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If Brighton can protest peacefully so can the

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WeAreManyUArefew · 08/08/2024 13:54

So called ‘protesters’ from the far right?

6 racists turned up to a immigration advice centre in Brighton, 2,000 peaceful counter protesters played instruments, sang, chanted ‘We are many you are few, we are Brighton who are you!’

There was no trouble, just a lot of people making a point.

So if we can do it, without racist language, violence, looting etc why can’t they? They were fine, a ring of normal police ( no riot gear needed) surrounded the bigots then removed them in a van.

YANBU - they are racist right wing thugs. It’s no real protesting.

YABU - they’re legit. And if they want to smash up the place then it’s because they’re provoked by ‘2 tier’ policing.

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Ilovelurchers · 09/08/2024 15:46

pinacollateral · 08/08/2024 15:14

Very well put.

The reason why Brighton can do this when so many other places cannot is that on the whole, Brighton is an affluent, pleasant place to be, people who live there are educated and privileged and have access to a variety of cultural and enriching experiences.

To put it bluntly, they don't experience a lot of the issue that a lot of other places do - both in terms of the right wing extremism AND mass immigration into communities, which inevitably changes the culture and feel of a place, and can make people feel threatened if people aren't given the support they need to integrate into communities.

To compare Brighton with areas of socioeconomic disadvantage/ deprivation, riddled with issues and segregation - you are not comparing like for like.

Of course Brighton can do this - people there are perfectly set up to be able to have the resilience and emotional resources to respond to things in a healthy way - but also, the issues they are responding to in Brighton are not as bad as they are elsewhere.

This is absolute nonsense - you appear to believe that the working classes are some kind of sub-species, who don't receive education, are unable to have enriching experiences, lack emotional intelligence/resilience and can't respond to things in a "healthy" fashion.

Do you know any working class people?

Ilovelurchers · 09/08/2024 15:38

ForFancyAquaFox · 08/08/2024 14:29

I think everyone already knows rioters aren't reflective of whatever cause they are claiming to support.

But Brighton is one of the richest, most affluent cities and most expensive places to live in the UK - it has a very different demographics and community issues to say, Rotherham.

If you live in Brighton and your experience of UK cultural diversity is wandering down 'The lanes' and buying some fantastic gelato or pho; you're having a very different experience to many others in the UK.

I live in an area of high deprivation, and our cultural diversity is still seen by myself and the vast majority of my neighbours as a massive benefit, thank you very much! Taking your example of culturally diverse dining opportunities alone, do you honestly believe that it's only wealthy areas who benefit from this? Because the poor are all sitting in our holes on the ground, chewing on coal and resentment?

Don't you dare imply that you are doing racism on behalf of the working classes - it's a fucking insult.

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 15:30

Goldenbear · 09/08/2024 13:29

A drug problem, well yes, it is a City, it has a population of 276000 as opposed to Blackpool that is a town and has a population of 141000. There are many residents in Brighton & Hove that are Media jobs, Actors and quite famous musicians, the average price of a house in Brighton is £505000, they are just as likely to be owned by people who have children and work in these industries because of its proximity to London! It has a huge student population and the highest percentage of the population are 20-29, this demographic aren’t the ones owning the period properties! Brighton has had an influx of people from London particularly over the last 20 years that push up the prices and it has a huge problem with AirBNBs that are just investment properties that push up prices and have made some families move away as it is unaffordable. It is disingenuous to say that those problems are comparable to Blackpool because they are not.

No. My point was that Blackpool is the gay capital of the North as Brighton is of the South. Blackpool's problems are about affordable housing, however, outside the streets behind the Central Pier and the Pleasure Beach, house prices are in the 145-300k range though some areas have houses in the same bracket as Brighton: 500k to 700k, mainly owned by people who do not work in Blackpool. There is a homeless population wished on the city by the council in the 90s-00s, and there is seasonal employment - which I expect is similar to that in Brighton among tourist attractions, hotels etc.
This one, https://www.rightmove.co.uk/properties/150295595#/?channel=RES_BUY, is £699,950.
It's a mile or so from where I have a hotel.

