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'Sneaking' two extra children into hotel room booked for two adults and two children

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AlbertCamel · 09/08/2024 09:04

AIBU in thinking this may have implications regarding insurance etc?

Friend is off on holiday later today to a large hotel abroad with her DH and four DC aged between 4 and 16. Not a package, no meals included and flights were booked separately.

The room has a small bedroom, bathroom and living area with a sofa bed. It sleeps 4. They've booked it for two adults and two children. That's the maximum number of people allowed.

She wants to check in with DH, their two youngest boys and all their luggage, and have the two oldest boys wait outside until they're 'sneaked' in a little while later.

I think that whilst this is logistically possible, it will have implications but not sure what these implications might be. Friend thinks there's no problem with this and nobody will bat an eyelid.

AIBU in saying it's not a good idea?

OP posts:
BippityBopper · 09/08/2024 11:39

Your "friend" 😂

Tracker1234 · 09/08/2024 11:38

They probably think they are being so clever dont they and claiming they dont have money for anything else. Thing is it will be a truly horribly holiday, the room will be a mess and the kids will end up fighting with each other.

I would rather stay at home cutting my toenails than go on a sort of holiday like this.

theworldsmad · 09/08/2024 11:38

Macandcheeese · 09/08/2024 09:09

I work in a hotel. If someone did this and we had a fire we would only be looking for the people booked into the room.

This is not thought through.
What if the 2 people legally in room 227 went out for dinner? You can never tell how many people are in a hotel at any given time.

MildredSauce · 09/08/2024 11:37

Dick move, simple as. And do the kids know they need to maintain a lie for 10 nights?

CoffeeGood · 09/08/2024 11:36

fishandchipsandvinegar · 09/08/2024 11:32

I've done this many times at hotels in Las Vegas, albeit with adults and not children. I've never had a problem. Insurance never crossed my mind, especially as there are hotel guests who invite one night stands up to their rooms. When has that ever been an insurance issue?

To be fair, there's a bit of difference between having an unplanned one night stand and planning on sneaking in 2 extra kids for 10 days!

Animatic · 09/08/2024 11:36

Misthios · 09/08/2024 11:34

No no you misunderstand. The normal families with 4 kids book two rooms and sort themselves out with the combination of sleeping arrangements which suits.

The cheeky fuckers book one room for 2 adults and 2 kids and pile in two extra.

Ah OK, I misunderstood 😅

Tracker1234 · 09/08/2024 11:35

It sort of is the other residents business! How would you like it if you had paid properly for your stay and guests were sneaking in other people. Facilities are for the guests not for random people who the hotel doesnt know about. They are also probably the sort of people who would try and reserve SIX sunbeds in the middle of the night.

You normally need to give your passports in on check in for registration.

Can you imagine your friend being pulled up on this and asked to leave. We will then see the Daily Mail 'sad face' story and how we should 'think of the children'!!

Scirocco · 09/08/2024 11:35

That sleeping arrangement sounds like it'll last about 2 nights before the kids want to kill each other.

Fire safety is a potential issue there. In the event of a fire (or other emergency), all the records will show 2 children and 2 adults for that booking, so that's what emergency responders will be looking for. That might not feel like a big deal to some people, but the hotel is likely to care about it. If they're caught, they're at real risk of being asked to leave.

Misthios · 09/08/2024 11:34

Animatic · 09/08/2024 11:32

i am not sure what is the problem with having 2 double rooms with extra child bed in each to cater for family of 6. what exactly is CF?

No no you misunderstand. The normal families with 4 kids book two rooms and sort themselves out with the combination of sleeping arrangements which suits.

The cheeky fuckers book one room for 2 adults and 2 kids and pile in two extra.

Butwhybecause · 09/08/2024 11:34

Where will they all sleep?

It doesn't sound like a restful holiday to me.

GlassRadiator · 09/08/2024 11:34

Have they done it for daddy so he can have more beer money ?

jennylamb1 · 09/08/2024 11:32

My money's on the hotel catching on fire while they're burying a body in the woods. Grin

ChristmasFluff · 09/08/2024 11:32

This is one of those situations where she'll wish she hadn't because it will make the holliday shit, one way or another.

