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to report this to the police, even though I am technically implicating myself?

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Imperrysmum · 10/08/2024 15:27

My local park is locked overnight and isn’t opened until 6am. It’s a huge park but in one area part of the fence is missing so I squeeze through and go into the park to walk my dog at 4am (he is an XL bully so I like to go the park when nobody is about)

The last few mornings when I have been walking round by the pond there have been a couple of men sitting on the benches next to the pond “feeding the ducks”. I noticed they have black bin liners next to them too. I’m pretty sure I recognise these men from working in a takeaway restaurant.

I am concerned they are trying to catch ducks. I hope i’m wrong, but I just can’t see why two adult men would sit feeding the ducks at 4am?! Especially as the park is officially closed and they have bin liners next to them.

AIBU to report this to the police, even though I’ll be implicating myself too?

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ScottBakula · 20/11/2024 22:40

Hmm OK I now see you are not new to mn , you were around in Sept 2022 , claiming to be new then too.🤔🙄

ScottBakula · 20/11/2024 22:33

You didn't offend but unfortunately there are lots of times when the OP ( original poster ) has updated their thread and yet people pile on to give excuses/ reasons /solutions that have either already been suggested dozens of time or can be quite hurtful .
I prime example was a few months ago the OP was looking for advice and a hand hold when her dog bit a family member .
Lots saying put it to sleep , others saying it may be in pain/ ill etc . OP updated regularly and it turned out the dog had a brain tumor so the op had to have the dog put down .
Loads of people still said, it's got a ear infection / get it to the vets / it may have tooth ache etc . Op was understandably very upset.
Mnhq even edited the tite to say read the updates before posting yet lots still piled on.
There are lots of other threads like this too,
I know you didn't do this , but you can see how it can be frustrating.
To read the ops updates click on the 'see next ' or 'see all' in the bottom right corner.

Lottielou345 · 20/11/2024 20:09

iv only just joined this forum because my ducks are disappearing. recently the village muscovy duck gone it's broken me so im just on the look out for tips etc . didn't mean to offend . it seems to me there's a lot of misunderstandings on these forums so im not gonna bother after this message .

ScottBakula · 20/11/2024 19:37

ZOMBIE ( ish ) thread.

@Lottielou345 I guess you feel you didn't need to read even @Imperrysmum s updates let alone the whole thread

Lottielou345 · 20/11/2024 00:51

Imperrysmum · 10/08/2024 15:29

Suspicious behaviour and potentially stealing ducks?

it's illegal to steal domesticated ducks from a pond . report them as it's happening near me aswell . my fav muscovy duck was taken on halloween night . they come and throw nets over the ducks . iam furious and really sad that this has happened . if no one reports this it will carry on . iam very aware and alert now to seeing strange men walking round our pond . then later that night the ducks gone missing . i mean who do they think they are . !!

BeachParty · 26/08/2024 14:02

Strangerthanfictions · 26/08/2024 02:28

I take it that is a joke. What a stupidly unsafe suggestion. Don't go to the park alone in the middle of the night to approach or spy on suspicious men Op please

Nah, OP just hides in a bush for 2 hours at 4am in the morning instead lol
(Apparently)

Wetherspoons · 26/08/2024 13:50

Strangerthanfictions · 26/08/2024 02:28

I take it that is a joke. What a stupidly unsafe suggestion. Don't go to the park alone in the middle of the night to approach or spy on suspicious men Op please

Too late squire, the bun is out of the oven.

As seen from above OP posts, she's already done a little 'surveillance' operation lmaooo

Strangerthanfictions · 26/08/2024 02:28

Thesecretingredientiscrime · 10/08/2024 15:30

Well it does sound a bit dodgy.
Before reporting anything, I'd be going back to the park without dog to observe them more closely.

I take it that is a joke. What a stupidly unsafe suggestion. Don't go to the park alone in the middle of the night to approach or spy on suspicious men Op please

EveSix · 26/08/2024 02:22

Thank you for the update, OP. That is very sweet. Those guys have given me notions... I've a nearby large pond which would probably be a lovely place to swim in a heatwave (next summer), I've just never thought of it. I love that feeling though, when you're the only one(s) awake someplace and can sort of do as you please, within reason.

AmateurDad · 26/08/2024 00:58

Imperrysmum · 10/08/2024 15:34

Surely this makes me a responsible XL bully owner? As i’m walking him at 4am when the park is closed, therefore it’s on private property?

Huh? No, it's a public park. The fact the gates are locked for the night doesn't change that! And how do you get to the park...?

Wetherspoons · 26/08/2024 00:49

Imperrysmum · 25/08/2024 23:29

Oh jesus christ we were in a bush for 3 hours, he needs some water, snacks and a bloody break from the muzzle. Stop being so mean to an innocent dog.

Having a dog in a bush for 3 hours, its the Special Woofconnaissance Regiment lol

PleaseStopEatingMyStuff · 25/08/2024 23:41

Just caught up on all this OP. I'm quietly chuckling and you and your dog conducting hours worth of surveillance on two wild swimmers!!
I'd have been suspicious too but happily it was a harmless outcome.
Well done to you both for potentially protecting wildlife-sort of!

