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Or are they just greedy bastards?

364 replies

Fleurdalys · 08/08/2024 17:21

Made a bolognaise pasta sauce type thing with 1 kg of minced beef steak.
Onions, peppers and mushrooms added.
Have come home from work and DH and DS 18 have polished the bloody lot off leaving me with a measly ladle full of sauce
( pasta was cooked separately for clarification)
They are most of that too
Twats

OP posts:
Wishicouldlovemyself · 08/08/2024 19:13

Yanbu, that's really unreasonable.

For us, 1kg of mince mixed with veggies and sauce, etc, would generally make between 8 and 10 servings, served alongside pasta.

Even serving extra large portions, I'd get a minimum of 6 portions out of that.

honeylulu · 08/08/2024 19:13

Greedy and so so selfish! My dad used to do that to my mum. He'd then act all innocent and say "oh I thought you'd already had some".

My husband and son would not dare try that with me. I would hit the roof. I'm actually quite even tempered but being deprived of food I was looking forward to, no no no!

Blackthorne · 08/08/2024 19:12

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 08/08/2024 19:06

Genuine Q - are people saying 500g feeds 2 and 1kg feeds 4 extremely active, or overweight?

As an aside, the authentic Italian way is to have a pretty small portion of the meat sauce, not drowning the pasta in it!

Seems like a huge quantity to me. You don't need more than 100g of beef per person. If you want to live a long healthy life that is...

amoreoamicizia · 08/08/2024 19:11

HunterDuke · 08/08/2024 17:28

I once cooked an entire side of salmon, left it in the oven and went for a shower. It was to be mixed with quinoa, veg and portioned out for a week. Came downstairs and my OH was finishing it off. The whole.bloody thing. He doesn't like salmon much. If I am cooking I need to be there at plating up or he would eat everything - literally everything in the pans or in the oven. It's insane.

Aww 🥺😁 I find this endearing for some insane reason. It's kind of sweet. He must have been ravenous. Really, a whole salmon though? Haha

Blackthorne · 08/08/2024 19:09

And it's just so disrespectful to you when you've gone to the trouble of cooking it all and just leave you a measly ladle full.

It's the selfishness that's most galling. I'd be furious.

Growlybear83 · 08/08/2024 19:08

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 08/08/2024 19:06

Genuine Q - are people saying 500g feeds 2 and 1kg feeds 4 extremely active, or overweight?

As an aside, the authentic Italian way is to have a pretty small portion of the meat sauce, not drowning the pasta in it!

My husband and I are neither overweight nor particularly active. I'm not Italian, so I don't really give a toss how they prefer to eat their bolognaise and pasta.

curious79 · 08/08/2024 19:07

Total greedy dustbins! I would expect that to cover 8 people
my son and DH will polish off everything if given a chance. Also fat knackered

IggyAce · 08/08/2024 19:07

Definitely greedy. Since they’ve eaten tomorrow’s dinner make sure you get yourself takeaway and let them fend for themselves.
Good move freezing the wraps.

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 08/08/2024 19:06

Genuine Q - are people saying 500g feeds 2 and 1kg feeds 4 extremely active, or overweight?

As an aside, the authentic Italian way is to have a pretty small portion of the meat sauce, not drowning the pasta in it!

GeilistheWitch · 08/08/2024 19:03

WoolySnail · 08/08/2024 18:14

Shouldn't have to outsmart family members for meals 😆they should learn some consideration for others!

Of course they should, but bitter experience has proved that it's much simpler to be one step ahead when I've cooked several meals'-worth of food rather than have to find a last minute substitute for my planned meal.
I also shouldn't have to hide the chocolate, but a certain person has long forgotten the gut-rot he got for eating the FOUR-pack of chocolate bars that was in the kitchen cupboard , in the space of an afternoon, not leaving me even one tiny square of chocolate!

Wallywobbles · 08/08/2024 19:02

1kg of mince in our house would have about 1.5 kg of veg in it. Grated carrots, courgettes, tomatoes, onions etc. So if that's the case with you they'd have eaten a truly outrageous amount.

Thierrymugler · 08/08/2024 19:01

bought everyone a McDonald’s. I ate my chips but left my burger downstairs whilst I put my daughter to bed, came downstairs to find my ex had eaten it along with his. When I asked “why” he replied with “you wouldn’t have eaten it” erm, a chance to decide would have been nice.

He was a selfish fuck anyway. 🙄

Blackthorne · 08/08/2024 19:01

Well they can welcome on the early onset of colon cancer if they carry that sort of level of red meat munching up.

It's pretty disgusting from so many angles.

No one needs half a kilo of beef.

https://www.bowelcanceruk.org.uk/news-and-blogs/news/bowel-cancer-uk-urges-the-public-to-continue-to-limit-their-red-meat-intake/

Tell them they're eating veggies for the rest of the week and it's for their own health.