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Goldenbear · 09/08/2024 13:29

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 12:42

It would appear that Brighton has a child poverty problem, just like other seaside towns; that children have been trafficked from the town, and that there is a drug problem.
I think the point that some of the more wealthy may be gay couples is likely to be the case - esp if they have no DC and both are working. Others likely to be better off are 2 income no DC heterosexual couples.
Why did you not comment on the post I commented on (that actually made what you call a 'sweeping generalisation') rather than my post btw? Just asking.😀

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A drug problem, well yes, it is a City, it has a population of 276000 as opposed to Blackpool that is a town and has a population of 141000. There are many residents in Brighton & Hove that are Media jobs, Actors and quite famous musicians, the average price of a house in Brighton is £505000, they are just as likely to be owned by people who have children and work in these industries because of its proximity to London! It has a huge student population and the highest percentage of the population are 20-29, this demographic aren’t the ones owning the period properties! Brighton has had an influx of people from London particularly over the last 20 years that push up the prices and it has a huge problem with AirBNBs that are just investment properties that push up prices and have made some families move away as it is unaffordable. It is disingenuous to say that those problems are comparable to Blackpool because they are not.

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 13:23

Daltonbear1 · 09/08/2024 11:07

No that's not true you can't shout fire in a cinema free speech has responsibilities as I say you can't shout stuff not ecpect folks to have a ho back that's not how free speech works

I don't think shouting 'fire' in a crowded cinema is expressing an opinion. It's an act calculated to cause severe trouble.
@VictorianBigot is correct in their explanation. Free speech means the right to express an opinion without being attacked for it. You are suggesting that free speech can only happen if nobody listening disagrees with a statement and if that is not the case they have the right to shout down opposing opinions, rather than engaging in debate.

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 13:18

Daltonbear1 · 09/08/2024 09:43

No one should get violent but if you are going somewhere saying opinions then expect backlash that's how free speech works. I side with trans people I am a woman to but if I started saying how women shouldn't exist I would expect your lot to tell me to shut up etc that's how it works. What alot want is to spout some horrible stuff and have no challenge that's not how protests work

Women who support women's single sex spaces, women who do not accept that one can identify into being a woman, do not shout down or assault those who disagree with them. They would (mostly - no-one can speak for all) would welcome civilized debate and an exchange of views. That's free speech. Shouting down people who you don't agree with and telling them to shut up is not free speech, it's abuse.

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 13:13

FrippEnos · 09/08/2024 12:58

there is a 4th issue with this in that the town (and other towns where this was done) not the hotels rely on seasonal business, and this has been affected by putting in the immigrants and restricting the amount of holiday makers to the town.

You're right. Had missed that one.

FrippEnos · 09/08/2024 12:58

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 12:19

I didn't see the 'demonstraters' in Blackpool. Thought it was just last week-end. One issue in Blackpool is that a very large hotel on the Promenade has been filled with asylum seekers (mainly young men). The town has three issues with this:

  1. Only large hotels - corporate-owned - were offered asylum seekers. Struggling B&Bs got no look-in. Seen as unjust even if B&B owners did not want asylum seekers - could at least have been asked.
  2. The town received an influx of homeless in the noughties from Manchester etc. This means many hotels are now HMOs, which detracts from the holiday nature of the town and also fills its streets with beggars. Many hoteliers feel yet more displaced people, especially young men who have culturally different ideas, esp to do with women, are probably not best placed in a town that is full of young women scantily dressed (from asylum seekers possible pov) and which also has a problem with the grooming of underage girls. Blackpool is also the northern equivalent of Brighton, as a gay capital, with Pride events, gay hoteliers, gay bars and gay cultural events (Funny Girls, for example) etc. Some may feel very threatened by young men who have a different cultural outlook on homosexuality.
  3. There are international events taking place in Blackpool (fireworks, ballroom dancing, various festivals) which may be affected by the advent of unattached young men on top of all the HMO residents.
It may all seem racist but it's much more to do with factors such as that people are trying to run a business in the town. It's an international destination, too. Blackpool has enough problems (severe poverty, poor schools) without dealing with asylum seekers, however worthy of help and kindness they are.

there is a 4th issue with this in that the town (and other towns where this was done) not the hotels rely on seasonal business, and this has been affected by putting in the immigrants and restricting the amount of holiday makers to the town.

