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Is going away worth it -M drowning in laundry!

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spanieleyes22 · 08/08/2024 17:44

Just so much laundry to get through and we all have to wear clothes for the next week until we go🤣 then it will e massive laundry when we get back is it all worth it I can't help asking myself🙈

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Gogogo12345 · 08/08/2024 21:55

DappledThings · 08/08/2024 21:51

Absolutely. People really do make work for themselves. We just came back from a week. Only took a change of pyjamas for one of us because DS has accidents and might need a spare pair. Wouldnt cross my mind to do anything other than wear one pair for a week for everyone else.

Lol I save washing simply by sleeping naked As does OH

DappledThings · 08/08/2024 21:51

cardibach · 08/08/2024 21:18

Why do you need to wash night clothes? Honestly, people make so much work for themselves. Night clothes are fine for a week or more.

Absolutely. People really do make work for themselves. We just came back from a week. Only took a change of pyjamas for one of us because DS has accidents and might need a spare pair. Wouldnt cross my mind to do anything other than wear one pair for a week for everyone else.

EatTheBastard · 08/08/2024 21:34

Hugmorecats · 08/08/2024 19:01

@Biggaybear you might have forgotten or maybe yours weren’t like this, but my young kids wee themselves or get food/mud/toothpaste/paint/playdoh all over their clothes and so can go through several changes of clothes a day - plus they get mine dirty - it all adds up and I have a sizeable pile just from one day!

play clothes are the answer! Do you have any curtains you’re about to replace? …………….

Is going away worth it -M drowning in laundry!
ItsAlrightDarling · 08/08/2024 21:26

ElspethofEcclefechan · 08/08/2024 21:25

I think it might also make a difference if you're someone with a fairly minimalist wardrobe. So you come back to a fairly empty wardrobe and feel you need to get the washing on straight away.

It isn't a big deal, but I totally get op's slightly tongue in cheek exasperation over the whole hassle of taking little kids on holiday of which an extra load of laundry is just one aspect.

Think people are being a bit bullishly obtuse on here which is par for the course tbh. Mumsnet 😂

Quite. It was just a little moan about coming home and having a suitcase of clothes to wash.

ElspethofEcclefechan · 08/08/2024 21:25

I think it might also make a difference if you're someone with a fairly minimalist wardrobe. So you come back to a fairly empty wardrobe and feel you need to get the washing on straight away.

It isn't a big deal, but I totally get op's slightly tongue in cheek exasperation over the whole hassle of taking little kids on holiday of which an extra load of laundry is just one aspect.

Think people are being a bit bullishly obtuse on here which is par for the course tbh. Mumsnet 😂

cardibach · 08/08/2024 21:22

ElspethofEcclefechan · 08/08/2024 21:19

The last places I've stayed I've had a walk through town to the beach, so yes I have had to wear clothes as well for the walk there and back. I don't tend to stay in all inclusive type places where you just stay in the resort all day. Maybe that's the difference 🤷‍♀️

I don’t do beach holidays at all 🤷‍♀️
walking through town doesn’t make your clothes dirty.

Gogogo12345 · 08/08/2024 21:20

Comedycook · 08/08/2024 19:07

Yes but when you're at home, you don't go a whole week without putting a load of laundry on.

So it's one extra load? And you haven't used your bed linen while away so no need to wash that.

ElspethofEcclefechan · 08/08/2024 21:19

cardibach · 08/08/2024 21:12

Surely at t( beach you are in bathers? No clothes at all?

The last places I've stayed I've had a walk through town to the beach, so yes I have had to wear clothes as well for the walk there and back. I don't tend to stay in all inclusive type places where you just stay in the resort all day. Maybe that's the difference 🤷‍♀️

cardibach · 08/08/2024 21:18

Topofthemountain · 08/08/2024 21:17

I wash so I can take less. For example I only take one lot of night clothes for each of us and wash. I simply couldn't fit everything in if I didn't wash.

Why do you need to wash night clothes? Honestly, people make so much work for themselves. Night clothes are fine for a week or more.

Topofthemountain · 08/08/2024 21:17

cardibach · 08/08/2024 21:13

I think needing everything washed so frequently you have to wash stuff on holiday is ridiculous.

I wash so I can take less. For example I only take one lot of night clothes for each of us and wash. I simply couldn't fit everything in if I didn't wash.

MyDogsPaws · 08/08/2024 21:14

me and 3dc at home and I do at least 2 loads of washing a day most days (do have a bed wetter so includes one load of sheets every day). No idea where it all comes from!

cardibach · 08/08/2024 21:13

I think needing everything washed so frequently you have to wash stuff on holiday is ridiculous.

cardibach · 08/08/2024 21:12

ElspethofEcclefechan · 08/08/2024 21:07

I think it's because things get dirtier on days out at the beach than they do at home and you can also spot clean at home when you can't at the beach or by the pool, so they do get through clothes a bit quicker on holiday.

It's also because you aren't doing the washing you normally would be at home, because you don't have your washing machine with you, so you end up with a bit of a backlog.

So it isn't necessarily that much more washing, but it's that you have to do it all at once.

Does that make more sense Smile?

Op, I'm thinking of getting a thing to hand-wash clothes on holiday, because I like staying in hotels basically! I know self catering you can have a washing machine etc, but I don't always want to do that.

Surely at t( beach you are in bathers? No clothes at all?

ElspethofEcclefechan · 08/08/2024 21:07

cardibach · 08/08/2024 20:57

Why would small children dirty more clothes on holiday?

