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To be shocked it’s been this easy to loose weight!

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EatStopEat · 08/08/2024 00:57

On alternate day fasting - not 16:8 but fasting for 36 hours then eating anything you want for 12 hours. E.g stopping eating at 10pm on Sunday and not eating until 10am on Tuesday. Eat all you want until 10pm and the cycle continues. No calorie counting but essentially cutting calorie intake in half.

Thought about trying it for ages but never in the right headspace. Watched a Michael Mosley doc on Netflix out of respect for the great man and saw him talking about it again (welled up a bit when he was talking about wanting to live longer I must say) then just decided, F IT. I’m doing it.

Age 53. Starting at 18 stone 4. Aching knees and back, swollen ankles, couldn’t go upstairs without needing 5 mins to get my breath back, DC complaining that I’m heavy breathing over them 😳, high cholesterol, high risk for T2 diabetes, high blood pressure also hypothyroidism and deep in menopause,

In just over 4 weeks, I have lost 20lbs. Now 16stone 12. I absolutely love my food on feed days. I thought I would overeat but I don’t. In fact I haven’t got time to eat everything I planned (oohhh, I’ll have you tomorrow kind of thing 😃).

I work out in the gym on feed days so I go every other day instead of pressuring myself to exercise everyday and then not do any at all! I eat chocolate bars, big meals etc. I have started making overnight oats ready the night before feed days which I am loving and really fill me up. Drink tonnes of water etc. I have cut out normal bread and have gluten free instead just because it made me extremely bloated after fasting (wouldn’t have otherwise), gluten free pancakes with syrup too. More natural gravitation to healthy food now.

On fast days, I drink loads (as well as electrolyte water), have coffee with sugar, herbal tea with honey and two milk shakes with protein powder and ground flax seeds for extra nutrition. I will probably switch to fruit and veg smoothies when I get fed up with them but not yet!

I was worried I would be dizzy or have headaches but nothing! First few fast days were hard but now it’s so easy. I look forward to eating the next day and even fasting afterwards when I feel stuffed (!) and think about what I want to eat. I’m not starving when I wake up after fasting either and feel very cleaned out so to speak.

I have a busy household (2 adults - 4 older DC), I WFH, and it works fine. Don’t mind cooking for family as know I can have it tomorrow. Honestly I never thought I’d ever find a diet I’d keep up for more than 2 weeks which was my limit. I can’t keep up with calorie counting or denying myself nice food for months on end, so depressing.

I can see the benefits already to my skin, so much less tired, mental fog lifting, no swollen ankles!, dress size gone from tight 20 to comfy 18. I can almost run upstairs and the difference to how hard I can work out in the gym is amazing in just a month which is due to the fasting IMO. In addition there are internal benefits from fasting which will be adding up. I feel 100 times better than a month ago. I know the weight loss will start to slow down but I expect to reach a reasonably healthy weight before Christmas and can then do occasional fast days if my weight starts creeping up again.

Honestly, I really want to advocate this way of losing weight. It’s not a fad, we are designed for feast and famine. No extra costs, actually save money on fasting days as two shakes cost the equivalent of £2 and I’d easily spend more than that eating 3 meals a day especially if I was getting a cheeky Costa, McDonalds, or Subway for lunch although I can and have had that on feed days!

AIBU to think this is amazing and think more people should try it before resorting to spending hundred of pounds on weight loss injections which can have damaging side effects and are affecting Tyoe 1 diabetics getting life saving medication and equipment for that medication?

Obviously fasting is not for pregnant women or people with contraindicated medical conditions but most people could do it if I can!

OP posts:
LemonWater222 · 09/08/2024 06:54

Thank you @EatStopEat

I'm going to give this a try. Will watch the MM documentary too.

So glad this is working for you, please keep us posted and well done!

AuCo44 · 09/08/2024 06:45

I've tried intermittent fasting but I'm a nurse who works 12.5 hour shifts and it's just not compatible with that regime.
You're taking in around 600 calories on 'fast days' so you're not actually eating/drinking nothing but water.
I'm glad it's working for you, but it does concern me that people with eating disorders will get validation from diet regimes like this one.

