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To be shocked it’s been this easy to loose weight!

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EatStopEat · 08/08/2024 00:57

On alternate day fasting - not 16:8 but fasting for 36 hours then eating anything you want for 12 hours. E.g stopping eating at 10pm on Sunday and not eating until 10am on Tuesday. Eat all you want until 10pm and the cycle continues. No calorie counting but essentially cutting calorie intake in half.

Thought about trying it for ages but never in the right headspace. Watched a Michael Mosley doc on Netflix out of respect for the great man and saw him talking about it again (welled up a bit when he was talking about wanting to live longer I must say) then just decided, F IT. I’m doing it.

Age 53. Starting at 18 stone 4. Aching knees and back, swollen ankles, couldn’t go upstairs without needing 5 mins to get my breath back, DC complaining that I’m heavy breathing over them 😳, high cholesterol, high risk for T2 diabetes, high blood pressure also hypothyroidism and deep in menopause,

In just over 4 weeks, I have lost 20lbs. Now 16stone 12. I absolutely love my food on feed days. I thought I would overeat but I don’t. In fact I haven’t got time to eat everything I planned (oohhh, I’ll have you tomorrow kind of thing 😃).

I work out in the gym on feed days so I go every other day instead of pressuring myself to exercise everyday and then not do any at all! I eat chocolate bars, big meals etc. I have started making overnight oats ready the night before feed days which I am loving and really fill me up. Drink tonnes of water etc. I have cut out normal bread and have gluten free instead just because it made me extremely bloated after fasting (wouldn’t have otherwise), gluten free pancakes with syrup too. More natural gravitation to healthy food now.

On fast days, I drink loads (as well as electrolyte water), have coffee with sugar, herbal tea with honey and two milk shakes with protein powder and ground flax seeds for extra nutrition. I will probably switch to fruit and veg smoothies when I get fed up with them but not yet!

I was worried I would be dizzy or have headaches but nothing! First few fast days were hard but now it’s so easy. I look forward to eating the next day and even fasting afterwards when I feel stuffed (!) and think about what I want to eat. I’m not starving when I wake up after fasting either and feel very cleaned out so to speak.

I have a busy household (2 adults - 4 older DC), I WFH, and it works fine. Don’t mind cooking for family as know I can have it tomorrow. Honestly I never thought I’d ever find a diet I’d keep up for more than 2 weeks which was my limit. I can’t keep up with calorie counting or denying myself nice food for months on end, so depressing.

I can see the benefits already to my skin, so much less tired, mental fog lifting, no swollen ankles!, dress size gone from tight 20 to comfy 18. I can almost run upstairs and the difference to how hard I can work out in the gym is amazing in just a month which is due to the fasting IMO. In addition there are internal benefits from fasting which will be adding up. I feel 100 times better than a month ago. I know the weight loss will start to slow down but I expect to reach a reasonably healthy weight before Christmas and can then do occasional fast days if my weight starts creeping up again.

Honestly, I really want to advocate this way of losing weight. It’s not a fad, we are designed for feast and famine. No extra costs, actually save money on fasting days as two shakes cost the equivalent of £2 and I’d easily spend more than that eating 3 meals a day especially if I was getting a cheeky Costa, McDonalds, or Subway for lunch although I can and have had that on feed days!

AIBU to think this is amazing and think more people should try it before resorting to spending hundred of pounds on weight loss injections which can have damaging side effects and are affecting Tyoe 1 diabetics getting life saving medication and equipment for that medication?

Obviously fasting is not for pregnant women or people with contraindicated medical conditions but most people could do it if I can!

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MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 08/08/2024 07:47

I had to have my gallbladder removed due to gallstones, I was fasting at the time and had lost about 4 stone, the doctor said the fasting was what likely triggered the gallstones so just be mindful of that

KeepinOn · 08/08/2024 07:45

HolidayAtNight · 08/08/2024 07:42

Those who've been fasting for a while - have you had any issues with gallstones? The research on fasting is so appealing but the fear of gallstones is strong!

I've done 16:8 for many years now with no health issues. I don't do longer fasts because I want to eat family dinners etc.

katepilar · 08/08/2024 07:44

Its great it works for you, thank you for sharing.

I wonder why its called fasting as you consume quite a lot on your fasting days. Real fasting can treat a lot of conditions its just not very popular or known about.

