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To be shocked it’s been this easy to loose weight!

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EatStopEat · 08/08/2024 00:57

On alternate day fasting - not 16:8 but fasting for 36 hours then eating anything you want for 12 hours. E.g stopping eating at 10pm on Sunday and not eating until 10am on Tuesday. Eat all you want until 10pm and the cycle continues. No calorie counting but essentially cutting calorie intake in half.

Thought about trying it for ages but never in the right headspace. Watched a Michael Mosley doc on Netflix out of respect for the great man and saw him talking about it again (welled up a bit when he was talking about wanting to live longer I must say) then just decided, F IT. I’m doing it.

Age 53. Starting at 18 stone 4. Aching knees and back, swollen ankles, couldn’t go upstairs without needing 5 mins to get my breath back, DC complaining that I’m heavy breathing over them 😳, high cholesterol, high risk for T2 diabetes, high blood pressure also hypothyroidism and deep in menopause,

In just over 4 weeks, I have lost 20lbs. Now 16stone 12. I absolutely love my food on feed days. I thought I would overeat but I don’t. In fact I haven’t got time to eat everything I planned (oohhh, I’ll have you tomorrow kind of thing 😃).

I work out in the gym on feed days so I go every other day instead of pressuring myself to exercise everyday and then not do any at all! I eat chocolate bars, big meals etc. I have started making overnight oats ready the night before feed days which I am loving and really fill me up. Drink tonnes of water etc. I have cut out normal bread and have gluten free instead just because it made me extremely bloated after fasting (wouldn’t have otherwise), gluten free pancakes with syrup too. More natural gravitation to healthy food now.

On fast days, I drink loads (as well as electrolyte water), have coffee with sugar, herbal tea with honey and two milk shakes with protein powder and ground flax seeds for extra nutrition. I will probably switch to fruit and veg smoothies when I get fed up with them but not yet!

I was worried I would be dizzy or have headaches but nothing! First few fast days were hard but now it’s so easy. I look forward to eating the next day and even fasting afterwards when I feel stuffed (!) and think about what I want to eat. I’m not starving when I wake up after fasting either and feel very cleaned out so to speak.

I have a busy household (2 adults - 4 older DC), I WFH, and it works fine. Don’t mind cooking for family as know I can have it tomorrow. Honestly I never thought I’d ever find a diet I’d keep up for more than 2 weeks which was my limit. I can’t keep up with calorie counting or denying myself nice food for months on end, so depressing.

I can see the benefits already to my skin, so much less tired, mental fog lifting, no swollen ankles!, dress size gone from tight 20 to comfy 18. I can almost run upstairs and the difference to how hard I can work out in the gym is amazing in just a month which is due to the fasting IMO. In addition there are internal benefits from fasting which will be adding up. I feel 100 times better than a month ago. I know the weight loss will start to slow down but I expect to reach a reasonably healthy weight before Christmas and can then do occasional fast days if my weight starts creeping up again.

Honestly, I really want to advocate this way of losing weight. It’s not a fad, we are designed for feast and famine. No extra costs, actually save money on fasting days as two shakes cost the equivalent of £2 and I’d easily spend more than that eating 3 meals a day especially if I was getting a cheeky Costa, McDonalds, or Subway for lunch although I can and have had that on feed days!

AIBU to think this is amazing and think more people should try it before resorting to spending hundred of pounds on weight loss injections which can have damaging side effects and are affecting Tyoe 1 diabetics getting life saving medication and equipment for that medication?

Obviously fasting is not for pregnant women or people with contraindicated medical conditions but most people could do it if I can!

OP posts:
ttcat37 · 08/08/2024 09:54

All fun and games until the gallstones happen.

marmaladian · 08/08/2024 09:53

"Lose" . Sorry someone had to say it!

oldiching · 08/08/2024 09:48

Opps

Donotneedit · 08/08/2024 09:46

Your posts are so heartwarming OP, well done and good for you!
you might enjoy trying some gentle exercise like a walk or something on an empty stomach, coffee and fasting before exercise boosts the metabolism and you get used to it really quickly, I wouldnt want to exercise after eating any more. And then always have some vitamin C after to mop up the free radicals. This is the advice I got when I was an athlete sometime ago, things may have changed but it’s worked for me over the years.

ruffler45 · 08/08/2024 09:42

5 lb a week sounds way to fast a weight loss (from memory i think 1 lb is equivalent to 3500 calories) unless you are burning it off at the gym rather then overall reduction in calories.