AShortName · 09/08/2024 06:37

ImPunbelievable · 08/08/2024 09:21

You need to re-read the OP - it's an extra 24.5 hours not .5 hours!

😬 ah that might do it… will read again!

sixnearlyseven · 09/08/2024 01:40

Not read through the thread but sounds like an eating disorder

EatStopEat · 09/08/2024 00:44

Well another fast day down today! I’ve been gradually moving my shake times further back. Had first one at 6pm today and last one at 10.30pm. Could have gone without it actually but I want the nutrition.

So I only took a few calories in from a coffee with sugar this morning (also had lemon water, water and electrolyte drink) from 10pm last night to 6pm today which was 20hrs.

I do actually wonder if me having that bit of sugar and honey on fasting days is stopping my blood sugar from crashing so I’m not getting dizziness, headaches etc. Something to think about if people want to do similar fasts.

Finding it so easy now despite making toast for DS’s friend with thick, white toastie bread, that smelled wonderful. That was/is my nemesis but I said to myself I’ll have some tomorrow and it passed. Probably won’t though as got so much other stuff I want to eat that I doubt I’ll fit it all in!

Thank you so much for all the positive responses.

I have tried so many diets in my time. I was a size 6 until I had my first DC at 28 (always very slim and athletic), then jumped up to a size 16. I always think DD broke my thyroid (no grudge held though 😂) as I just ballooned in the last 3 months of pregnancy despite being extremely active and going to the gym still! Had all the hypothyroid symptoms after I had her, horrible dry cracking skin where I had amazing skin before. GP wouldn’t diagnose until 8 years ago when TSH was sky high!

Hoovered between sizes 16 and 20 for the last 25 years. Did cal counting, low carb and fasting diets like Lighter Life, Cambridge but never stuck to them for more than a week or two. I’m just delighted I have tried this and have found it the easiest thing to stick to ever. I actually get excited about all the lovely things I’m going to eat the next day, that makes me want to eat good food as well, not junk.

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LetsHopeSo · 08/08/2024 22:14

Well done OP! I very loosely was doing intermittent fasting around 7- 8 years and lost half a stone. I've not been in the headspace to do it in the last 4- 5 years or so, probably due to stress related stuff.
Probably excuses, I used to run a lot which helped to keep weight off but haven't done it much in the last year.
I'm the same age as you and have no will power, have put on a lot of weight.
I commented a couple of months ago on Mumsnet that I have joined Slimpod, have listened and watched videos several times but don't feel it's doing much, I'm probably not spending enough time on it.
I have recently been fasting for 14- 15 hours but its night time that's hard with snacking.
I'm going to start going to gym and classes soon. Any advice gratefully received!

Zotter · 08/08/2024 19:14

DistanceCall · 08/08/2024 04:59

Nonsense. Maintenance Phase is a pro-Fat Acceptance podcast that spouts misonformation about your “set point” and so on. Bodies are not “programmed” to recover lost weight. If you go back to overeating, you will get fat again. It’s not genetics, it’s caloric intake,

Zoe podcast interviewed Dr Robert Kushner who studies the popular injections like Ozempic he says the science demonstrates set point is a reality. A person can fight it but the body will be doing everything it can to drive up the hunger hormones after weight loss.

ETA - I have just read this article that says the science is less clear.

zoe.com/learn/set-point-theory#

Lovepeaceunderstanding · 08/08/2024 15:15

Kipperthedawg · 08/08/2024 07:11

How do you concentrate at work?

@Kipperthedawg , fasting supposedly heightens your powers of concentration.

YourKindPeachMaker · 08/08/2024 14:25

This is amazing, you’re amazing, thanks for sharing 😊

NeverDropYourMooncup · 08/08/2024 12:26

XlemonX · 08/08/2024 02:45

Well done OP

further down the line you should try to clean fast and only have water on fasting hours to achieve the full effect of autophagy and detoxing.

I am a true believer of OMAD (one meal a day) it works better longterm and I throw in longer fast a few times. That works wonders. My fat just melts off and I become full of energy, skin becomes flawless.

So eating is 'dirty' to you?

