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Or are they just greedy bastards?

364 replies

Fleurdalys · 08/08/2024 17:21

Made a bolognaise pasta sauce type thing with 1 kg of minced beef steak.
Onions, peppers and mushrooms added.
Have come home from work and DH and DS 18 have polished the bloody lot off leaving me with a measly ladle full of sauce
( pasta was cooked separately for clarification)
They are most of that too
Twats

OP posts:
eastegg · 10/08/2024 08:12

seriesoffortunateevents · 10/08/2024 07:59

Why are you taking such offense at how much others eat. ? I’m sure you’re a lovely weight, stick to your macros and measure everything, never ever over indulge, hence why yoh feel the need to go on line and chastise people for over eating.

theres a thread about an Indian takeaway, started yesterday. Why not pop over there and have a go at them too?

Don’t see any offence taken in Anon’s post. They’ve simply pointed out how much Bol sauce you get from 1kg of mince, backed up by the objective measure of what recipes say. And they’re right.

Why on earth do you feel the need to bring their weight into it?

As for chastising people for how much they eat, the thread is literally OP chastising her own nearest and dearest for eating too much. Get a grip.

Anonym00se · 10/08/2024 08:10

seriesoffortunateevents · 10/08/2024 07:59

Why are you taking such offense at how much others eat. ? I’m sure you’re a lovely weight, stick to your macros and measure everything, never ever over indulge, hence why yoh feel the need to go on line and chastise people for over eating.

theres a thread about an Indian takeaway, started yesterday. Why not pop over there and have a go at them too?

I’m not offended, just bemused! And if you could see how overweight I am you’d find the notion that I’m a competitive undereater hilarious too! (But I still couldn’t eat a litre of spag bol in one sitting)

BernardBlacksBreakfastWine · 10/08/2024 08:09

seriesoffortunateevents · 10/08/2024 08:05

assuming that the male members of the family will behave like normal human beings around it rather than like a python trying to swallow a whole cow

wow, food is really triggering for some folks. Taking such offence at what others eat. Must be fun at meal times round theirs.

I think it’s you who’s triggered 🤷‍♀️I was just using a good old bit of hyperbole to illustrate my point. Not sure why you imagine I’m ‘triggered’? You are the one policing everyone apparently. I’d describe my tone as ‘light-hearted exasperation’ whereas yours is more ‘po-faced’.

Oldraver · 10/08/2024 08:06

My brother did this once. I too cooked a kg of mince with the usual added bits to portion up

Told B there was a portion in the microwave just heat it up, and as usual never listens properly and I smelt the whole pan being reheated, came downstairs to a massive dent in the amount and he was eating a massive mound proclaiming "oh I like meat" . I was fucking furious as I was trying to save money making a few dinners. He had form for this shit so I never offered again

He used to look forlornly into any cooking pans stating he was hungry

seriesoffortunateevents · 10/08/2024 08:05

assuming that the male members of the family will behave like normal human beings around it rather than like a python trying to swallow a whole cow

wow, food is really triggering for some folks. Taking such offence at what others eat. Must be fun at meal times round theirs.

Princessfluffy · 10/08/2024 08:05

Did they have it with pasta or just eat the sauce?

BernardBlacksBreakfastWine · 10/08/2024 07:59

Redlettuce · 10/08/2024 00:42

Yes but lentils have way less protein than meat so you need to factor that in if you're feeding teens especially if they do sports.

But in the real world, people are not agonising about how much protein is in 100g of mince; they’re just making a decent portion of a standard meal and assuming that the male members of the family will behave like normal human beings around it rather than like a python trying to swallow a whole cow.

I certainly don’t think OP needs to be messing around calculating the exact grams of protein needed by her greedy menfolk - and neither do most of the women who’ve reported on this thread; their husbands and sons are absolutely making sure they’re getting enough protein and then some!

seriesoffortunateevents · 10/08/2024 07:59

Anonym00se · 10/08/2024 07:49

Literally every spag recipe is 1lb mince for four. 1Kg makes enough to half fill a 6 litre saucepan once you’ve put the rest of the ingredients in (unless yours is just mince and tomato sauce). I don’t know many people who’d eat a litre of bolognaise each, and we eat a lot!

Why are you taking such offense at how much others eat. ? I’m sure you’re a lovely weight, stick to your macros and measure everything, never ever over indulge, hence why yoh feel the need to go on line and chastise people for over eating.

theres a thread about an Indian takeaway, started yesterday. Why not pop over there and have a go at them too?

Anonym00se · 10/08/2024 07:49

LouDeLou · 09/08/2024 19:41

8 people 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

my two teens’ll eat 750 on their own, one’s whip thin one’s “gym buff”

only in mumsnet imaginary land 🙄

Literally every spag recipe is 1lb mince for four. 1Kg makes enough to half fill a 6 litre saucepan once you’ve put the rest of the ingredients in (unless yours is just mince and tomato sauce). I don’t know many people who’d eat a litre of bolognaise each, and we eat a lot!

Checkandcheckagain · 10/08/2024 07:33

I have not read the replies but just wanted to say this is an accolade to your wonderful cooking. In future if you do it again put yours and the batch for another day aside. in the freezer if possible. The men in my house can't find anything in there!😅

Leanmeansmitingmachine · 10/08/2024 07:30

Thesecretingredientiscrime · 09/08/2024 23:23

Alrighty then. How does that work? It's either nine or it's a bonkers claim of mince for 27 meals.
Three meals tonight = 3.
3 meals tomorrow = 3.
And three meals frozen = 3.

