So my family live 4 hours away, i would like to move closer to them... Kids see their dad a few hours on a Sunday each week, I planned on suggesting that change to an overnight sat to sun every other week when he manages to move out of his mums spare room.
He obviously won't be best pleased if I say we're up and leaving even if his access wouldn't change, it's the principle of it I imagine.
Would I be crazy to give him the tenancy on my social housing home so he gets the house and I move in to private rent by my family. My thinking is it would sweeten the situation for him as he doesn't have his own place and has no plans to move out because of the money involved. But it would mean I lose the security of a social house... but would potentially get the move? He might just say no to all as a control move anyway