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To think it's ok to want to travel at 70mph on the motorway...

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JacquesHarlow · 12/08/2024 10:51

...or am I now completely unreasonable, and the Highway Code is irrelevant?

Hear me out if you will:

I have done a LOT of driving in the past two weeks. M1, A1, A23, M25, M40, M6, you name it.

I am middle aged, F, live in Surrey, for what any of that is worth. I am also it seems one of the stranger folk...in that when I join a motorway, I drive at 70mph on the dot. I also stay in the left lane until overtaking.

AIBU for doing this?

It seems so, judging by the habits of hundreds of road users I encountered, who come onto the motorway and automatically slide into lane 3 of 4, or lane 2 of 3. And sit there for absolutely ages, at around 60 mph.

I kid you not, 60mph.

It's maddening. I am driving at 70mph, in lane 1. It is clear in front of me.

Next to me is someone doing 60 mph. I know this because I am coming up on them quickly. I cannot however undertake them - this is against the Highway Code.

So I indicate, check it's clear, move out to lane 2 behind them. I then look to move to lane 3 to overtake.

Only I can't move over to lane 3, because there is someone doing 60 (or maybe less), right alongside them. Not overtaking, just cruising next to them in their own little lane.

So I indicate again, move out to lane 4. Where of course it takes me 30 seconds or so to overtake, at which point someone is barrelling down on me wanting to do 80mph in their private fast lane. (I'm fine with this, I assert my right to overtake legally etc).

So that's three lane changes to overtake two cars who due to their speed (and the highway code's rules) should be sitting in lane 1.

Why do people do this?

I notice that when I've brought this up years ago on here, or when I've spoken to folk in real life, people often say

"It's more dangerous to do all that 'weaving about' than stay in a lane"
"I'm not going to get trapped in a lorry sandwich"
"People join constantly on motorways and I don't want to have to move over"

OK, great.

So you're going to make me change three lanes, just because you want your own little personal bubble on the motorway, and are happy to be a rolling roadblock?

I think middle lane hoggers are not only selfish, but actually dangerous.

But AIBU?

OP posts:
chaosmaker · 14/08/2024 12:29

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 12/08/2024 13:16

Are you driving at 70 in the inside lane? Because that is extremely annoying and, frankly, wrong.

What are you on about? There is no different speed for the lane you are supposed to be in unless you are overtaking on one of the outside lanes from which you then pull back into the inside lane.

chaosmaker · 14/08/2024 11:58

ElleintheWoods · 12/08/2024 12:20

This. When space in front of me is clear and I am doing the legal speed (70), it would never occur to me to slow down and move to lanes 2/3 to progress.

Around where I live that doesn’t seem to be an issue though, you rarely get people doing under 70 other than lorries/ vans, at a strict 70 I usually get left behind. I’ve been undertaken doing 70 quite a few times.

How can you be undertaken if you are in the correct lane?

Honestlynotsure · 14/08/2024 11:27

Callipygion · 14/08/2024 11:26

Thank you for that! I have done that myself and felt terribly guilty about it, but wasn’t prepared to go weaving across three lanes to get past the bugger. I hoped seeing me go past on the inside might make them change in but it didn’t.

Sometimes it does so you're also doing a public service there!

Callipygion · 14/08/2024 11:26

Honestlynotsure · 12/08/2024 10:58

You don't need to overtake them. The definition of undertake is if you use the left lane to go past someone in the middle lane then cut back in front of them. Just keep moving along at your pace in your clear lane, no need to overtake them at all. For reference I work within the police.

Thank you for that! I have done that myself and felt terribly guilty about it, but wasn’t prepared to go weaving across three lanes to get past the bugger. I hoped seeing me go past on the inside might make them change in but it didn’t.

Holibobsjoy · 14/08/2024 10:16

@JacquesHarlow I have noticed a lot of people freaking out about the left lane since smart motorways have come about and I cam understand that. I have 3 or 4 times in the last months alone had to slam.my breakdown where someone has broken down and with no warning having the cars infrontnof me coming to a stop from 70(ish) mph.

I also find that people seem to get in lane early. If they are planning to stay on tbe motorway and they know that the 2 left lanes come off they will stay in the 3rd or 4th lane. I suspect it's the sat nav users who are being td what lane they 'need' for coming off.

Obvs not saying it's right and it absolutely p1$$3s me off too but I suspect there is some getting used to the new way motorways work that is causing the issue.

BogRollBOGOF · 14/08/2024 08:17

I avoid passing middle lane hoggers on the left. I don't trust the unobservant zombies to not suddenly have an impulse of brain action and randomly move left without checking and crash.

Everyone should be monitoring their mirrors frequently and there should be very few surprises about what's going on around them.