Silverliver · 08/08/2024 09:38

Congrats for finding something that works for you OP and the weight loss.

Just a quick point for anyone else reading that a fast has to be zero calorie (I.e. water only or zero calorie squash or black coffee no sugar). What you're doing currently is alternate VLCD which is clearly working for you so that's great.

I've also lost a lot doing IF - I have an 8hr window from 12-8pm and it works perfectly for me. I'm also not evangelical about it so if I go for breakfast on a weekend or have a drink in the evening it's all fine.

Cherrysoup · 08/08/2024 09:32

I think it’s the mindset. Like giving up smoking, you need to be on the right headspace. Cooking and thinking you’ll have it tomorrow is strong willed! Well done!

ImPunbelievable · 08/08/2024 09:21

AShortName · 08/08/2024 07:00

I am happy for you, but this doesn’t work for me. I naturally don’t eat from c.9pm until 12:30 the next day (I’m not sure the extra half hour helps?) and I’m still putting on weight. I don’t eat that much in the other hours either 🙁

You need to re-read the OP - it's an extra 24.5 hours not .5 hours!

ILoveNigelTufnel · 08/08/2024 09:21

Well done @EatStopEat thats brilliant progress!

I tried the 5:2 diet a few years ago and I stuck to it rigidly, made sure I had enough water and I was drinking enough on the fast days but goodness the migraines were awful so I stopped. I’ve been in two minds to start it again but I get hormonal migraines anyway, so I’m worried about causing more issues like that.

Livelovebehappy · 08/08/2024 09:14

I have a slightly different take on this. I eat the bare minimum on work days. Just some fruit for breakfast. A whole meal sandwich lunch. Salad for tea. Then I have a weekend of treats, ie fish and chips, bar of chocolate, pizza. It works well for me, because it has to be a lifestyle thing and sustainable for life. I just couldn’t cut out things I enjoy entirely, so this way I can still look forward to my fave foods without giving them up totally. And not sure I could starve myself for a couple of days, as surely on those days your energy levels both physical and mental will be very low.

Ohdearyme72 · 08/08/2024 09:05

I do 16/8 7 days a week and excercise every day too. As long as you watch what you eat and still enjoy the occasion treat you'll feel healthier pretty quickly.

LaurieFairyCake · 08/08/2024 08:59

I've just come on t say how fantastic your regime is, I'm so pleased to hear about your energy levels Flowers

Driday · 08/08/2024 08:58

@EatStopEat
Just to clarify, so you stop eating Sunday at 10pm and eat from 10am Tues. Then from 10pm Tuesday stop eating till 10am till Thursday?

And when you say you stop eating, do you mean you just drink tea, coffees, juice, shakes? You don't eat fruit or anything even raw?

CaptainBolt · 08/08/2024 08:57

Well done, it sounds like you're doing really well 😊

Does anyone know if 16:8 intermittent fasting is bad for the gallbladder or is it mostly longer fasts? How would you know if your gallbladder was unhappy? 🤔

Q124 · 08/08/2024 08:54

I've done 14/10 for 10 months and have lost 2.5 stone. I do a strict fast and then eat what I want in the eating period.

Draconis · 08/08/2024 08:52

I've been trying to do this for ages but just give half way through a day. I never thought of having a tea or coffee with a bit of sugar in it. I'm going to try that! Thanks.

HMTheQueenMuffin · 08/08/2024 08:49

livelovelough24 · 08/08/2024 04:27

I started doing OMAD some time ago and have been loosing steadily around 2 lb per week.

I also have been doing OMAD on and off and have lost 1 stone 9 pounds in 12 months- but I have not been religious about it. I find it really easy most of the time. I just make sure I pack the nutrients in at my meal so will have as many fruit and veg I can get in, and usually sprinkle nuts/seeds etc. If I am really hungry though I will eat 2 meals but that might happen once or twice a week only.

