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To be shocked it’s been this easy to loose weight!

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EatStopEat · 08/08/2024 00:57

On alternate day fasting - not 16:8 but fasting for 36 hours then eating anything you want for 12 hours. E.g stopping eating at 10pm on Sunday and not eating until 10am on Tuesday. Eat all you want until 10pm and the cycle continues. No calorie counting but essentially cutting calorie intake in half.

Thought about trying it for ages but never in the right headspace. Watched a Michael Mosley doc on Netflix out of respect for the great man and saw him talking about it again (welled up a bit when he was talking about wanting to live longer I must say) then just decided, F IT. I’m doing it.

Age 53. Starting at 18 stone 4. Aching knees and back, swollen ankles, couldn’t go upstairs without needing 5 mins to get my breath back, DC complaining that I’m heavy breathing over them 😳, high cholesterol, high risk for T2 diabetes, high blood pressure also hypothyroidism and deep in menopause,

In just over 4 weeks, I have lost 20lbs. Now 16stone 12. I absolutely love my food on feed days. I thought I would overeat but I don’t. In fact I haven’t got time to eat everything I planned (oohhh, I’ll have you tomorrow kind of thing 😃).

I work out in the gym on feed days so I go every other day instead of pressuring myself to exercise everyday and then not do any at all! I eat chocolate bars, big meals etc. I have started making overnight oats ready the night before feed days which I am loving and really fill me up. Drink tonnes of water etc. I have cut out normal bread and have gluten free instead just because it made me extremely bloated after fasting (wouldn’t have otherwise), gluten free pancakes with syrup too. More natural gravitation to healthy food now.

On fast days, I drink loads (as well as electrolyte water), have coffee with sugar, herbal tea with honey and two milk shakes with protein powder and ground flax seeds for extra nutrition. I will probably switch to fruit and veg smoothies when I get fed up with them but not yet!

I was worried I would be dizzy or have headaches but nothing! First few fast days were hard but now it’s so easy. I look forward to eating the next day and even fasting afterwards when I feel stuffed (!) and think about what I want to eat. I’m not starving when I wake up after fasting either and feel very cleaned out so to speak.

I have a busy household (2 adults - 4 older DC), I WFH, and it works fine. Don’t mind cooking for family as know I can have it tomorrow. Honestly I never thought I’d ever find a diet I’d keep up for more than 2 weeks which was my limit. I can’t keep up with calorie counting or denying myself nice food for months on end, so depressing.

I can see the benefits already to my skin, so much less tired, mental fog lifting, no swollen ankles!, dress size gone from tight 20 to comfy 18. I can almost run upstairs and the difference to how hard I can work out in the gym is amazing in just a month which is due to the fasting IMO. In addition there are internal benefits from fasting which will be adding up. I feel 100 times better than a month ago. I know the weight loss will start to slow down but I expect to reach a reasonably healthy weight before Christmas and can then do occasional fast days if my weight starts creeping up again.

Honestly, I really want to advocate this way of losing weight. It’s not a fad, we are designed for feast and famine. No extra costs, actually save money on fasting days as two shakes cost the equivalent of £2 and I’d easily spend more than that eating 3 meals a day especially if I was getting a cheeky Costa, McDonalds, or Subway for lunch although I can and have had that on feed days!

AIBU to think this is amazing and think more people should try it before resorting to spending hundred of pounds on weight loss injections which can have damaging side effects and are affecting Tyoe 1 diabetics getting life saving medication and equipment for that medication?

Obviously fasting is not for pregnant women or people with contraindicated medical conditions but most people could do it if I can!

OP posts:
Fatbottomgardener · 10/08/2024 16:47

mm81736 · 08/08/2024 08:30

MM died of natural causes in his mid 60s.
Not sure I would be taking his health advice!

Oh dear! Did you really mean to say this?

IncessantNameChanger · 10/08/2024 13:38

I'm finding that even quite infrequent fasting has been enough to drop my hb1ac. I only manage I few mornings a week but this inspiring me to do it more consistently.