I'd open a couple of cans of cold beans and say there you go. If you're so hungry, you can eat those for 6 days now to help you stay healthy.

We urge the public to continue to limit their red meat intake

We urge the public to continue following the recommendation to limit red meat intake to three portions a week and reduce the amount of processed meat they eat.

https://www.bowelcanceruk.org.uk/news-and-blogs/news/bowel-cancer-uk-urges-the-public-to-continue-to-limit-their-red-meat-intake

Wexone · 08/08/2024 19:01

Sweet Jesus that does me and my husband 2 nights in a row dinner with a little bit left to freeze for my lunch in days going into office. I would be cracking up big time

TheTripThatWasnt · 08/08/2024 19:00

I had to sense check quantities (as I've never used a recipe). BBC Good Good says 500g feeds 6, so a kilo should feed 12!

https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/best-spaghetti-bolognese-recipe

Although they only allow 66g spaghetti per person, which feels very stingy indeed. We always have 75g pasta and I think we're on the smaller side of portion sizes, in general.

The best spaghetti bolognese recipe (with video) | Good Food

Our best ever spaghetti bolognese is super easy and a true Italian classic with a meaty, chilli sauce. This pasta bolognese is sure to become a family favourite

https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/recipes/best-spaghetti-bolognese-recipe

Georgieporgie29 · 08/08/2024 18:58

Ah bloody hell I fancy spag Bol or chilli now after this!

Just for balance 1kg of chilli would feed 4 of us one night and 3 would have burritos or similar the next day. 3 adults and 1 teen

DoIWantTo · 08/08/2024 18:56

You FROZE their wraps?!? Grin Grin Grin

TheTripThatWasnt · 08/08/2024 18:56

snackatack · 08/08/2024 18:16

the person saying 500g - for 6 people - for 2 meals - no...

1kg - should do 6 meals (more if you pack it with beans and lentils)

Yep - 500g would do that for bolognese here. I'd expect to freeze 4-5 2 person servings after the original meal. The portions are not enormous, but they are very intense in flavour, so they don't need to be. I stir the bolognese through cooked pasta rather than heaping it on top, so it's very much a sauce rather than a thing in its own right.

A bolognese would have a couple of onions, a few carrots, a tub of mushrooms, half a pack of bacon/lardons and plenty of tomatoes/wine in it, so the 500g mince goes a long way.

lowlight · 08/08/2024 18:55

My husband and kids do the same with a bolognese or chilli con carne sauce. I think it something to do with lack of chewing and it can be quickly gulped down in very large quantities. If you had been dishing up no doubt they would have had more pasta /rice.

I have literally just caught my husband spooning chilli out the slow cooker straight into his mouth....

MyNamesGaryAndImAddictedToChips · 08/08/2024 18:55

Well if this thread goes to show anything (apart from OP's DH and DS being greedy bastards) it has to be that some people must be having their bolognese like that value stuff from Tesco where it's all spaghetti and a few flecks of mince, whereas some others are probably having some pasta with their meat!

Growlybear83 · 08/08/2024 18:51

@Rosscameasdoody Yes of course I know what a kilo of mince looks like. I used 500g of mince last night to make a bolognese for two of us.

GCAcademic · 08/08/2024 18:49

Cornflakes44 · 08/08/2024 18:46

That's actually disgusting behaviour. How selfish and greedy of him. Not sure I could respect someone with such little impulse control. He sounds like a child.

I suspect most children would know better. He reminds me of some of the spaniels I've had.

Rosscameasdoody · 08/08/2024 18:48

Growlybear83 · 08/08/2024 18:38

I would be very annoyed if there was no food left for me, but I would only expect a kilo of mince to feed four people.

Over 2lb of mince cooked with veg and sauce, and served with pasta ? Seriously ? Do you know what a kilo of mince looks like ?

Cornflakes44 · 08/08/2024 18:46

HunterDuke · 08/08/2024 17:28

I once cooked an entire side of salmon, left it in the oven and went for a shower. It was to be mixed with quinoa, veg and portioned out for a week. Came downstairs and my OH was finishing it off. The whole.bloody thing. He doesn't like salmon much. If I am cooking I need to be there at plating up or he would eat everything - literally everything in the pans or in the oven. It's insane.

That's actually disgusting behaviour. How selfish and greedy of him. Not sure I could respect someone with such little impulse control. He sounds like a child.

Packetofcrispsplease · 08/08/2024 18:45

That’s greedy of them and really mean to leave you with next to nothing.
I used to make a spaghetti bolognaise with 500g mince plus onions , mushrooms etc and that fed 2 adults , 2 teens and an older child !