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NeedSomeAnswersPlease · 11/08/2024 17:44

Travelling to the Netherlands for the Dutch Grand Prix in ten days or so

We (stupidly) booked to travel hand luggage only and I just don't understand how it's possible! The amount of things you need, I'll be due on my period that weekend too so need to take extra bits for that as well. I know everyone's answer will be "just take less clothes" but it all seems to accumulate - shorts, t-shirts, a dress or two for if we want to go out in the evening, it's not possible!😩

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DeeDeesfabulouswardrobe · 11/08/2024 20:59

LittleBearPad · 11/08/2024 18:15

No one needs to take a dressing gown!

I do, we are all different, when I get out the shower I want my robe.

BettyBardMacDonald · 11/08/2024 20:57

Will there be a laundry facility at the AirBnB?

BettyBardMacDonald · 11/08/2024 20:56

Cherandcheralike · 11/08/2024 20:48

Just bring a couple of pairs of shorts and a couple of tees then lightweight dresses/tights/sandals for the evenings. Packing cube for each day for ease.

Jumper you can wear with everything and lightweight mac just in case (wear these on plane).

Toiletries in a small bag, I find a small ziploc is fine for toothpaste/toothbrush/tinted moisturiser/mascara/lipbalm.

Pjs/hairbrush also in own packing cube.

On the flight wear leggings, top, jumper and mac with the chunky shoes. Personal item is your handbag.

If you are with a race-team related group and expect any VIP entrance to the pit areas etc, don't wear shorts.

The weather forecast doesn't appear likely to need shorts anyway.

HomeCookingWannabe · 11/08/2024 20:54

I haven't checked in luggage for years (solo traveller). Even went away for 3 months with a 30 litre backpack in carry on. I actually don't understand why people take so much stuff 🙈
Happy to help with specific questions and/or what i would take for your holiday if helpful

pinkspeakers · 11/08/2024 20:52

cassgate · 11/08/2024 19:27

I love hand luggage only. We are going away next week for 8 nights and I am taking

3x swim suits
3x daytime dresses
2x beach cover ups
1xdaytime flip flops
2xevening flip flops
5xevening outfits

We are staying in a hotel so pool towels provided and hairdryer in room. I just take make up as liquids and buy everything else either at the airport or when we get there.

that sounds like quite a lot of clothes for 8 nights!! It's a completely different outfit for every day.

pinkspeakers · 11/08/2024 20:50

NeedSomeAnswersPlease · 11/08/2024 18:34

Think the main problem is the weather is changing a lot - Zandvoort can be sunny for one day of the Grand Prix and then cold and rainy the next and we don't know what we'll need!

I don’t know if it's just me but I use compression packing cubes and don't find they save that much space 😩

But you still only need one warm jumper/sweatshirt and one lightweight waterproof to layer over your t-shirts for warmer weather. You wear the jumper to board the plane. Honestly, the BA allowance is loads. Is the free easyjet allowance which is a challenge. And I think wizzair might be even worse.

pinkspeakers · 11/08/2024 20:48

NeedSomeAnswersPlease · 11/08/2024 17:58

Thankfully (only saving grace) it's BA - a little case and a personal item.

Tried it this weekend and found myself wanting things I hadn't taken and not needing things I had taken.

We're away for 4 nights, but obviously two of those days are very active so will want clean clothes for the evenings

The "clean clothes for the evenings" can be the same thing every evening.

Cherandcheralike · 11/08/2024 20:48

Just bring a couple of pairs of shorts and a couple of tees then lightweight dresses/tights/sandals for the evenings. Packing cube for each day for ease.

Jumper you can wear with everything and lightweight mac just in case (wear these on plane).

Toiletries in a small bag, I find a small ziploc is fine for toothpaste/toothbrush/tinted moisturiser/mascara/lipbalm.

Pjs/hairbrush also in own packing cube.

On the flight wear leggings, top, jumper and mac with the chunky shoes. Personal item is your handbag.

pinkspeakers · 11/08/2024 20:47

Bear in mind that you can buy most things there if you need to (eg period products).

behindthemall · 11/08/2024 20:46

Travel in jeans, tee shirt, trainers, hoody and rain coat. Wear a bra that will go with all your other items.

Pack 2x team t shirts and 2x shorts for race days. Layer with hoody and rain coat as appropriate and wear trainers. One dress for the evening, and two smart tops to wear with the jeans if you’re worried about weather. That should fill no more than a medium packing cube. Sandals/flip flops/espadrilles for the evening. Travel home in what you wore there. Add knickers and socks in a small packing cube. You’ll then have plenty space for toiletries/straighteners/hair brush. Buy bulkier toiletries (shampoo, sun cream etc) at the airport or when you get there and leave behind.

I’m doing 5 nights with hand luggage case at the moment for the first time, and it’s been very doable but all my outfits were planned.

pinkspeakers · 11/08/2024 20:46

Old style carry on I can do pretty easily. The very tiny bags that are the only thing included with some budget airlines now are more of a challenge. My daughter is very budget conscious and is in the middle of two weeks Austria/France/Germany including a (cancelled) Taylor Swift Concert and a wedding and has doing it all with a tiny rucksack!!!. She's going to wear her dress with trainers for the concert and wore multiple skirts/dress on the plane!

