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To ask how much you save each month roughly?

161 replies

SunnyWavess · 11/08/2024 22:53

As the title says - how much does the average household save each month once everything is paid? Some families won’t be able to save anything and that’s their experience.

zero
£50
£100
£200
£500
£750

We’re all different of course but would like some insight of the average house - thanks

OP posts:
Saltedbutter · 12/08/2024 08:48

Usually £500 but with the cost of each month being so unpredictable, I can sometimes spend that, and more, extra the following month! My savings certainly aren’t going up over the year.

Didimum · 12/08/2024 08:48

Are you looking for the average monthly saving in the UK or on Mumsnet? You’ll be looking at two wildly different figures, with an extra dash of nastiness towards high earners too – as has already come about on this thread. The average household saving in the UK is £450 per month.

We average about £500 a month, but with two huge expenses of a £3330 mortgage and £1400 nanny. We get the tax free childcare saving each month which helps (which I’m sure will boil blood and I await the nasty comments).

dothehokeycokey · 12/08/2024 08:47

@Thecatspjymas

You say that but being high earners clearly they probably pay high rate tax between them so why not?

At least they're paying something into the system eh Hmm

SummerFeverVenice · 12/08/2024 08:45

If pensions are counted as savings, we are still paying into those…

SummerFeverVenice · 12/08/2024 08:45

-£3k per month ….as in we are spending that much more than we earn every month.

But it is all to plan !! And we are not going into debt.

We have two DC in Uni for whom we are paying for all their Uni costs- tuition, accommodation and allowance.

We saved up their Uni fund for this from birth. Ofc the government threw a spanner in the works tripling the price once eldest was in secondary school..boo, boo, fie on the government.

This is the overlap year, next year there will only be one in Uni so it will go down.

Then in 3 years, we will be back to positive savings.

leafybrew · 12/08/2024 08:36

DoorPath · 12/08/2024 08:09

This is insane. Stop spending £36k a year on holidays and pay your mortgage!

😅😂

I wouldn't assume that those are real figures. Plus if it is - the poster is not going to take your sensible advice.

Berga · 12/08/2024 08:26

I agree with PP that it depends what is being counted as savings. I currently put £100 a month away for Christmas, £100 a month away for Car, £200 a month away for house maintenance, and then £500-£600 general savings. So I guess just under £1k. We just bought a house a few months ago so used a lot of savings for that. I'm also paying to retrain which costs about £300 a month. Two teens about to go to uni.

Threads like this make me recognise how fortunate we are and that I really do have some financial anxiety as I worry about leaving or reducing hours at a job I hate, but seeing it all in this context of what others have, I'm being a bit of an arse to myself and look like an arse when I describe how fortunate we are. Ugh.

Goldmember · 12/08/2024 08:26

We're not the average family. We have low outgoings and have tried to not do lifestyle creep with payrises and are ultra cautious with money. We save £2k to £2.5kpm.

Startingagainandagain · 12/08/2024 08:19

I am single with a mortgage and I bought my house a year ago so lots of expenses in term of ongoing repairs...

I manage to put aside usually between £150-£200.

TappyGilmore · 12/08/2024 08:18

Not much. I had a goal to save $10k this year and I’m just about going to get there. That is for emergencies e.g. I lose my job. I do put away money separately for things like Christmas and birthdays but I don’t really count that as savings.

I have a large mortgage and a DD who is a competitive dancer. Doesn’t allow for much in the way of savings!

Startrekkeruniverse · 12/08/2024 08:17

Deipara · 12/08/2024 07:31

That's 10p more than me 😅

glad I’m not alone 🤣

PlutarchHeavensbee · 12/08/2024 08:17

Belindabelle · 11/08/2024 23:00

£3k but we are not an average household. Me 55 DH 58 no mortgage, children grown and flown.

Same with the circs but we save around £4.5k a month - but DH is a high earner and we live in the north.