I'd rather stay at home

fishandchipsandvinegar · 09/08/2024 11:32

I've done this many times at hotels in Las Vegas, albeit with adults and not children. I've never had a problem. Insurance never crossed my mind, especially as there are hotel guests who invite one night stands up to their rooms. When has that ever been an insurance issue?

Animatic · 09/08/2024 11:32

Misthios · 09/08/2024 11:19

Yes that's exactly what the non-grabby cheeky fucker families do. I get it. We have three kids and so many rooms are set up for 2 adults and 2 kids. But it never occurred to us to think fuck it, we'll just book for 2 plus 2 and sneak the other one in to sleep on a pool toy.

i am not sure what is the problem with having 2 double rooms with extra child bed in each to cater for family of 6. what exactly is CF?

Conniebygaslight · 09/08/2024 11:31

AlbertCamel · 09/08/2024 09:12

It obviously doesn't impact me directly, I'm not going with them, but was just trying to understand the implications of over occupancy from the perspective of the hotel and how that might affect their stay.

They're going to Spain.

It won’t be the first time or the last that people have done this and to be honest with the money that is charged by holiday companies during school holidays I can’t say I blame them.
I can’t understand why you’ve posted about it though, it’s quite frankly none of your business is it now…..

FrenchandSaunders · 09/08/2024 11:30

LostittoBostik · 09/08/2024 11:16

They wouldn't know but if the parents were killed or incapacitated nobody would be looking for the children.

Some people are chilled about this level of risk - serious but vanishingly unlikely. I'm not.

Christ almighty ... what are the chances of both parents being killed or incapacitated ... I can't believe some people live like this! How do you leave the house!

itsgettingweird · 09/08/2024 11:29

Iasonnas · 09/08/2024 11:27

"I work in a hotel. If someone did this and we had a fire we would only be looking for the people booked into the room."

🤣🤣🤣 such horseshit. The things some people write.

How the fuck is that bullshit?

You can't look for people you don't know are there?

SarahB88 · 09/08/2024 11:29

There’s a lot of problems in Spain at the moment with tourism. I’d imagine that when housekeeping go in and see that the room is clearly over occupied they won’t hesitate to flag to management and the booking will be cancelled. But regardless of what country is being visited I wouldn’t risk this, I also work in a hotel and like others have said we can and do cancel bookings for things like this. I hope your friend has a back up plan because it’s likely to be tricky to get accommodation in Spain last minute. You were right to flag your concerns to her.

Tracker1234 · 09/08/2024 11:29

Its effectively stealing! The other kids will have access to the hotel facilities for free. How would your friend feel if non residents starting using the pool and sitting on the sun beds. It would be bedlam. Their kids are non residents.

FrenchandSaunders · 09/08/2024 11:27

namechangetheworld · 09/08/2024 11:11

Burden their friend with this knowledge.

Fuck me, she told her she's sneaking two kids into a hotel room. She didn't bury a body in the woods.

Love it 😂
Can't believe the furore on this!

itsgettingweird · 09/08/2024 11:27

I'm on holiday just now. At no point have I given my holiday address to anyone

Did you have to hand your passports in at reception? I've usually had to do this and they say it's for registration.

Iasonnas · 09/08/2024 11:27

"I work in a hotel. If someone did this and we had a fire we would only be looking for the people booked into the room."

🤣🤣🤣 such horseshit. The things some people write.

AppleStrudelwithcream · 09/08/2024 11:26

Apart from the in the event of fire/emergency scenario likelihood is in a large hotel they won't notice and nothing much will happen?

Might depend on layout of hotel a bit too but most I've been in wouldn't notice extra guests and you could say the older ones are visitors staying somewhere else?

Otherstories2002 · 09/08/2024 11:24

Izzymoon · 09/08/2024 10:57

Honestly the idea of being asked to confirm details like this sounds incredibly tacky. Hotels have always had a large open ground floor with all night concierge.
I’ve never experienced hotel locking the door.

The hotels that don’t have secure access areas, all of them.

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