Religious purging might have gone out of fashion, but it's certainly been replaced by the diet industry. It's just called 'clean' or 'detox', 'autophagy' and 'flawless' instead of Mortification of the Flesh, these days.

FarTooFat · 08/08/2024 12:23

Well done OP - keep it up - losing weight is really hard, so finding something that works for you is the best way to achieve it.

I have successfully used fasting for a few years now and get the best results when I fast 3 times a week for 36-42 hours (Mon, Weds and Fri usually). I eat nothing during the fasts and drink only water, black coffee and green tea.

I lose about 1.5 pounds a week - which matches with what Dr Jason Fung says that a full day of fasting equates to about half a pound in fat loss.

I also have to be fairly strict and eat low carb and drink little to no alcohol - otherwise all the fasting does is maintain my weight. (Menopausal, years of yo-yo dieting, wrecked metabolism, insulin resistance).

I really look forward to eating on my fasting days ... and really look forward to fasting on my eating days!

I sometimes take some time off - either purposefully or accidentally - but I have a long way to go (2.5 stone lost, another 6 to go), so regard this as a long-term project. Once I'm happy with my weight, I think OMAD would be my choice as it's good for maintenance and I would be able to stick to that easily.

I'm lucky that I don't have a gallbladder to worry about ... but I lost that many years ago after rapid weight loss. My gallstones came from a low fat / calorie counting diet, so it's not just fasting that causes gallbladder issues, it's any kind of rapid weight loss.

I have much better skin during periods of fasting, and notice that small wounds heal faster, so can attest to the autophagy that fasting brings.

theworldsmad · 08/08/2024 12:11

bonzaitree · 08/08/2024 11:44

I feel like I’d go mad on feast days though… McDonald’s breakfast, all you can eat buffet for lunch etc.

I haven't found that to happen though.
Firstly, one can physically only eat so much. Then you've got that after Christmas feeling and can't eat any more.
Secondly, it hasn't happened for me, it's like my stomach says whoah, why you giving me so much, bro? Easy...it's like I'm fuller faster

lemarr · 08/08/2024 12:04

HolidayAtNight · 08/08/2024 07:42

Those who've been fasting for a while - have you had any issues with gallstones? The research on fasting is so appealing but the fear of gallstones is strong!

I’ve fasted ten years (24 hour one meal a day) and no health issues whatsoever! :)

lemarr · 08/08/2024 11:59

Fasting is amazing OP I agree, I have fasted for a decade, lost weight initially and now maintain it without ever really changing my weight by more than a couple pounds. I do not track any calories, and I eat as much as I like (one meal a day, 24 hour fast). It is stress free and suits me perfectly.

Alalalalalongalalalalalonglonglilong · 08/08/2024 11:57

I'm definitely going to read up on that OP! Even if it slows down and no longer suits you, you've gotten the ball rolling. The first couple of weeks of weight loss for a heavy person are so daunting people don't even start. Once you feel the benefit of being lighter that's motivation in itself to keep going. Or if you were slim previously. But when you have always been overweight on some level it's hard to know what that energetic feeling is.

I feel weirdly that eating makes me hungrier. I can go long enough periods without food but as soon as I eat I get intense cravings and then snack on and off until the next meal. I have been monitoring it and certain foods trigger this reaction, some don't. So I feel I would be a good candidate for this type of regime.

bonzaitree · 08/08/2024 11:44

I feel like I’d go mad on feast days though… McDonald’s breakfast, all you can eat buffet for lunch etc.

BigDahliaFan · 08/08/2024 11:06

It's not so much the losing weight it's the keeping it off....

Somethingsnappy · 08/08/2024 10:52

Well done op! That's absolutely fantastic! I haven't read the whole thread yet, but will do.

I also know what you mean. I started intermittent fasting 3 months ago (16:8, but I often go for 17 or 18 hours in reality) and I've been delighted too. I totally understand the point you are making about how it works mentally. Because you're not restricting any particular foods, you don't get the same cravings. You simply follow one rule. .. the timings. You can still enjoy food and look forward to it the rest of the time. I'm finding it easy for the same reasons. It's the only 'diet' that I feel I am capable of doing long term... Forever potentially.