VictorianBigot · 09/08/2024 12:56

Waitingfordoggo · 09/08/2024 12:44

Bit of a tangent, but I noticed there were a lot more original rainbow flags at Brighton Pride this year (as opposed to the newer style flag). Also Mr Menno was there holding a sign about Puberty blockers being anti-gay. No one shouted in his face- that might be just because he’s male, but he also got quite a positive response from some of the Pride attendees. (So maybe the tide is turning, even in Brighton).

I think you're right in that it's because he's a man, particularly a gay man which poses a moral conundrum. Women are fair game.

Meanwhile a women-only - not remotely anti-trans - group in Brighton got a ton of abuse and had their place in the parade revoked https://brightonsisters.wordpress.com/pride-prejudice/

'Lesbians are some of the most marginalised women in Brighton & Hove. Sadly we are seeing the attitude ‘All lesbians are TERFs’ and an increasing hostility towards same-sex attracted women.

We want to be proud and visible lesbians. We want to celebrate our same-sex attraction and show that being a lesbian is a valid identity.

We want to heal any divisions in the LGBTQ+ community and march proudly alongside our GBTQ+ siblings while retaining our unique lesbian identity.'

Createausername1970 · 09/08/2024 12:55

pinacollateral · 08/08/2024 15:14

Very well put.

The reason why Brighton can do this when so many other places cannot is that on the whole, Brighton is an affluent, pleasant place to be, people who live there are educated and privileged and have access to a variety of cultural and enriching experiences.

To put it bluntly, they don't experience a lot of the issue that a lot of other places do - both in terms of the right wing extremism AND mass immigration into communities, which inevitably changes the culture and feel of a place, and can make people feel threatened if people aren't given the support they need to integrate into communities.

To compare Brighton with areas of socioeconomic disadvantage/ deprivation, riddled with issues and segregation - you are not comparing like for like.

Of course Brighton can do this - people there are perfectly set up to be able to have the resilience and emotional resources to respond to things in a healthy way - but also, the issues they are responding to in Brighton are not as bad as they are elsewhere.

Bits of Brighton are like you describe.

But leave the seafront/lanes and go further inland and it's a different story. There is a lot of social deprivation and poverty in Brighton and Hove. Perhaps not to the extent of other places mentioned, but it's still there.

Girasoli · 09/08/2024 12:51

Brighton is a bit like London in that there are really nice bits and not so nice bits about 10 minutes away from each other.

Two primary schools are closing this year because families with kids keep moving put (I think more to do with houseprices than drug problems in the city centre but maybe a mix of both)

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 12:47

Daltonbear1 · 09/08/2024 12:38

Attack or was your voices just challenged as there are many women who disagree to I have seen many women want to say opposing stuff abd posie parker doesn't let them so let women speak or just women we want to hear from?

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Attacked and abused. Have you not seen the footage? It was a shouting down of women who merely wished to speak on the need for women to have sex-segregated spaces and the right to have intimate care by women. It was quite appalling.
https://www.brightonandhovenews.org/2024/06/24/^women^-shelter-in-shop-after-protesters-tail-them
I wasn't there. I do not understand women who do not support sex-segregated spaces/sports (see Olympic boxing), prizes, intimate care, refuges etc. But I do not shout them down or call them fascists (nor do I support KJK's politics, being a Bennite socialist). I would allow women who think it's ok for my late DM to receive intimate care from a man or think it's ok to have men in rugby matches to speak and explain their reasoning, but, TBC, most women who hold these views have very public platforms and don't get shouted down.

