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To think sending a job rejection e-mail at 10.45 on a Saturday night is a bit shitty?

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happygolurkey · 11/08/2024 11:49

This is the second time I’ve had a rejection email for a job application just before heading to my bed. I know it’s on me to not be checking this late on, but my emails were open from earlier that evening and I had just lifted my phone to set my alarm for the morning. In the case of this one last night, I’d had a short ‘informal’ zoom chat with them followed by a formal interview. Then this fairly generic rejection email. What’s getting to me is that on leaving the interview the interviewer specifically said that they would make a decision on the Thursday, but rather than contact applicants at, in her own words ‘unsociable hours they had previously been corresponding’ they’d wait till the next day. So they knew it was a bit shit but did it anyway. I’m guessing the reason they didn’t get in touch on the Friday was they were negotiating with the successful applicant, which is fair enough. But why send it at that time of night, to me it just leaves you with your head burling and unable to sleep, whereas through the day you can distract yourself, do something for your wellbeing, or ‘get back on the horse’ so to speak by looking for something else, working on your cv or taking some positive step of some kind. Am being unreasonable, or is this just the new norm? Am buying an alarm clock today and making sure I’m more mindful of phone use, as I say, I know it’s on me and to manage that, but just think this could have been handled with more consideration. I was thinking of emailing tomorrow morning pointing this out, but wonder if it’s worth the bother. Sorry this is so long. Just feeling a bit crap

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TestingTestingWonTooFree · 11/08/2024 11:57

You don’t necessarily know when it was sent? Emails are sometimes delayed.

theduchessofspork · 11/08/2024 11:55

Yep, send an email back pointing out there is a schedule button, and not using it isnr kind or professional.

However they were working late, so don’t be too harsh.

Sorry you didn’t get the gig and good luck next time.

coffeeandsleep · 11/08/2024 11:54

Really bad from them to do this. I wouldn’t want to work for an organisation that thinks this is an acceptable way to treat people so maybe you’ve had a lucky escape.

BeachRide · 11/08/2024 11:52

I'm sorry, PP, that's shitty of them. One New Year's Eve I was alone at midnight, had had no messages etc. all evening. Feeling pretty suicidal. Then at 00:02 my text notification went ... it was Morrisons confirming my delivery pass had been renewed for another month.

Thanks, Universe.

Bogginsthe3rd · 11/08/2024 11:51

If there are no ramifications for any future job interviews I would email back to politely but firmly point this out.

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