but the actual act of passing someone on the left is not de facto illegal.

In @JacquesHarlow's scenario as described in the OP, I don't think there is anything whatsoever about it that is careless or dangerous.

RainbowColouredRainbows · 12/08/2024 18:49

Yes, I really think they need to be giving fines for middle lane hogging. I do a lot of driving up and down the country and it seems to be particularly bad on the motorways around London/Hertfordshire and Bradford. There's also been times with men hogging a middle lane plodding along at 50mph and I take over doing 70, then they immediately speed up to overtake me and then slow back down to 50.

runrabbitruns · 12/08/2024 18:36

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 12/08/2024 13:24

Really? That makes no sense to me - the inside lane to me is the lane that is in the middle of traffic ie closest to the traffic going in the other direction too and the outside lane is the "slow lane" But okay, I'm more than willing to accept that I might not have that right. In that case @runrabbitruns are you driving at 70 in lane that is furtherest to the right or furtherest to the left. If furtherest to the right, I stand by my comment that you are part of the problem.

I drive at 70 in Lane 1 (the inside lane)

But if I were to drive at 70 in lane 3 ( furtherest to the right) it is only a problem, or annoying to people who are exceeding the speed limit. It is not wrong to drive 70 in the fast lane. You may think that it is, but the UK legal system would disagree...

At this point I can only assume that you are a male German car owner who likes to exceed the maximum speed limit and then tell other drivers who drive within the speed limit that they are wrong to do so ?

The mind boggles at the entitlement of some drivers....

NerrSnerr · 12/08/2024 18:07

@whatdoidonowffs of course then in that exact situation they have to stay behind or undertake- but the Highway Code states they shouldn't do it. It reality they will.

Luckily for us folk in cars we don't have limiters so can overtakes

Amberpants · 12/08/2024 17:58

We travelled to London from Lancashire and back this weekend. So many do this. We actually witnessed police overtaking the middle lane hoggers and were infuriated they didn’t do anything.

Ponderingwindow · 12/08/2024 17:57

JacquesHarlow · 12/08/2024 11:04

Are you a Road Traffic Officer or work within Britain's motorways?

I strongly contest your post, as a lot of articles online from motoring organisations suggest otherwise:

If there’s a car in lane two travelling at 50mph and you’re in lane one travelling at 70mph, it’s not acceptable to undertake that car at undiminished speed. Overtake it on the right-hand side or, if that’s not possible, slow down to a speed at which you’ll gradually move past the car.

Undertaking in an unacceptable manner is considered careless driving or driving without due care and attention. You could get caught by a police patrol or enforcement camera or be reported by a member of the public with dashcam footage. The minimum penalty for an unacceptable undertake is three points on your driving licence and a £100 fine.

So which is it @Honestlynotsure

Surely the safer choice in that scenario is to use the second option and to slow down a bit and pass them gradually in your same lane.

whatdoidonowffs · 12/08/2024 17:54

NerrSnerr · 12/08/2024 17:35

Do not overtake on the left or move to a lane on your left to overtake. In congested conditions, where adjacent lanes of traffic are moving at similar speeds, traffic in left-hand lanes may sometimes be moving faster than traffic to the right. In these conditions you may keep up with the traffic in your lane even if this means passing traffic in the lane to your right.

Read above. 'Do not overtake on the left OR move to a lane on the left to overtake'

It's not rocket science.

So by those rules every hgv that’s limited to 56 mph and can’t go in the outside lane has to sit behind the middle lane hogger doing 50mph ?

Biggaybear · 12/08/2024 17:49

I just come o here to say that I travel a lot on the M25, M20, M23, M1 & M3 and I would love to be able to drive at 70 !!

Not only is there so much traffic almost all motorways at the moment are being "upgraded" and are restricted to 50mph

FromAClosetInNorway · 12/08/2024 17:48

I love in Surrey OP and frequently drove on the M3, M25, A331, A3, hogs back etc etc.

So many middle lane hoggers. And I'll probably get flamed for this but nearly every middle lane hogger I see on my daily commutes are old, driving some variety of a Honda jazz. Sat about 2 inches from the windscreen clutching the steering wheel with dear life, refusing to get over pootling along in lane 2 at 60mph. Causing people to undertake, or over take increasing the traffic in lanes 2 and 1.

My biggest bug bear.

But as a Surrey driver, probably using the same roads as you, YADNBU!!

Wontletmeusemynormalname · 12/08/2024 17:46

focacciamuffin · 12/08/2024 17:20

Not defending them but I imagine more are caused by people who take both hands off the wheel and don’t look where they are going.

Don't be ridiculous, so you never check your blin̈d spots before making a manoeuvre??? Taking one hand off the steering wheel to shrug at someone is not going to cause an accident....because clearly if I am undertaking, the road in front is clear....