Women shelter in shop after protesters tail them from rally

A group of women took shelter in a shop when they were surrounded by dozens of protesters who followed them

https://www.brightonandhovenews.org/2024/06/24

Waitingfordoggo · 09/08/2024 12:44

Bit of a tangent, but I noticed there were a lot more original rainbow flags at Brighton Pride this year (as opposed to the newer style flag). Also Mr Menno was there holding a sign about Puberty blockers being anti-gay. No one shouted in his face- that might be just because he’s male, but he also got quite a positive response from some of the Pride attendees. (So maybe the tide is turning, even in Brighton).

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 12:42

Goldenbear · 09/08/2024 12:10

Again, showing no understanding of the demographics of the area, just sweeping generalisations!

It would appear that Brighton has a child poverty problem, just like other seaside towns; that children have been trafficked from the town, and that there is a drug problem.
I think the point that some of the more wealthy may be gay couples is likely to be the case - esp if they have no DC and both are working. Others likely to be better off are 2 income no DC heterosexual couples.
Why did you not comment on the post I commented on (that actually made what you call a 'sweeping generalisation') rather than my post btw? Just asking.😀

VictorianBigot · 09/08/2024 12:40

Daltonbear1 · 09/08/2024 12:36

Because free speech comes with responsibility aka you can't shout fire scare people in a cinema even though you can see that's free speech. The point is people don't want to be challenged sure go yo Brighton protest peacefully do that amongst loads of lgbt people who disagree with you who also have their free speech to challenge to say you feel intimidated is that words? If it's violence then that's a line not to cross but I see so many free speech flk who don't want yo be challenged

What are you on about?

Did you not read what I wrote?

'Shouting abuse in women's faces, throwing things at them, harassing them, threatening to kill, punch, rape them, silencing them, banning them and cancelling them because you don't like their opinions is not free speech.'

This behaviour goes far, far beyond disagreeing and challenging someone. I think you're being disingenuous so I'm not going to engage with you anymore.

Daltonbear1 · 09/08/2024 12:38

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 12:31

A pity about the attack on feminists trying to speak out for sex-segregated spaces - the Greens are not hot on that one being totally TWAW.

Attack or was your voices just challenged as there are many women who disagree to I have seen many women want to say opposing stuff abd posie parker doesn't let them so let women speak or just women we want to hear from?

Daltonbear1 · 09/08/2024 12:36

VictorianBigot · 09/08/2024 12:22

@Daltonbear1 I'm not sure what shouting fire in a cinema has to do with any of what I said, or what an alleged comment from KJK has to do with the women who are being abused and threatened for campaigning for the protection of single-sex spaces. I think you need to read up on what free speech actually means.

Because free speech comes with responsibility aka you can't shout fire scare people in a cinema even though you can see that's free speech. The point is people don't want to be challenged sure go yo Brighton protest peacefully do that amongst loads of lgbt people who disagree with you who also have their free speech to challenge to say you feel intimidated is that words? If it's violence then that's a line not to cross but I see so many free speech flk who don't want yo be challenged

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 12:31

Salarygoals · 09/08/2024 08:56

Brighton is different. It always has been. It's a liminal place, it was a getaway for the rich and royals from London and a getaway for holiday makers. Also has a left leaning Uni. It's always had a Liberal inclusive anything goes vibe, that's in its DNA. That's what makes it, IMO awesome, and unique and one of the reasons it's been Green (in parts) for years. Its not comparable to many other cities but it's worth holding onto as it's pretty special. But I don't agree with the spirit of saying if Brighton can do it, why can't everywhere else. It's a bit elitist.

A pity about the attack on feminists trying to speak out for sex-segregated spaces - the Greens are not hot on that one being totally TWAW.