I don't "weave" as in abruptly hopping from one lane to another, but I am happy to maintain pace with good space using any lane required while passing to the right and pulling in to the left when not overtaking. I like changing lane. I have to check my mirrors. It keeps me brain engaged with what's happening on the road ahead, behind and to the sides. There is no slow or fast lane, just degrees of over taking from lane 1 to lanes 2-4

The 70mph in the middle lane mentality is dangerous because it generally involves driving on autopilot and not anticipating problems and the behaviour of other road users.

Pass Plus was the best £100 I ever spent, a good while before learners could be taken on to motorways. They're fast, but they're simple- everything in one direction, fewer types of road user. Keep a distance (more if conditions are poor), go with the flow of traffic, and keep checking your mirrors and what's happening in sight up ahead.

Wishes there were automatic bans and retraining for the deathwishers attempting to merge into free-flowing traffic at 40mph backing 5 cars behind them up so they lose their gaps and forcing trucks and other lane 1 traffic into lane 2 so they don't plough into a 40mph string at 20mph faster when there were plenty of gaps for everyone to zipper merge at 60mph.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/08/2024 07:35

MeYouAndAQuestion · 14/08/2024 01:41

Do any of the posters who think it's ok to overtake to the left of middle lane joggers also think it's ok to undertake vans or trucks? ( I'm not talking about the particular times when it's permitted to undertake)

Borderline insane if it's a lorry likely to have significant blind spots I'd have thought.

MeYouAndAQuestion · 14/08/2024 01:41

Do any of the posters who think it's ok to overtake to the left of middle lane joggers also think it's ok to undertake vans or trucks? ( I'm not talking about the particular times when it's permitted to undertake)

kop2054 · 14/08/2024 00:19

JacquesHarlow · 12/08/2024 11:04

Are you a Road Traffic Officer or work within Britain's motorways?

I strongly contest your post, as a lot of articles online from motoring organisations suggest otherwise:

If there’s a car in lane two travelling at 50mph and you’re in lane one travelling at 70mph, it’s not acceptable to undertake that car at undiminished speed. Overtake it on the right-hand side or, if that’s not possible, slow down to a speed at which you’ll gradually move past the car.

Undertaking in an unacceptable manner is considered careless driving or driving without due care and attention. You could get caught by a police patrol or enforcement camera or be reported by a member of the public with dashcam footage. The minimum penalty for an unacceptable undertake is three points on your driving licence and a £100 fine.

So which is it @Honestlynotsure

Totally agree with you @JacquesHarlow I have had this conversation with my retired police officer father many times. Actually less of a conversation, more of him ranting about middle lane sitters.

2forme · 13/08/2024 23:02

Honestlynotsure · 12/08/2024 10:58

You don't need to overtake them. The definition of undertake is if you use the left lane to go past someone in the middle lane then cut back in front of them. Just keep moving along at your pace in your clear lane, no need to overtake them at all. For reference I work within the police.

This!

Toptops · 13/08/2024 22:35

I drive on motorways a lot and am so fed up with cars driven by unconfident drivers who stick in the middle lane.
Who force everybody to work out strategies to drive at 70 mph! Whether overtaking, undertaking or weaving between lanes.
I've never heard of anyone actually prosecuted for middle lane hogging.

Olderbutt · 13/08/2024 21:35

Washingupdone · 13/08/2024 18:04

It seems learner drivers do not have lessons on motorways in the UK whereas this is part of the course in France.

Learners are able to drive on a Motorway only with a Fully Qualified Instructor ie: not a trainee and only in a dual controlled car. Once the law was changed, I used to take my learners on the Motorway regularly. However, we are lucky to have 2 junctions serving our area. Ideally, once they have passed their tests ALL newly qualified drivers should have Motorway lessons but atm they are voluntary. It would be very tricky to enforce this especially in remote island areas

Aria999 · 13/08/2024 21:18

Fizbosshoes · 12/08/2024 13:31

I've joined motorways before where the left hand lane is virtually empty and then there are cars tootling along at 60 in lane 2 or 3.

People going slowly (for no reason) in the middle lanes, or going at normal motorway speed in driving rain where you can barely see, are my least favourite drivers.

When I mentioned the "no adjustment for wet weather" drivers on another thread I was told that some people are more confident or experienced and you get used to it!

See I think this is a design flaw in the UK highway code.

In the parts of the US I have driven in (where to be fair it helps to have more lanes) the inside lane is mostly only used for entering or exiting the freeway. Then you move out to the other lanes as needed. If you stay on the inside lane you are likely to find yourself leaving the freeway when you didn't mean to, as lanes often peel off at exits.

In the UK the inside lane is still a series of hazards (people entering and exiting and big trucks) but you are supposed to drive in it.

So if the inside lane is not completely empty but also not fully congested then you either have to break the speed limit so you are always overtaking or play a kind of continuous game of chicken against the hazards.

