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To say 3 year old DC is 2 for free theme park entry?

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MooonDreamerz · 10/08/2024 08:43

Toddler has just turned 3 and very small for their age.
we are going to a theme park next week. It's free for age 0-2.

DH says we should say DC is 2 so we don't have to pay for them. We will be paying for ourselves and older children.

Do people do this?

I can see how people get away with it as toddlers tend not to carry ID!

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flapjackfairy · 10/08/2024 10:49

Leafcutterantsarecool · 10/08/2024 08:48

Yes people do it. Personally I think it’s equivalent to theft and I wouldn’t - I don’t want my kids watching that behaviour and thinking it’s ok to lie for your own financial gain.

But as they say, “you do you”.

exactly !

dbeuowlxb173939 · 10/08/2024 10:48

Yes people do this, my DD was small too and I said she was still 2 until she was 3.5 then felt too guilty!

Fizbosshoes · 10/08/2024 10:48

I am less than 5ft, I took my DC and a friend to a theme park once, I'm a bit of a wimp so I don't generally get my moneys worth from that type of thing. I lined up with DD and friend to go on the log flume and the man said they had to come back with an adult! 🤣

Edenmum2 · 10/08/2024 10:46

Yes we do this, my DD is tiny and the difference at our local zoo is literally £37!! If you are over 2 you are an adult apparently 🤷‍♀️

ItsTheGAGGGGGGGG · 10/08/2024 10:41

Ofc. Go for it

yeesh · 10/08/2024 10:40

I would

Qwertys · 10/08/2024 10:38

It’s insane you’d even bother to ask this on mumsnet. This place is like a parallel universe sometimes

Needhelp101 · 10/08/2024 10:37

I was getting on the tour bus in Liverpool with my sons and was asked the age of the youngest one.

"He's seven" I said, being honest.
"No," said the driver, spreading the fingers of one hand out. "HOW old is he?"
Me, catching on, "Oh, he's five"
"Then he travels for free" said the driver, God bless him.

Of course, DS then pipes up indignantly, "I'm not five"

They still let him on for free. I love Liverpool.

Willmafrockfit · 10/08/2024 10:36

do it

IMBCRound2 · 10/08/2024 10:35

My three year old is particularly tiny - they took one look at her and said she’s one in their eyes so she could go free ….

PotatoPie111 · 10/08/2024 10:32

I wouldn’t mind doing this as it’s not like they will be getting much use out of the place/rides anyway. If they want to charge for 3 year olds then they should provide lots for them to do, bet they don’t.
Im still annoyed we had to pay for a full child ticket for DD in some gardens with a play area for older children when she was 1. She was asleep in her pushchair the entire time.

hookiewookie29 · 10/08/2024 10:30

I'm going to a soft play area next week. Children are 10, 9, 7 and 16 months. Price is £6.95 aged one and above. Youngest was 10 weeks prem si looks around 10 months. Won't be paying, she's not even walking and will either be asleep or on my lap!

Turophilic · 10/08/2024 10:27

Goodadvice1980 · 10/08/2024 10:03

I wouldn’t lie OP. Worse case scenario what if there’s an accident and it turns out you lied about this age and he isn’t covered by their public liability insurance?

Not even remotely true. Their public liability and the amount you pay at the entrance have nothing to do with one another.

recurringcovid · 10/08/2024 10:27

We was in a resteraunt last night and the kids menu stopped aged ten, DS turned 11 a couple of weeks ago, we said he was 10, he wouldn’t eat an adults portion.

If your child is small for her age she probably won’t be able to go on many rides either.

I also hate how theme parks don’t have a spectator pass, I hate going to just be the donkey who Carrie things whilst everyone else is on the rides and pay a privilege for it!!

Turophilic · 10/08/2024 10:25

Namechangenoooo · 10/08/2024 10:16

I did this with my son and he reminded me in front of the ticket lady that he was now 3 😂The lady laughed and said mummy must have forgotten!! She waved us through. That was at Legoland or Chessington .

I’ve been there!

Three days after my son turned 4, my cousin asked him how old he was:

”I’m 4 but I’m 3 when we’re riding Thomas The Tank Engine”

It was twice as much to ride Thomas at 4 than it was at 3. I’d be damned if I’m paying an extra tenner for the sake of three days.

AnnaMagnani · 10/08/2024 10:25

Doesn't everyone do this?

I was a tall child so faking a younger age wasn't especially believable. But I can remember being taught by my mum 'if anyone asks you are 4 (or whatever was the qualifying age for discount)'

Procrastinates · 10/08/2024 10:23

I also don’t agree with it being height based as just because a young child is taller mean they are mature enough to want to go on a ride.

The point of charging by height is they could go on the ride though if they wanted to. A child who is older but smaller isn't actually allowed on the rides so they are being charged more but able to use less of the facilities and depending on the theme park there's normally a large proportion of stuff shorter children can't use which is pretty crap if they've paid the same price as a much older child who can use the whole park.

Createausername1970 · 10/08/2024 10:23

I am the type of person who will point out I have been given too much change, I prefer to be honest.

But I have done what you are going to do. If I paid more at the gate, then I had less to spend inside, at the gift shop for example, so I was telling DS "no, sorry, can't afford it". But if I paid less at the gate then I had more money to spend inside. My DS got a better experience as he came away with stuff from the gift shop and had ice creams and lunch etc.

I probably ended up spending more overall when I paid less at the gate.

Charlie2121 · 10/08/2024 10:22

Would you also steal from a shop if you knew you wouldn’t be caught?

There is no difference.

whatsappdoc · 10/08/2024 10:21

I more than make up for a free child by having to pay a full adult price and not going on any rides. So in my eyes they're quids in.

lol at it's only 'a few bob extra'. Throw a few notes my way will you?

Soubriquet · 10/08/2024 10:20

Absolutely go for it. Especially if there isn’t many rides for the 3 year old to go on.

It’s one of the perks of having a tiny toddler

Aprilmaymum · 10/08/2024 10:20

I have problems as my DC are all very tall and look much older. I have been asked on a couple of occasions when I hadn’t paid for my two year old as he looked well over three. I also don’t agree with it being height based as just because a young child is taller mean they are mature enough to want to go on a ride. I have always been honest to teach my children honestly but it is up to you really.

Notthatcatagain · 10/08/2024 10:19

I paid the proper price for small grandchildren last summer, never occurred to me not to do so. Then got absolutely fleeced for ridiculously priced ice cream and soft drinks. I shall think twice next time

Namechangenoooo · 10/08/2024 10:19

MeYouAndAQuestion · 10/08/2024 10:09

I never did it as it's not the type of thing I do however I almost always had the extra fee waived. We used to ski at different resorts and it seemed to be a policy to let older kids in at the younger kids prices. My kids were tall too.

I dislike casual dishonesty and I find it cheap to lie about things like this. The worse thing is when people try and justify doing it. If you are ok doing it then own it! Don't try and make up reasons why it's morally ok. It's hardly the biggest crime in the world but it's not honest.

🙄

sesquipedalian · 10/08/2024 10:16

Sorry, but I’m appalled by the casual dishonesty people are displaying. If you think theme parks are extortionately priced and the food and drink are daylight robbery, then don’t go - but don’t use it as a justification for being dishonest, and saving a few bob in an entry ticket.