I think it's because things get dirtier on days out at the beach than they do at home and you can also spot clean at home when you can't at the beach or by the pool, so they do get through clothes a bit quicker on holiday.

It's also because you aren't doing the washing you normally would be at home, because you don't have your washing machine with you, so you end up with a bit of a backlog.

So it isn't necessarily that much more washing, but it's that you have to do it all at once.

Does that make more sense Smile?

Op, I'm thinking of getting a thing to hand-wash clothes on holiday, because I like staying in hotels basically! I know self catering you can have a washing machine etc, but I don't always want to do that.

ItsAlrightDarling · 08/08/2024 21:05

cardibach · 08/08/2024 21:03

I didn’t say you did a load a day. I was pointing out that exercise gear makes relatively little impact.

4 people’s exercise gear every day is a fairly decent amount, on top of our work clothes and my disabled child’s multiple outfit changes.
Not sure why it bothers you so much anyway though, it was a fairly lighthearted thread I thought.

Comedycook · 08/08/2024 21:05

I find stuff on holiday gets really dirty and can't be worn more than once....sweat, suncream, sand!

Also we generally get dressed up a bit nicer for the evenings so that creates more.

cardibach · 08/08/2024 21:03

ItsAlrightDarling · 08/08/2024 21:01

I didn’t say I do more than one load a day, that was another poster. On top of that I also had mine and DH’s work clothes from today, so one full load. Same most days, except at the weekends when I do more because I also have 5 lots of bedding and towels. Yeah of course if there was just me I’d do less washing, but there’s 5 of us.

I didn’t say you did a load a day. I was pointing out that exercise gear makes relatively little impact.

ItsAlrightDarling · 08/08/2024 21:01

cardibach · 08/08/2024 20:56

That’s less than one load. Much less. I do a lot of exercise (x5 a week) and am only washing for one, but I do one load of clothes a week (and it’s usually not full - I could probs do another person’s too) and then whatever bedding and towels need doing.

I didn’t say I do more than one load a day, that was another poster. On top of that I also had mine and DH’s work clothes from today, so one full load. Same most days, except at the weekends when I do more because I also have 5 lots of bedding and towels. Yeah of course if there was just me I’d do less washing, but there’s 5 of us.

HuggingAnIcePack887 · 08/08/2024 21:00

Reading the thread, I think maybe you need a dryer. I have one but I'm aware many British people don't. You can't put nice stuff in it but kids' clothes, gyms stuff, towels, underwear etc and it does take away a lot of the work.

IdaClair · 08/08/2024 20:59

Five of us and there’s no way of getting washing below ten loads a week.

No little kids, worse, big ones and teens. Their clothes are a lot larger!

It might be relevant here for everyone to remember that washing machines have different capacities.

We don’t wash everything every time we use it but no one here can manage to get their personal lau ndry under two loads each a week. With all the beds, covers, throws, pet stuff, towels and cleaning cloths. There’s all the swimming gear, sports kits, uniforms, football gear covered in mud, running kits, climbing gear covered in chalk. I think it’s going to have to be reasonable to wash your sports gear after each use and that’s 15 full sports kits a week for a family of 5 assuming a medium amount of exercise. We have five double or king sized beds . The list goes on.

Maria1982 · 08/08/2024 20:58

Biggaybear · 08/08/2024 17:58

I must live in a parallel universe because I never do as much washing as the typical MN'er.

Me & 2 DS's aged 20 & 17. Usually one load of lights & one load io darks a week. Towels & bedding separately but again probably just one load a week.

And I dont have any outside space to hang washing up on. No tumble drier either so washing dried on 2 airers within 24 hours.

Genuinely, how do you do just one load of bedding/towels a week? Do you mean you can fit everyone’s bedding into one load? (I wouldn’t be able to, maybe your machine is bigger?). Or do you alternate rather than changing all beds every week?

cardibach · 08/08/2024 20:57

ElspethofEcclefechan · 08/08/2024 20:45

Do you have small children? I'm guessing op might.

I have to wash a lot when we get home from holiday too op. Usually 2 x loads when we get back at least, after a one week stay with no washing machine. Beaches make everything sandy and wet for a start, then suncream gets everywhere, ice lollies dropped down their fronts etc etc.

Why would small children dirty more clothes on holiday?

cardibach · 08/08/2024 20:56

ItsAlrightDarling · 08/08/2024 20:54

I wonder if the people who don’t wash much don’t do much exercise? Or don’t sweat 🤷🏻‍♀️. I’ve got 2 sweaty gym kits and gym towels (mine and DH’s) a football kit (DD2) and a dance kit (DD1) just from today, plus my disabled child’s 3 changes of clothes.

That’s less than one load. Much less. I do a lot of exercise (x5 a week) and am only washing for one, but I do one load of clothes a week (and it’s usually not full - I could probs do another person’s too) and then whatever bedding and towels need doing.

Time40 · 08/08/2024 20:55

I never get this "going away creates so much washing" thing. Just don't wash things so often. I touch worn but not dirty clothing up with the iron to make it look fresh again ... great for suitcase-creased clothes.

ItsAlrightDarling · 08/08/2024 20:54

I wonder if the people who don’t wash much don’t do much exercise? Or don’t sweat 🤷🏻‍♀️. I’ve got 2 sweaty gym kits and gym towels (mine and DH’s) a football kit (DD2) and a dance kit (DD1) just from today, plus my disabled child’s 3 changes of clothes.

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