It's weird as slimming world was always saying you need regular meals to keep your metabolism ticking over. I wonder if that's not true and it's more about keeping hunger at bay for over eating at lunch? I personally never feel any more hungry. I did a nhs lifestyle eating course and they said you can't make up for lost meals by eating double at the next meal and explained why. I can't remember the details.

I'm also drinking a shot of kefir in the morning. The kids are horrified

LetsHopeSo · 10/08/2024 10:57

Just adding here- when I was loosely doing intermittent fasting years ago, I read that some people dissolve an Oxo cube in boiled water and drink it. This helps a bit with headaches due to the salt it has.
It only has about 10 calories. I used to do it a lot, need to do it more often!

Footballwidow24 · 10/08/2024 10:55

macaroniandcheeze · 10/08/2024 10:33

Precisely, it’s not going to help deal with an unhealthy relationship with food, it’s just going to exacerbate and encourage it.

We are so fearful of food we don’t even allow ourselves to think about it.
Thats not “health” at any size is it

You are missing my point. I am not stressing over food, I know what I'm doing each day. I have kept this up for over a year, and miss it when I stop (eg on holiday). If there was some way I could repair a relationship with food affected by decades of dieting, I would have done it. This is much healthier for me than weighing all my food to calculate the calories.
Fasting isn't exactly a new fad, it's been around for ever. The diet industry won't like it as it does not require any money to be spent on it.

macaroniandcheeze · 10/08/2024 10:33

Footballwidow24 · 10/08/2024 10:27

I think a lot of people trying fasting have also tried every other trick in the book - I know I don't have a healthy relationship with food, fasting enables me to think less about food than other diets.

Precisely, it’s not going to help deal with an unhealthy relationship with food, it’s just going to exacerbate and encourage it.

We are so fearful of food we don’t even allow ourselves to think about it.
Thats not “health” at any size is it

greengreyblue · 10/08/2024 10:31

Yes I agree it’s extreme and it’s not for me. I do 18:6, sometimes 20:4 and it’s fine, it’s simple and I feel really focussed in the morning which is unlike old me. ED is discussed at the end of that Chatterjee podcast and Dr Fung explains that the research done doesn’t track that it is triggered by fasting. Obviously it’s not to be recommended to someone suffered from anorexia or bulimia. Primarily fasting is aimed at those who are obese as a way to lose weight. The vast majority of people do not have an ED.I think we can all understand there are limitations and contraindications for any diet without saying it’s no good for anyone.

Footballwidow24 · 10/08/2024 10:27

I think a lot of people trying fasting have also tried every other trick in the book - I know I don't have a healthy relationship with food, fasting enables me to think less about food than other diets.

macaroniandcheeze · 10/08/2024 10:27

greengreyblue · 10/08/2024 10:05

I’m interested in what happens in the body when you’re fasting: repair and healing. Lots of research in this area is exciting.

I agree! I have read about the benefits of fasting. However I think in all the excitement there hasn’t been enough focus on the drawbacks for people embarking on (another, probably) restrictive way of eating.
But we know a lot about the negative effects of other kinds of diets in general.

36 hours is really extreme.

macaroniandcheeze · 10/08/2024 10:24

greengreyblue · 10/08/2024 08:17

No it’s not bad for you. Listen to or read the research.

I have, I have read a lot about fasting but also I have taken an interest in research that fasting and other diets can be triggers for disordered eating behaviours and reinforce unhealthy attitudes towards food (moralising/demonisinh), and that extreme diets can be damaging mentally and physically in some ways as they work against your body’s natural hormones and hunger cues, cause anxiety and stress over restricting and not “allowing” the body to eat, can cause nutrition issues. Etc.

@EatStopEat the reason there are concerns about the sustainability of this way of eating is that most diets of one kind or another show short term weight loss but long term is very difficult to maintain and the effect that dieting has on the body’s systems means that it’s more likely to gain weight again as soon as you go back to normal eating, which then triggers further unhappiness and a yoto dieting cycle which is even more damaging to your body.
That said, again I’m not here to tell you what to do or pee on your parade, just to encourage caution and awareness.