I want to lose 3 stone to get back to my pre baby days weight of ten years ago, and I've lost a stone so far. It's slow, a couple of pounds a month, but I'm delighted with the progress, and already am wearing dresses and lovely clothes that I hadn't felt good in before. I'm quite fit anyway, despite being overweight as I walk and swim a lot, so haven't noticed fitness levels altering particularly yet, but I just feel so much more confident, looking better and taking control.

Well done again! Keep it up! Great time to do it too, to cut your risk of health issues arising in your 50s and 60s.

poppymango · 08/08/2024 10:40

I've never done the type of intermittent fasting you're doing, but I did the 5:2 and really really recommend it. I'm trying to do OMAD at the moment, and I have a similar experience to you - I love actually being properly hungry when I eat my meals, I love planning what I'm going to have but strangely I never overeat and do tend to gravitate towards more healthy food. I am tempted to try what you're doing though as you sound really happy and full of energy! I will be watching the Netflix documentary too. Lovely to hear a success story 🙂

Flightsoffancy · 08/08/2024 10:38

Congratulations! Sounds like you've made a really positive change. I'm currently having a low calorie diet, combined with Huel, which is working well. I'm on school holidays at the moment and it's much more bearable than when I'm working. I get so tired and hungry during term time that any kind of dieting is extremely tough, impossible really. I'm hoping that my body will get used to fewer calories and make it easier to cope when term begins again, but my hopes aren't high. At least I might be able to maintain what I've lost, even if I can't lose any more until next holiday!

theworldsmad · 08/08/2024 10:29

Livelovebehappy · 08/08/2024 09:14

I have a slightly different take on this. I eat the bare minimum on work days. Just some fruit for breakfast. A whole meal sandwich lunch. Salad for tea. Then I have a weekend of treats, ie fish and chips, bar of chocolate, pizza. It works well for me, because it has to be a lifestyle thing and sustainable for life. I just couldn’t cut out things I enjoy entirely, so this way I can still look forward to my fave foods without giving them up totally. And not sure I could starve myself for a couple of days, as surely on those days your energy levels both physical and mental will be very low.

Actually not. Have you heard of brain fog? People sometimes fast before a big interview or something to eliminate brain fog.
Fasting makes your mind sharp for some reason!

Silverliver · 08/08/2024 10:11

WorriedMama12 · 08/08/2024 10:08

What about 0 calories fizzy drinks ie coke zero? Fruit teas? Would these be allowed on fast days?

AFAIK anything zero calorie is fine. Obviously there are then other questions about diet choice around UPFs

WorriedMama12 · 08/08/2024 10:08

Silverliver · 08/08/2024 09:38

Congrats for finding something that works for you OP and the weight loss.

Just a quick point for anyone else reading that a fast has to be zero calorie (I.e. water only or zero calorie squash or black coffee no sugar). What you're doing currently is alternate VLCD which is clearly working for you so that's great.

I've also lost a lot doing IF - I have an 8hr window from 12-8pm and it works perfectly for me. I'm also not evangelical about it so if I go for breakfast on a weekend or have a drink in the evening it's all fine.

What about 0 calories fizzy drinks ie coke zero? Fruit teas? Would these be allowed on fast days?

IdLikeToBeAFraser · 08/08/2024 10:06

I'm only under a month but I'm liking 16:8 myself. LIke OP, what seems to be happening is not just that I'm eating less calories over all but also that the choices I'm making are different. I just feel like I get fuller a bit quicker and am less likely to WANT to snack. I've just had my period and it was a bit different compared to the previous 2-3 weeks and I definitely wanted more food, but considering that usually I have a full week where I'm eating everything in sight, I still see a difference between how I ate this month on my period vs usually.

We've also had lots going on because of holidays and family and friends visiting so I haven't always been able to be militant about 16 hours but I'm okay with that as it feels like an overall lifestyle change, but one where if I need to be a bit flexible, I can. So far I've lost about 6 pounds. Will be interesting to weigh myself today after my period.

Menapausemum1974 · 08/08/2024 09:57

@JudyBlumesBlubber maybe try having nothing to eat from 10pm and then waiting until 12pm to eat again. My husband lost weight doing this