How long are your there for. A few days should be perfectly do-able with a few compromises. You can only take (wear) one pair of bulky shoes. One warmer layer, which again you wear. Commit to just 2-3 bottom halves to cover all occasions. Tiny toiletries (they have to fit in a little plastic bag anyway). Kindle rather than a book. No styling tools. All more than do-able if you want to.

Oblomov24 · 11/08/2024 20:45

Do you understand the difference between a checked in bag, that you do a bag drop, that you pick up on the carousel.

And phoning to ask for an extra carry on bag. A bigger bag that you carry on, goes above your seat, in the locker above you.

No extra time needed for the 2nd option.

Ring them. At least ask.

Oblomov24 · 11/08/2024 20:42

No bag drop for an extra carry on the plane bag!

MotherWol · 11/08/2024 20:38

They have shops in the Netherlands? Just buy shampoo/deoderant/tampons etc at Albert Heijn/Kruidvat when you get there.

NeedSomeAnswersPlease · 11/08/2024 20:35

Oblomov24 · 11/08/2024 20:35

If you ring them you might be able to book a BA carry on 23kg bags.

You can, but as I've said elsewhere we don't have time to do the bag drop

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Oblomov24 · 11/08/2024 20:35

If you ring them you might be able to book a BA carry on 23kg bags.

Oblomov24 · 11/08/2024 20:32

Have you tried ringing them, sometimes they are more helpful on the phone.

BettyBardMacDonald · 11/08/2024 20:32

Btw look on eBay and vinted for black & white clothing if you decide to go that route; some fab maxi dresses in no-wrinkle fabric.

BettyBardMacDonald · 11/08/2024 20:29

I have attended motorsports events for 40 years and have it down to a science.

Are you required to wear the team shirts?
If so, black or white cropped trousers look better and are lighter to pack than jeans.

If not, I have taken to wearing maxi dresses. Might sound weird but they work fine at track.

Black and white patterned dresses when possible (floral, geometric, etc) with silver sandals and a black or white sun hat.

Minimal silver jewelry. Small black crossbody purse will be your best friend for a race weekend, to hold phone, money, ticket, credit card, lipstick or lip balm. Sunglasses.

For a four day weekend I would wear white jeans and black top & cardigan on plane with the sandals. As long as you don't spill anything on the jeans they can be reworn.

Three maxi dresses and a couple of extra tops plus maybe the pair of cropped black trousers in the luggage. Underwear, small bag of toiletries, job done. If you prefer trainers to sandals wear them on plane.

Don't worry about rain gear etc.; even if it does rain you'll huddle somewhere sheltered. Your hat will do. I used to take waterproofs and rain ponchos and all that folderal and never used. Take a clip in case you need to pull your hair up.

Everyone will be in the same boat so don't worry too much; it difficult to stay glamorous at the track.

Marine30 · 11/08/2024 20:26

Roll everything - it not only makes them small, it makes them less wrinkly. Put stuff inside shoes and don’t take too many pairs. Bags for make up and anything else. Use hotel hairdryer.

Lovetotravel123 · 11/08/2024 20:23

Can you just change the booking so that you are allowed luggage? Sorry if that is a silly suggestion and not possible.

Temushopper · 11/08/2024 20:22

Do you have a list of the clothes you absolutely need & maybe people can help you figure out what could feasibly fit with them?

Temushopper · 11/08/2024 20:20

I don’t often do it but absolutely can.

I choose lightweight clothes (usually wrap dresses with tights & leggings/tunic tops with a thin cardigan, underwear & socks. I use hotel shampoo/soap & take travel toothpaste/moisturiser/conditioner, use your phone apps for any reading & puzzles. I have a usb plug for Europe & US so don’t need an adaptor just a cable. I always wear flat boots that work for walking long distances and can go with both dresses and trousers and pack ballet flats for a change some evenings. I have a sarong wrap that works as a lightweight towel if we will be swimming.

I never take extras of anything & just launder something if needs be. I have managed a fortnight away for work with hand luggage before. I did do a load of washing the middle weekend though so I really only had 8 days worth of stuff.

BeachBabbler · 11/08/2024 20:19

Oh! Dad does make it a bit harder. Still I bet you could pop a couple of bits in his bag if you need to.

NeedSomeAnswersPlease · 11/08/2024 20:16

BeachBabbler · 11/08/2024 20:14

@NeedSomeAnswersPlease the BA allowance is huge! I don't think you should have any problems at all - I hear what you are saying about needing lots of clothes but clothes aren't the main issue with packing light. You can take fresh clothes for the evening, rewear the bottom half during the day a couple of times and you'll be fine. Day shoes are travel shoes so you one have to pack one pair of sandals for the evening. Light weight Mac, one warm jumper and one evening cardi.

Toiletries etc are where the problems lie. Sounds like you are going as part of a couple? Can you either share items with your partner if he or she is high maintenance or slip a few bits into their case if he or she are low maintenance??

How about you write down everything you feel you need to bring and people can suggest areas you can trim?

Going with my dad 😩 I'll figure it out, I just find it so hard to not take stuff 🤣

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