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To say 3 year old DC is 2 for free theme park entry?

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MooonDreamerz · 10/08/2024 08:43

Toddler has just turned 3 and very small for their age.
we are going to a theme park next week. It's free for age 0-2.

DH says we should say DC is 2 so we don't have to pay for them. We will be paying for ourselves and older children.

Do people do this?

I can see how people get away with it as toddlers tend not to carry ID!

OP posts:
Bouliegirl · 10/08/2024 14:26

Doesn’t everyone do this for as long as they can?

Leafcutterantsarecool · 10/08/2024 14:23

mynewname25 · 10/08/2024 14:09

I hardly think that the 3 yr old is going to be aware of how much they are paying or not paying for the tickets 🙄

She’s taking older children too 🙄. And actually my kids by age three were well aware what age they were and would have noticed if got it wrong and asked why I’d said they were two not three. So either I’d need to tell them why, or I’d start lying to them too.

I dare say all avoidable these days by paying online anyway, but that’s not really the point.

herecomesthesunyes · 10/08/2024 14:18

@Charlie2121 😂

Charlie2121 · 10/08/2024 14:18

CarbfinderGeneral · 10/08/2024 14:11

People being enormous, billion pound corporations 😂

Edited

Trying to justify being a thief isn’t quite the win you think it is.

herecomesthesunyes · 10/08/2024 14:17

@mynewname25 you’d be surprised! They’ll certainly know you’re lying about their age.

1offnamechange · 10/08/2024 14:17

Leafcutterantsarecool · 10/08/2024 08:48

Yes people do it. Personally I think it’s equivalent to theft and I wouldn’t - I don’t want my kids watching that behaviour and thinking it’s ok to lie for your own financial gain.

But as they say, “you do you”.

You really think a three year old is going to
a) notice wtf is going on when their parents buy tickets and
b)remember it for more than a minute when they are at a theme park
c) have this one off incident influence their internal morality for the rest of their life?

My parents used to round down our ages when they could get away with it. Once they bought a family ticket (2 adults 2 kids) and made me (3rd child) sneak in behind another family! I have somehow despite this nefarious criminal influence managed to grow up into an honest and productive member of society who doesn't even take a pound if the person before me left it in the locker/supermarket trolley when I use it....

fitzwilliamdarcy · 10/08/2024 14:16

Why not? According to yesterday’s thread, parents are smuggling kids into hotel rooms routinely, why not rip off the theme parks too?

CarbfinderGeneral · 10/08/2024 14:11

Charlie2121 · 10/08/2024 13:58

Get off your arse and do more work instead of stealing off people. It’s scummy behaviour.

People being enormous, billion pound corporations 😂

mynewname25 · 10/08/2024 14:09

Leafcutterantsarecool · 10/08/2024 08:48

Yes people do it. Personally I think it’s equivalent to theft and I wouldn’t - I don’t want my kids watching that behaviour and thinking it’s ok to lie for your own financial gain.

But as they say, “you do you”.

I hardly think that the 3 yr old is going to be aware of how much they are paying or not paying for the tickets 🙄

Charlie2121 · 10/08/2024 13:58

CarbfinderGeneral · 10/08/2024 13:54

In this economy? Absolutely

Get off your arse and do more work instead of stealing off people. It’s scummy behaviour.

PreggersWithBaby2 · 10/08/2024 13:55

In my local playground, there is a different entry fee for U3s and over 3s. Over 3s are allowed in a separate area of the playground and can do some different activities that U3s can't because of insurance. My worry would be if you pay the cheaper amount, they might not be allowed on some of the rides.

CarbfinderGeneral · 10/08/2024 13:54

Charlie2121 · 10/08/2024 10:22

Would you also steal from a shop if you knew you wouldn’t be caught?

There is no difference.

In this economy? Absolutely

BettyBardMacDonald · 10/08/2024 13:42

NeedToChangeName · 10/08/2024 13:38

I'm surprised how many people on this thread (1) do this, (2) think it's acceptable and (3) think it's funny if a child knows what's going on

I try really hard to be a good role model for my children. I wouldn't risk their respect to save a few quid

I wouldn't sell my integrity to save a few quid.

BettyBardMacDonald · 10/08/2024 13:42

Sugarlily · 10/08/2024 13:27

You say a restaurant meal but where do you draw the line? Is a £5 lunch ok, or a £1,50 ice cream? Is it ok to steal these smaller things? That’s what you’re saying.

people draw their own lines. For me, I wouldn’t ‘take’ from a small business - but from a large corporate paying workers pennies whilst their board members lounge in their millions and keep putting prices up? Well I’d lose no sleep over that.

Corporate profits benefit shareholders, most of whom are average people who rely on stock market investments for their pensions.

Those of you who want to run non-profit companies, give away your services and goods at the lowest possible prices, overlook thievery and yet pay your workers handsomely: What's stopping you?!