I am a recovering bulimic and have to be careful though. I went off OMAD for about 6 months because it triggered some bingeing, but mostly it does not for me. I find that I don't set things in stone, so if I need extra or intrusive thoughts come in I stop for a while.

TartanJambo · 08/08/2024 08:49

That's great it's working for you, op. I did it a long time ago, it kick started a good weight loss for me but I had headaches and I was so grumpy on fasting days 😞
I'd love to do it again but I just don't know if I can

SlashBeef · 08/08/2024 08:46

mm81736 · 08/08/2024 08:30

MM died of natural causes in his mid 60s.
Not sure I would be taking his health advice!

Wtf

NeedToChangeName · 08/08/2024 08:45

soupfiend · 08/08/2024 08:34

I dont think anyone who fasts for weight loss is claiming they are not eating less. Thats the point, to eat less. But we all need tools to enable us to do that in order to lose weight and different tools work for different people.

What you will always find though, as in this thread, is that people will want to denigrate the method to put a person down, particularly if something is working for the. People just dont like fat people losing weight.

Some people fast as a lifestyle way of eating, thats fine too if it works for them and gives them health benefits, I suspect they would just eat more calorie dense food in order to maintain their weight rather than lose it.

I'm all in favour of fat people losing weight

I just take issue with (1) common sense being dressed up as the next big thing, so people can make money out of it and (2) people encouraging each other to go without food for lengthy periods, which could discourage disordered eating

Woww2 · 08/08/2024 08:45

Well done!

MondayYogurt · 08/08/2024 08:43

I love watching Dr Jamnadas enthusiasm for OMAD

theduchessofspork · 08/08/2024 08:39

If it works for you, that is great - but other people would say the exact same about Keto / calorie counting / huel / more moderate fasting

For anyone with a history of disordered eating, fasting is not recommended as it tends to be a trigger

(personally I tried fasting and it would be fair to say no one around me appreciated it. But I know plenty who get on w it.)

Iamthemoom · 08/08/2024 08:38

heinzseight · 08/08/2024 08:10

It doesn't sound like you have much time available to eat food in the regime. When do you have your meals?

If I’m doing a 16 I eat between 11-6 and on a 20 I usually have one meal and a snack between 12-4pm. We eat really early as a family, usually around 4-5pm, latest 6pm and have bullet proof coffee (mct oil, butter and collagen) instead of breakfast. BP coffee doesn’t really break a fast as you remain in a fasting state if you just have fats. We work from home which definitely makes eating an early evening meal easier. And we eat predominantly keto so hunger is rarely an issue.

I have definitely struggled with eating and weight gain since having my DD and since peri menopause and more recently since the quality issues with oestrogel so I have added in the 4 day fasts to really improve my metabolic state. If I eat carbs and sugar I can’t control my eating and just spiral. My only way of losing or maintaining is being this strict. I tried IF eating carbs and whatever I fancied and I put on weight.

I also tried Wegovy, lost a lot in the first month, then nothing for three months, felt really crap and when I stopped I put on everything I lost and more. It really messed with my system. So back to my tried and tested method which has always worked for me. IF, keto and longer fasts every few weeks.

soupfiend · 08/08/2024 08:34

NeedToChangeName · 08/08/2024 08:04

I haven't heard of alternate day fasting. Sounds unhealthy to me, to go so long / often without food

And intermittent fasting just sounds like skipping breakfast / no snacks after dinner

In a nutshell, eat less = lose weight

But, there's no money to be made by encouraging people to eat sensible amounts of mostly healthy food, with biscuits / bacon from time to time. Hence, the diet industry coming up with endless variations of "eat less"

I dont think anyone who fasts for weight loss is claiming they are not eating less. Thats the point, to eat less. But we all need tools to enable us to do that in order to lose weight and different tools work for different people.

What you will always find though, as in this thread, is that people will want to denigrate the method to put a person down, particularly if something is working for the. People just dont like fat people losing weight.

Some people fast as a lifestyle way of eating, thats fine too if it works for them and gives them health benefits, I suspect they would just eat more calorie dense food in order to maintain their weight rather than lose it.