Reallybadidea · 12/08/2024 17:45

If it's ok to undertake because you're going faster than the car on your outside, then why would it be illegal to change lanes in order to do so?

Surely it's the process of passing a car on the inside that is dangerous (and so illegal)?

Congested traffic is the exception because the speed of both lanes is constantly changing and it is safer for everyone to stay in their lane in these conditions.

UnRavellingFast · 12/08/2024 17:41

Middle lane hoggers should all get tickets and be reeducated imo. Their numbers have exploded recently. Fine go at 60 but stay in the right lane.

NerrSnerr · 12/08/2024 17:40

One thing that is highlighted on all Mumsnet motorway threads is how many people are too scared to change lanes and think that changing lanes in somehow dangerous. They won't move over to let someone on, won't overtake (but will happily undertake and don't see how that may be dangerous) etc.

Of course you should keep left, but there are 3 lanes for a reason and there's no reason not to use all of them when needed.

Whyhaveibeencutoutofmamsnot · 12/08/2024 17:37

Have none of you heard of the BMW EV club - they realise by going about 60mph they don't need to stop and charge making their overall journey quicker

NerrSnerr · 12/08/2024 17:35

UncharteredWaters · 12/08/2024 11:32

It’s not undertaking if you’re in lane 1 at the safe speed and lane 2 is slow and you pass by at your same speed.
undertaking is intentionally moving a lane to the left to get around a slower driver.

i checked with the police.

Do not overtake on the left or move to a lane on your left to overtake. In congested conditions, where adjacent lanes of traffic are moving at similar speeds, traffic in left-hand lanes may sometimes be moving faster than traffic to the right. In these conditions you may keep up with the traffic in your lane even if this means passing traffic in the lane to your right.

Read above. 'Do not overtake on the left OR move to a lane on the left to overtake'

It's not rocket science.

LoneHydrangea · 12/08/2024 17:32

I drive on the M25 and M1 most weeks and agree, there is a lot of very bad driving. Countless people sitting in middle lanes when they don’t need to.

ErrolTheDragon · 12/08/2024 17:31

But, obviously dont middle lane hog at a slower speed, and best not go so slowly you're impeding hgvs so they have to slooowly overtake you.

ErrolTheDragon · 12/08/2024 17:28

Some vehicles can’t go as fast as 70 either due to their age or because they have a speed-limiter installed. If a person can choose to drive a slow vehicle, can’t they also choose to drive a faster vehicle at 55 to 60 mph?

Of course they can. Some posters are making up the rules, or defining 'conventions' others don't agree with😂

lots of people were driving slower than 70 when fuel prices peaked!

Sirzy · 12/08/2024 17:27

Magnastorm · 12/08/2024 17:21

Unless you drive a HGV or 50 year old car which can't cruise at 70mph, why do you prefer to get to your destination slower and hold other people up, exactly?

I bet you are the type of person who drives at 40mph on minor roads regardless of the limit and conditions.

Edited

You do realise a speed limit isn’t a goal?

my car drives best about 60-65 so generally that’s what I do. It’s most economical for the car and if someone wants to go faster they are free to over take. I do go faster at times quite happily, it’s nothing to do with confidence and everything to do with knowing my car and not feeling the need to race everywhere

OraettaMayflower · 12/08/2024 17:26

In the grand scheme of things how much longer does your journey take? Enjoy the drive and don’t let other drivers stress you out.

ErrolTheDragon · 12/08/2024 17:24

Unless you drive a HGV or 50 year old car which can't cruise at 70mph, why do you prefer to get to your destination slower and hold other people up, exactly?

DH often drives at about 62 which is the optimum for fuel economy for his car. It doesn't 'hold anyone up' because he knows how to drive. Confused

Magnastorm · 12/08/2024 17:21

Whyhaveibeencutoutofmamsnot · 12/08/2024 16:48

I prefer to go at 55-60mph on the motorway but will hog the inside lane. Still got harassed by faster drivers even though lanes 2, 3 and 4 were completely empty

Unless you drive a HGV or 50 year old car which can't cruise at 70mph, why do you prefer to get to your destination slower and hold other people up, exactly?

I bet you are the type of person who drives at 40mph on minor roads regardless of the limit and conditions.

focacciamuffin · 12/08/2024 17:20

Wontletmeusemynormalname · 12/08/2024 17:12

YANBU Op, it drives me insane. If I can't manoeuvre past them, I will undertake and look at them going past and raise my hands to say WTAF. Shoot me, but its these clowns that cause accidents.

Not defending them but I imagine more are caused by people who take both hands off the wheel and don’t look where they are going.

FranceIsWhereItsAt · 12/08/2024 17:20

If a police officer spots you hogging the middle lane, you'd better watch out, as they are entitled to give you £100 on the spot fine and 3 points on your licence!!