HeyTalkToMeGoose · 09/08/2024 12:26

Yabu to assume peaceful protest was just Brighton

Plenty others were, our town had no arrests at all

VictorianBigot · 09/08/2024 12:22

@Daltonbear1 I'm not sure what shouting fire in a cinema has to do with any of what I said, or what an alleged comment from KJK has to do with the women who are being abused and threatened for campaigning for the protection of single-sex spaces. I think you need to read up on what free speech actually means.

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 12:19

Mumandcarer80 · 08/08/2024 17:53

TBH after last night with the against rascim protesters outnumbered them and all the ones who are being charged I think most won't bother. The one's in Blackpool last night on the roundabout looked pathetic.Don't know about anywhere else but it's wet and windy here and not very warm. So if it's like that anywhere else most should stay away.🥰

I didn't see the 'demonstraters' in Blackpool. Thought it was just last week-end. One issue in Blackpool is that a very large hotel on the Promenade has been filled with asylum seekers (mainly young men). The town has three issues with this:

  1. Only large hotels - corporate-owned - were offered asylum seekers. Struggling B&Bs got no look-in. Seen as unjust even if B&B owners did not want asylum seekers - could at least have been asked.
  2. The town received an influx of homeless in the noughties from Manchester etc. This means many hotels are now HMOs, which detracts from the holiday nature of the town and also fills its streets with beggars. Many hoteliers feel yet more displaced people, especially young men who have culturally different ideas, esp to do with women, are probably not best placed in a town that is full of young women scantily dressed (from asylum seekers possible pov) and which also has a problem with the grooming of underage girls. Blackpool is also the northern equivalent of Brighton, as a gay capital, with Pride events, gay hoteliers, gay bars and gay cultural events (Funny Girls, for example) etc. Some may feel very threatened by young men who have a different cultural outlook on homosexuality.
  3. There are international events taking place in Blackpool (fireworks, ballroom dancing, various festivals) which may be affected by the advent of unattached young men on top of all the HMO residents.
It may all seem racist but it's much more to do with factors such as that people are trying to run a business in the town. It's an international destination, too. Blackpool has enough problems (severe poverty, poor schools) without dealing with asylum seekers, however worthy of help and kindness they are.
Goldenbear · 09/08/2024 12:10

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 12:05

I tend to agree with you.

Again, showing no understanding of the demographics of the area, just sweeping generalisations!

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 12:05

socialdilemmawhattodo · 09/08/2024 00:11

So probably worth looking at who in Brighton has the wealth? I bet it is skewed. My guess, and yes I have no facts, is that gay male couples are probably over-represented ( compared to general population) in the wealthy categories.

I tend to agree with you.

Grammarnut · 09/08/2024 12:02

Stoptherideiwanttogetoff24 · 09/08/2024 08:37

The people of Brighton have literally no idea of the issues faced by other areas of the uk due to migrants. They are very naive. The rioters are completely wrong in their actions, however there are normal people who have reservations regarding the arrival of large numbers of young men with different ideas of how people should live their lives. Especially regarding how young girls should be treated purely based on the fact they are out and not chaperoned by an adult male. To think these are not real concerns purely because the protests have been hijacked by trouble makers is to ignore the issues and give more traction to those who would use them to serve their own trouble making agenda.

Exactly this.

Samcro · 09/08/2024 12:01

julydecembermay · 09/08/2024 08:58

Oh to add, imagine coming on a thread outlining a situation whereby people have protested against right wing thugs in good faith then slagging off the town as it's too "rich" therefore suggesting the residents have no idea about poverty and trying to invalidate their anti fascist message. What complete bullshit and this makes me really angry. The idea that Brighton is some posho utopia is ridiculous. I have to walk my daughter through streets of homeless and passed out druggies every day FFS. There may be some rich people but there are extremely poor people and the divide is wild. It's not an easy place to live if you're poor.

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good post. I think the people who are talking about "leafy suburbs" have never been to places like london road or whitehawk for instance.

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