Bedroomdilemmas113 · 12/08/2024 08:12

DoorPath · 12/08/2024 08:09

This is insane. Stop spending £36k a year on holidays and pay your mortgage!

I have just posted that we don’t save (insane to many) but JFC you’re spending 36k on holidays and you’re on an interest only mortgage???

That is literally insane, financial suicide!

Why?! What would even possess you to think this is a good idea, or that you need 36k of holidays 😳

Honestly, I am speechless. And this is from someone definitely lacking in financial restraint and prudence!

Fluufer · 12/08/2024 08:10

£500 currently. With exceptions for this months when we pay for holidays/Christmas etc. Was more until last month when our mortgage shot up. But we also save or invest £15-20k+ of DHs bonus.

Bedroomdilemmas113 · 12/08/2024 08:10

Nothing.
V high earning husband, I also earn well.

We do have shares which are obviously an investment.

Had children young and made the decision to focus on their childhoods - v expensive equestrian hobbies, private schools, lots of holidays. They’ll both be adults before H is 40 so plenty of time to then save - and will have loads of spare money to do so without even noticing it at that point.

DoorPath · 12/08/2024 08:09

CrikeyDozes · 12/08/2024 01:45

Agree with previous posters that it’s hard to define “savings”.

Each month after we have paid the bills and kept money in our account for that month’s food and essentials we put £3k in a savings account for holidays and £750 in an account for Christmas and birthdays.

Sounds loads but at the end of the year we have no savings as we spend both accounts on holidays and Christmas and birthdays. We only pay the interest on our mortgage so we aren’t increasing our actual wealth at all. We don’t own a car (London based).

This is insane. Stop spending £36k a year on holidays and pay your mortgage!

Cancermummy · 12/08/2024 08:08

£200 currently but from next month it will be £400 as DH is getting a raise.

Pretty average family, me, DH and DD. Income roughly 3k a month.

Windymoore · 12/08/2024 07:57

whyamiawakestillitssolate · 11/08/2024 23:21

I’m never sure what people mean by savings - we put money away for car replacement, holidays, house repairs etc but all will be used in the shortish term (within 3 years say) - prob £1k or so a month.

We don’t really have anything left after that to “proper save” (as in into a long term no touching pot) other than standard pension contributions.

Me too: also, does budgeting for Christmas/birthdays/dentist/opticians count as savings?

menopausalmare · 12/08/2024 07:45

£600 savings plus £1200 mortgage overpayment. Two children but no childcare costs.

DanceMumTaxi · 12/08/2024 07:45

About 1.3k a month. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Rarely below 1K though.

justbeingasmartarse · 12/08/2024 07:42

At the moment £400 but usually more like £200

Single, no children but live in London

Coffeeebean · 12/08/2024 07:36

£2.5k per month between us - but no children yet and no mortgage currently.

At some point we will need to upgrade our flat to a house and so will need to borrow for that...so this wont be the case forever!

CanelliniBeans · 12/08/2024 07:35

Save about £400 per month for retirement because I'm not far away from that and have tiny pensions. About £650 a month for holidays and house renovation. No mortgage and have some savings built up over the years. Having been really careful with savings in the past I am now really quite bad with it and waste a lot of money but as I'm getting older I think I may as well enjoy it now.

GiantRoadPuzzle · 12/08/2024 07:32

FishersGate · 12/08/2024 07:18

But not everyone does get it. If you earn over £100'000k net you aren't entitled to the 30 hours so hopefully those savings will top your huge nursery bill coming

Edited

Either read my posts or do your own research @FishersGate

Heatherbell1978 · 12/08/2024 07:31

We put a lot into pensions which at our age (mid 40s) can be classed as savings.
£3.5k into pensions
£200 into work share scheme
£150 into kids savings (2 DC)
£1400 into savings which covers holidays/Xmas etc

We have an emergency fund but school fees too so although we're reasonable earners we do have high outgoings.