Which doesn't seem like a good rule.

pollymere · 13/08/2024 21:17

You are allowed to undertake if you do so in a safe manner if there is traffic in the other two lanes. As per the rule above this is classed as staying in lane during congestion. If you are able to drive to cross two lanes to overtake then you should do so.

Missamyp · 13/08/2024 20:41

We drive to New Milton often.
There aren't many people driving at 90 mph or above on any UK motorway. In fact, there is a decreasing trend in driving speeds across all networks.

Lonelycrab · 13/08/2024 20:38

Well to be fair the southern end of the m3 for years had average speed cameras in place around Eastleigh/Winch for the lane widening works, but they’re now gone, and yes, the Portsmouth bound section of the 27 is now average limit too.

EBearhug · 13/08/2024 20:33

Lonelycrab · 13/08/2024 20:22

You obviously don’t use the m3 and m27 then,, the motorway I spend most of my time on. Theres a bunch between j3-4 around the farnborough area, and then not a single one until you reach the edge of Bournemouth. And I regularly see drivers doing 90+, especially on the bit between Basingstoke and Winchester. See this website to see what I mean…

www.scdb.info/en/karte/

That's a really fast bit of road. I was quite impressed to discover my car can do 90...

Don't go east on the M27. You will find many miles of roadworks, to which they have just added a contraflow.

WhamBamThankU · 13/08/2024 20:23

Washingupdone · 13/08/2024 18:04

It seems learner drivers do not have lessons on motorways in the UK whereas this is part of the course in France.

Yes they do.

Lonelycrab · 13/08/2024 20:22

Missamyp · 13/08/2024 19:51

DP and I cover about 100000 miles a year travelling the length and breadth of the country. The gantries are on all the main motorways.
Very few drivers are bowling along at 90 some on this forum talk like it's 1995.
Plus the M1 is now basically roadworks from Sheffield to Northampton and beyond.

You obviously don’t use the m3 and m27 then,, the motorway I spend most of my time on. Theres a bunch between j3-4 around the farnborough area, and then not a single one until you reach the edge of Bournemouth. And I regularly see drivers doing 90+, especially on the bit between Basingstoke and Winchester. See this website to see what I mean…

www.scdb.info/en/karte/

Silverfoxette · 13/08/2024 20:10

NerrSnerr · 13/08/2024 18:45

Does this happen often? I travel on the motorway regularly at night and can't remember anyone flashing me. What lane is this happening in?

I live in ROI and it happens every night I drive home (2 lane motorway)

rosyAndMoo · 13/08/2024 19:55

Honestlynotsure · 12/08/2024 10:58

You don't need to overtake them. The definition of undertake is if you use the left lane to go past someone in the middle lane then cut back in front of them. Just keep moving along at your pace in your clear lane, no need to overtake them at all. For reference I work within the police.

I came to say the same. It’s only undertaking if you are behind them and use the left lane to pass them and then move back over.
if I’m in lane 1 (note it’s not called a slow lane) and I pass a car doing a lower speed than me in lane 2 (not called a fast lane) the. I can legally do so. The lane 2 driver is in the wrong. You should move the left hand most available lane unless overtaking and, if over taking you should move back to the left lanes as soon as it is safe to do so.

Shade17 · 13/08/2024 19:53

Missamyp · 13/08/2024 19:51

DP and I cover about 100000 miles a year travelling the length and breadth of the country. The gantries are on all the main motorways.
Very few drivers are bowling along at 90 some on this forum talk like it's 1995.
Plus the M1 is now basically roadworks from Sheffield to Northampton and beyond.

You don’t think there are cameras on all the gantries do you?

Missamyp · 13/08/2024 19:51

Shade17 · 13/08/2024 19:40

I wouldn’t say they’re covered with cameras, there’s the odd one here and there. It’s very easy to spot them.

DP and I cover about 100000 miles a year travelling the length and breadth of the country. The gantries are on all the main motorways.
Very few drivers are bowling along at 90 some on this forum talk like it's 1995.
Plus the M1 is now basically roadworks from Sheffield to Northampton and beyond.

Shade17 · 13/08/2024 19:40

Missamyp · 13/08/2024 19:10

There are very few drivers bowling past at 80/90, long stretches of the motorway are smart and covered with gantry cameras.
People have to remember if the speedo reads 68-70 actual speed is more likely to be substantially lower.

Edited

I wouldn’t say they’re covered with cameras, there’s the odd one here and there. It’s very easy to spot them.

focacciamuffin · 13/08/2024 19:40

taxguru · 13/08/2024 19:37

If they're not actively overtaking, they should move over, regardless of speed. The right hand lane is for overtaking, not for cruising. Speed doesn't really come into it. They're either actively overtaking or they're not.

Agreed, but some people seem to have the mindset that they are driving at the 70 limit so why should they move over to let people past.

Only they aren’t actually driving at the 70 limit.