SloaneStreetVandal · 08/08/2024 07:42

Glad it's working for you, and you're already feeling the benefits. I don't think I could go that long without sustenance though!

HolidayAtNight · 08/08/2024 07:42

Those who've been fasting for a while - have you had any issues with gallstones? The research on fasting is so appealing but the fear of gallstones is strong!

LindaDawn · 08/08/2024 07:37

Make sure you drink throughout your fasting period as I tend to get headaches if I don’t.

LindaDawn · 08/08/2024 07:36

I have been doing intermittent fasting for over a year now. I usually do 7pm to 12 noon but occasionally extent it to 2pm. It saves time in the morning. Not sure I have lost any weight through it though LOL! I do it mainly because I have read that it’s good for our bodies to have a break from food.

Rewis · 08/08/2024 07:35

From the first paragraph I understood that you don't have anything for 36h. Other than probably water. And that sounded like hell 😅
But I'm glad you found what works for you!

SallyWD · 08/08/2024 07:29

Fasting is the answer! I've lost then maintained my weight for years through fasting.

soupfiend · 08/08/2024 07:29

27Bumblebees · 08/08/2024 01:54

Well done on making some positive changes to your health OP.

I would be mindful though of recent research that shows that long term effects of dieting actually lead to more weight gain due to the physiological processes that restrictive eating can trigger. Slower, gradual changes are much more likely to be maintained over time, and have fewer negative impacts on things like hormones and metabolism. The podcast "maintenance phase" has some great episodes on this, including the 5:2 diet and those like it.

Also the weight loss research centre at Sydney university has written quite a bit on the long term effects of dieting.

www.sydney.edu.au/news-opinion/news/2023/07/05/its-time-to-bust-the-calories-in-calories-out-weight-loss-myth.html

This really isn't to rain on your parade, I hope your manage to continue your journey to a healthier weight (whatever you deem that to be). I guess it's just to say to take care that once you come off your diet, if you've lost a lot in a short period, you might put it all back on plus some - it's what your body is programmed to do. Go well.

I thought the research showed (that Ive heard about) that slower methods simply lead to people giving up because theres little motivation from something happening so slowly and that for very overweight or obese people, faster weight loss is more sustainable over the long term.

In OPs case that first 20lb or so is likely 10lb of water and glucose in any case so it normally always slows down to around 1lb or 2lb a week in the longer term

But OP, in terms of fasting, just be mindful about gallstones and the effect on the gallbladder, I think it doesnt like fasting.

Differentstarts · 08/08/2024 07:29

Well done on your weight loss and finding something that works for you. Iv recently just finished a vlcd (very low calorie diet) and like you it's amazing how quick the cravings go away and how much better you feel. Keep it up op your doing great 👍

Iamthemoom · 08/08/2024 07:28

I do 16-20 hour fasts 6 days a week (only water and black coffee) and then longer fasts up to 4 days every few weeks. In those I only have black coffee, electrolytes and 2 bullet proof coffees a day. I have done full on water fasts in my 20s but don't feel I could handle those now and my longest was 10 days to fix a medical issue. I hadn't heard of ADF. I think I'd find that harder than fasting for four days! Day 2 is always the hardest and then I feel great and as long as I take electrolytes there's really no hunger at all.

Beautiful3 · 08/08/2024 07:23

That's fantastic @EatStopEat . I've fasted in the past.and I.want.to.go.back to it. I'm counting calories at the moment, but it's taking too long. Fasting was.quicker and made my brain really.sharp. I only have 1.5 stone left to go. I found making food for the family, while I have none too difficult.

Meadowwild · 08/08/2024 07:22

I would so happily try this. I am currently on ADHD meds which reduce appetite anyway and I've realised that there are loads of really delicious healthy meals that are very low calorie and would work well on a 500 cals a day 'fast' twice a week.

I know a true fast is just water. But it probably makes sense if working to have a few calories during the working day..