Why are you struggling with that poster’s maths?! It’s clear what they said. 😂

Leanmeansmitingmachine · 10/08/2024 07:20

EI12 · 09/08/2024 08:54

1 kg of meat between two healthy males? Gluttony? I would have been delighted because they would have shown appreciation and I would have been taught a lesson not to be mean and tight when cooking and make a proper amount the next time. I hope it explains it. I despise people mean with food, I despise 'and save the rest for sandwiches for tomorrow'. We are a first world country, mince is not caviar or lobster. Neither is pasta. You don't have to be rich to be generous with food, but to expect 1 kg to last in a household with two men, well, words fail me.

Words are indeed failing you. On every thread you’re haunting at the moment.

seriesoffortunateevents · 10/08/2024 07:11

Stunned at these folks making 18-24 portions out of 1kg of mince. 🤪

Greally · 10/08/2024 07:02

eastegg · 10/08/2024 00:16

Jesus. Is he the Tiger Who Came to Tea? Does he drink all the water in the tap as well?

Seriously, that’s terrible.

😂

Tessabelle74 · 10/08/2024 01:46

Good grief! I use 500g of mince for 6 of us, 2 adults 2 adult sized teens and 2 younger kids! I'd be raging if they ate all that and didn't leave me any!

Dreamskies · 10/08/2024 01:35

HunterDuke · 08/08/2024 21:17

@CluelessAboutBiology he was sheepish but not massively contrite about the amount. He was more upset that I was supposed to have some (all week) and now didn't. He must have been really hungry. If I'd have said, he wouldn't have touched it. I didn't think it needed saying. I am now just explicit when it's not for him.

But you also said he’d do this every time if you’re not there at dishing up…. that he’d eat everything there was in the pans/oven. That’s not a one off, that’s selfish pig behaviour.

Redlettuce · 10/08/2024 00:42

Thesecretingredientiscrime · 10/08/2024 00:35

It accounts for one meal though. You can bulk out bolognese with decent stuff and get plenty of protein elsewhere.

Yes but lentils have way less protein than meat so you need to factor that in if you're feeding teens especially if they do sports.

Thesecretingredientiscrime · 10/08/2024 00:35

Redlettuce · 10/08/2024 00:29

Teens and adults need around 50g protein per day. Minced beef has around 14g per 100g. Those of you bulking it out might not be getting enough protein.

It accounts for one meal though. You can bulk out bolognese with decent stuff and get plenty of protein elsewhere.

BBBusterkeys · 10/08/2024 00:35

Fleurdalys · 08/08/2024 17:41

To be honest what they left for me was enough for me
It's more I was hoping it would feed 3 people tomorrow too!

Anyway, they make cheese,ham salad wraps every morning at 6 am to take to work
I've frozen every bloody wrap in the house
Good luck with that at 6am

Bravo! 🤩 I love this level of pettiness! And the beauty of this is you can say “oh, they were starting to go stale, so I was trying to save them for you”.

Overnightoats1 · 10/08/2024 00:31

1kg of mince feeds 5 of us twice and I have 3 DC (8-12)! I usually make 1kg and feed half and freeze half for another meal.. Awful of them to not have dished up for you and kept yours to one side.. Even if they had cooked it - they still should have kept yours to one side - I think it's even worse that it's a meal you prepared! I'd definitely sit them both down and have a chat about being so thoughtless and how it's made you feel.. it's these little things that add up.. sorry OP- I'd be very angry and upset.

Redlettuce · 10/08/2024 00:29

Thesecretingredientiscrime · 08/08/2024 18:21

Controversial mince opinions... 👀
If we did 500g of mince, we'd make a bulked out bolognese with lots of tomatoes, onions, mushrooms, plus finely diced carrots and red peppers. It does for about eight adult portions, half of which we freeze.

Teens and adults need around 50g protein per day. Minced beef has around 14g per 100g. Those of you bulking it out might not be getting enough protein.

eastegg · 10/08/2024 00:16

HunterDuke · 08/08/2024 17:28

I once cooked an entire side of salmon, left it in the oven and went for a shower. It was to be mixed with quinoa, veg and portioned out for a week. Came downstairs and my OH was finishing it off. The whole.bloody thing. He doesn't like salmon much. If I am cooking I need to be there at plating up or he would eat everything - literally everything in the pans or in the oven. It's insane.

Jesus. Is he the Tiger Who Came to Tea? Does he drink all the water in the tap as well?

Seriously, that’s terrible.

Growlybear83 · 09/08/2024 23:47

@Ladymeade this is what the OP said

To be honest what they left for me was enough for me
It's more I was hoping it would feed 3 people tomorrow too!

anon666 · 09/08/2024 23:40

Thesecretingredientiscrime · 09/08/2024 23:33

@Sweetpeasaremadeforbees OK, thanks both for clarifying. The maths makes sense now.
I'm still massively side-eyeing it, but fair enough.

Yeah, sorry. I posted before rtft, so didn't realise what I'd walked in to.

I can understand why it was confusing.

Also it sounds like bullshit, but we are really small eater. Very slender husband, menopausal short dieting wife, two tiny slender girls, one veggie.

I had no idea our portions were such outliers, but I do try to batch cook, and reduce our intake of red meat. So the mince is more like one of the flavourings than necessarily a full protein portion.

I'm making us sound like a bunch of frugal, healthy weirdos, maybe we are.

Thesecretingredientiscrime · 09/08/2024 23:33

DancingPhantomsOnTheTerrace · 09/08/2024 23:31

@Thesecretingredientiscrime
Yes she means she gets 9 meals from 500g (3 meals times 3 nights), and the OP used 1kg, so that would be 18 meals.

@Sweetpeasaremadeforbees OK, thanks both for clarifying. The maths makes sense now.
I'm still massively side-eyeing it, but fair enough.

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