Auburngal · 10/08/2024 13:39

TheaBrandt · 10/08/2024 08:51

Just makes you a flat out liar but you’d likely get away with it. Our issue is a 15 year old who could pass for 18 bus drivers etc just don’t believe her.

I had that issue. Bus drivers think the taller you are the older you are. Carried a photocopy of passport. Then when I was 18, bus operator had a pass for under 16s which had expiry date of day before 16th birthday.

NeedToChangeName · 10/08/2024 13:38

I'm surprised how many people on this thread (1) do this, (2) think it's acceptable and (3) think it's funny if a child knows what's going on

I try really hard to be a good role model for my children. I wouldn't risk their respect to save a few quid

Charlie2121 · 10/08/2024 13:37

SamW98 · 10/08/2024 13:16

Absolutely this. I’m a financial crime manager as a job and we wouldn’t be investigating anyone who did this 🤣

I’d to it in a heartbeat.

My son and his mates still bought under 18 tickets for football for months after their birthdays. At half price why not?

No theft is a victimless crime. That is just you justifying criminal activity.

You may have no respect for those you steal from so I assume you’d also have no issue with someone who stole from you simply because they thought nothing of you.

BirthdayRainbow · 10/08/2024 13:36

We took our son to London for his fifth birthday. We were asked how old he was and said five today. He should have been paid for but they let us off, I assume as it was his birthday. So much better than lying and being found out. If it was a 14 month old and looked 12 months then different as they don't understand what is going on.

Auburngal · 10/08/2024 13:33

My parents did this a lot when I was a child. Especially theme parks in Florida. An adult at the time (unsure now) was classed as 13+. The year I went aged 13 my parents paid for a child’s admission for me. Must have saved about $200.

Then when my dad was 60/61, he asked for 2 OAPs admission when mum was 59.

TrixieFatell · 10/08/2024 13:33

Sugarlily · 10/08/2024 13:19

Honestly the people at the gates couldn’t care less, of course most people do it for the few months they can get away with it.

I tried this and my daughter piped up "but I'm three mummy, not two". The person at the gate thought it was hilarious and charged her admission for a two year old.

Leafcutterantsarecool · 10/08/2024 13:31

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/08/2024 13:01

If you can save yourself a few bob, then I'm all for it, OP.

Don't listen to any Pollyanna's decrying your 'bad example'.
It's a victimless crime.

No, it’s not victimless. No such thing. Might not be worth investigating and it’s hardly crime of the century, but it is depriving a business of money they are rightfully owed.

The justifications on here are ridiculous. “I bought my whole weekly shop at Tesco so shoplifting this chocolate bar is ok”, “Tesco charges too much for their food, so shoplifting this chocolate bar is ok”, “I don’t enjoy this chocolate bar as much as someone who has a sweeter tooth, so I shouldn’t have to pay for it”, “Everyone else is shoplifting chocolate bars and the checkout operators don’t seem to care, so it’s ok for me to shoplift this chocolate bar too”… it’s no different.

Do it or don’t do it, I don’t care. But quit trying to take the moral high ground while you dishonestly gain a financial advantage over what is often a fairly small business. There’s nothing “Pollyanna” about being honest and paying the correct price for things you consume, be that products or experiences.

Sugarlily · 10/08/2024 13:31

so you wouldn’t lie about ages at a small family run place?

depends what the situation is. If I had two other kids and two adults paying full price and was planning on spending money in there too then, yes, I’d not worry about that.

SamW98 · 10/08/2024 13:30

Sugarlily · 10/08/2024 13:27

You say a restaurant meal but where do you draw the line? Is a £5 lunch ok, or a £1,50 ice cream? Is it ok to steal these smaller things? That’s what you’re saying.

people draw their own lines. For me, I wouldn’t ‘take’ from a small business - but from a large corporate paying workers pennies whilst their board members lounge in their millions and keep putting prices up? Well I’d lose no sleep over that.

Agree. When my son at 18 was buying £10 football tickets rather than £40 adult ones, I shed zero tears for the gazillionaire club owners who charge rip off prices to line their own pockets.

Cornflowers35 · 10/08/2024 13:29

I once was mistaken for an under 5 on my 9th birthday. We were in Bruges and crossing a toll bridge. When my parents checked the receipt they realised they hadn't been charged for me.

I also got mistaken for under 15 on a preserved railway. I was 22. To be fair to the volunteer conductor, I'd been swimming in the sea, looked a bit of a mess and had a bike with me. I was with my dad on a day trip. (Being short has it's advantages). But it was my dad's favourite place so I insisted he took the money. I didn't let on how much over the child maximum range I was though.

I do agree theme parks for little one are expensive. But if it was for Gulliver's even if you paid, I think it great for little ones.

herecomesthesunyes · 10/08/2024 13:28

@Sugarlily so you wouldn’t lie about ages at a small family run place?

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