Nannyfannybanny · 08/08/2024 07:20

Cherub earings, you are correct
Smoothie especially fruit can contain a lot of sugar and calories,will spike your blood sugar. Healthy eating doesn't include the chocolate, sugar, syrup People with a lot of weight to loose always loose a lot first off. If it works for you, good luck. A vast majority of people don't realise how many calories and how much they really eat. That's the unpalatable truth.my DH has been complaining about his (beer) guy for 20 years,he doesn't actually drink any alcohol, before bed last night he ate a packet of wine gums,half a pack of chocolate raisins,an ice cream,was up at 1am with heartburn. I stopped buying sweets, chocolate,I don't want to lose any more weight, just maintain where I am now. He decides it's meal time, I eat when I am hungry, but there's always a "fasting"element because I have a hiatus hernia, I can't eat later than 6, after that it's just tap water.

Meadowwild · 08/08/2024 07:17

@EatStopEat Thank you so much for starting this thread. Just like you, I watched that Michael Moseley programme last week, out of respect for him (and also felt so sad when he talked about wanting to live long) I told DH I wanted to try this but he seemed very unsure.

Currently I am working away from home with catered very stodgy food. But back next week and have said to DH I am giving it a go twice a week.

I really hope you keep this thread going as I'd love to join it for mutual support. I was interested in the doctor who said, yes people over eat next day but by 25% not 100%, so long term, there's a massive calorie reduction.

Kipperthedawg · 08/08/2024 07:11

How do you concentrate at work?

XlemonX · 08/08/2024 07:08

@Lovepeaceunderstanding
ohh yes! Any liquid can be consumed as long as you dont trigger your insulin levels. I had mineral water to keep my electrolytes in balance but i had to let the fizz fizzle out as it gave me bad acid drinking it on empty stomach.
@Stopsnowing I prefer to have my large meal for lunch so i have plenty of time to digest. I find waiting all day till dinner to eat the large meal is hard and more easier ending up eating ”junk”. No snacking in between.

Its actually more to the OMAD and ADF. You will lose a lot at the beginning as you easily eating less and falling into the catergory of reduced calories but a true OMAD or ADF, your overall calories of the week should not be reduced as you want your metabolism to burn an x amount.

I would recommend listening/read books by Dr Fung

CherubEarrings · 08/08/2024 07:04

23Shadows · 08/08/2024 01:55

I'm glad to hear this is working for you and I might try something similar but I'll just point out that you're not really fasting at all if you're having sugar, honey, milkshakes etc. It's more like an intermittent VLCD.

This. You are not fasting for 36 hours.

KeepinOn · 08/08/2024 07:04

Sounds like it's working for you, which is the main thing. Enjoy! But to spend the time to write 12 paragraphs just to bash weight loss injections is a bit overkill. Especially since your accusations about them are false. 😊

AShortName · 08/08/2024 07:00

I am happy for you, but this doesn’t work for me. I naturally don’t eat from c.9pm until 12:30 the next day (I’m not sure the extra half hour helps?) and I’m still putting on weight. I don’t eat that much in the other hours either 🙁

NicoleSkidman · 08/08/2024 06:57

FeelingUnsure99 · 08/08/2024 06:28

It's great that you've lost weight op but I think a lot of people would disagree that regularly fasting for 36 hours is easy.

It would be easy if you’re consuming what the OP consumes on her fast days!

babiesonthecarpet · 08/08/2024 06:57

LividCovid · 08/08/2024 06:44

Back in the day I did the 5:2.

For a couple of weeks only, as it made me so bad tempered on fast days that I sacked it off…

Reading this thread with interest as I was the same as you! In the second week I actually got migraines on the fast days and at that point I gave up. The only diet I’ve ever had success with is just calorie counting.

It’s great though to see how well IF works for others. I have a less busy lifestyle now than I did when I tried it (no commuting and only work part time now) so wondering if it might be worth trying again.

NicoleSkidman · 08/08/2024 06:54

23Shadows · 08/08/2024 01:55

I'm glad to hear this is working for you and I might try something similar but I'll just point out that you're not really fasting at all if you're having sugar, honey, milkshakes etc. It's more like an intermittent VLCD.

Exactly my thoughts. You’re not fasting at all if you’re having milkshakes, protein shakes, flax seeds, honey etc etc on those days. True fasting would just be water.

Have you calculated how many calories you’re consuming in those fast days? I’d wager it’s not much less than the recommended intake for an adult woman.

LividCovid · 08/08/2024 06:44

Back in the day I did the 5:2.

For a couple of weeks only, as it made me so bad tempered on fast days that I sacked it off…