Imperrysmum · 25/08/2024 23:29

FreyaFromTheFens · 23/08/2024 09:55

How did you clamp his mouth shut if he was wearing a muzzle? 🙄

Oh jesus christ we were in a bush for 3 hours, he needs some water, snacks and a bloody break from the muzzle. Stop being so mean to an innocent dog.

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FreyaFromTheFens · 23/08/2024 09:55

How did you clamp his mouth shut if he was wearing a muzzle? 🙄

coffeenootropics · 23/08/2024 09:13

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coffeenootropics · 23/08/2024 09:12

huh? 😆

GripeOfTheDay · 23/08/2024 09:07

And what was this meant to be?

If you're supportive of the poster or not, just call it out.

Don't be incideous with comments, as there are already too many spiteful little people commenting, under their banner of free speech etc.

Just another way of justifying bullying!

But that's my opinion, hurtful or not, I'm entitled too apparently.

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Lucy25 · 22/08/2024 13:19

WiddlinDiddlin · 22/08/2024 04:12

Im not missing the point at all, I am well aware that the point is the spurious claim these men were stealing ducks or otherwise up to no good.

I am addressing someone elses point (that is a thing people do on threads, they evolve, other points arise and are discussed), that the OP appears responsible as a dog owner.

She is not, she's breaking the conditions of the exemption certificate.
I have presumed the dog is unmuzzled, you are correct, but it actually doesn't matter either way.

Either way, the whole point of the original post was about the ducks/swans.OP has updated, the matter has been resolved, so that’s really good news.

offyoujollywelltrot · 22/08/2024 06:38

Imperrysmum · 15/08/2024 21:36

Hi all. Thought I’d do a quick update as a few of you had been speculating I had ended up on the specials menu.

So…I was wrong.

Waited in the bush last Sunday morning for nearly 2 hours until they finally turned up at 5am.

They sat on the bench for a while, feeding the ducks then stripped off and swam in the pond. Meanwhile i’m stuck inside the bush, with CHRONIC cramp in my calf from crouching for so long, nearly in tears with the pain while wrestling my dogs mouth shut so he doesn’t bark at the naked men swimming past us in the pond.

When they got out they dried off with towels from the black bags and got out a flask of tea(?) to drink.

So yep, I was wrong. Not snatching ducks.

LOL

This thread is funny as fuck.

Btw I love bullies can we see a photo please? 🥰 I know you've got a lot of shit for having an XL, but you're clearly following the rules and people need to get off your back about that.

I'm a large dog owner but he's not an XL.

WiddlinDiddlin · 22/08/2024 04:12

Lucy25 · 21/08/2024 20:58

I think you’re missing the point because the post wasn’t about her dog.It’s not helping that you’re presuming, that her dog was unmuzzled and getting personal, saying op is irresponsible.
If you’re not going to give helpful advice, staying on the subject, what’s the point in commenting, just to have a go at someone, you don’t actually know.

Im not missing the point at all, I am well aware that the point is the spurious claim these men were stealing ducks or otherwise up to no good.

I am addressing someone elses point (that is a thing people do on threads, they evolve, other points arise and are discussed), that the OP appears responsible as a dog owner.

She is not, she's breaking the conditions of the exemption certificate.
I have presumed the dog is unmuzzled, you are correct, but it actually doesn't matter either way.

Lucy25 · 21/08/2024 20:58

WiddlinDiddlin · 17/08/2024 22:59

Sorry, whats responsible about breaching the exemption conditions for her dog by letting it run around in a public park, presumably unmuzzled too, on the grounds that because it is locked it is therefore private property ... totally missing the point that the exemption certificate only allows you to have your dog off lead and unmuzzled on your own property.

I think you’re missing the point because the post wasn’t about her dog.It’s not helping that you’re presuming, that her dog was unmuzzled and getting personal, saying op is irresponsible.
If you’re not going to give helpful advice, staying on the subject, what’s the point in commenting, just to have a go at someone, you don’t actually know.

SweetcornFritter · 20/08/2024 07:49

I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve read an anonymous poster on a forum claiming to have a mate who’s a copper who confirms the veracity of some ludicrous conspiracy or other.

Hectorscalling · 19/08/2024 18:03

user1493379562 · 19/08/2024 15:28

Because he and his colleagues used to go there for an FBI every month! He told me and his mates confirmed it.
He is / was racist. I can assure you I am not!
He is also an ex copper.

Edited

Being a customer there doesn’t mean his story is true or that he would know more than anyone else. Did the owners meet all the customers and tell them they were serving dog?

Still doesn’t make his job relevant.

Think about it. He is a racist, spouting a well known racist fake story. And you are retelling it as fact. You are perpetuating this, disgusting, story that is racist.

What do you call someone who spreads fake stories, that are racist in nature?

user1493379562 · 19/08/2024 15:28

Hectorscalling · 19/08/2024 11:35

Why would your ex being a copper have to do with anything?

He was a racist idiot. The fact that he was a copper just makes his (and your) racism even worse.

Because he and his colleagues used to go there for an FBI every month! He told me and his mates confirmed it.
He is / was racist. I can assure you I am not!
He is also an ex copper.

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