This way of eating may have physical benefits but can have negative effects for some people eg. it’s not teaching and understanding of your body’s needs or developing a healthy approach to food. An all or nothing mindset is rarely a healthy one.

Personally I am an advocate for healthy relationships with food and body, which is usually less popular and more complicated that “try this one rule to lose fat” but then I don’t really believe that losing fat should always be the main driver of all our attitudes and behaviours and that we should constantly be fighting/punishing our bodies in order to get what we want (which is so hard, if it was easy to lose weight the whole world would be thin and we wouldnt have overweight people with eating disorders) The book Intutitive Eating by Evelyn Tribole is worth a look.

greengreyblue · 10/08/2024 10:05

I’m interested in what happens in the body when you’re fasting: repair and healing. Lots of research in this area is exciting.

halava · 10/08/2024 10:04

Just on the shake issue, why not make your own in bulk? I have one of these every day and make up a few days worth in advance. Be aware that you may have to give it a stir after a few days to reconstitute the texture but it tastes exactly the same. I do five portions at a time, put in click top mugs, about 250 mls each.

Berries (frozen is fine)
oats
milled flax and chia seeds
spinach
walnuts and/or almonds
unsweetened protein powder
(if you feel you need to flavour it/sweeten it a bit add a few drops of vanilla extract).

That keeps me going for hours, although I'm not dieting as such, I don't eat much F+V so this gives me a pass!

olivecapes · 10/08/2024 09:57

Best just to eat less and move more.

What do you think fasting is exactly? It's just a means to eat less, so long as overall nutritional needs are being met over a whole period, fasting periods are just a means to mentally find manageable ways to reduce intake. I don't believe it's more than that personally and don't think it will be any more scientifically successful than reducing calories by the same amount another way as you are doing, but it works for a lot of people.

AInightingale · 10/08/2024 09:53

I did gather from Dr Fung and others that fasting to burn off stubborn midriff fat (you will know about this if you're in your 40s+) is more effective than other weight loss strategies. Interested to know if anyone's found this to be the case? I'm not particularly overweight but this is the area I need to lose from most.

EatStopEat · 10/08/2024 08:39

SummerTimeIsTheBest · 10/08/2024 08:13

Very bad for you. How on Earth are you going to sustain this forever? Best just to eat less and move more. That’s what I’ve done over the last 10 weeks and I’ve got from 11st 6lbs to 10st 4lbs. Aiming for 9st.

Why would I need to sustain this forever? The whole point is to lose weight! I wouldn’t need to carry on with it unless I wanted to do it once a week, or even once a month to maintain my weight. I’d rather do that than constantly watch what I eat and count every morsel that goes into my mouth everyday.

I am eating less and moving more. Just doing it differently to you with the additional health benefits of fasting.

OP posts:
greengreyblue · 10/08/2024 08:38
EffortlesslyInelegant · 10/08/2024 08:33

SummerTimeIsTheBest · 10/08/2024 08:13

Very bad for you. How on Earth are you going to sustain this forever? Best just to eat less and move more. That’s what I’ve done over the last 10 weeks and I’ve got from 11st 6lbs to 10st 4lbs. Aiming for 9st.

"Eat less move more" is such trite patronising nonsense and what works for one person will not work for another. OP has found something that works for her. You seem to have found something that works for you. Great. No need to come onto a positive thread as if you're some kind of expert and piss all over it Hmm

greengreyblue · 10/08/2024 08:17

No it’s not bad for you. Listen to or read the research.

SummerTimeIsTheBest · 10/08/2024 08:13

Very bad for you. How on Earth are you going to sustain this forever? Best just to eat less and move more. That’s what I’ve done over the last 10 weeks and I’ve got from 11st 6lbs to 10st 4lbs. Aiming for 9st.

ColgateTeef · 10/08/2024 08:10

I really agree with being able to eat what you want on some days. I do general calorie counting now, though I have done fasting in the past and I love the fact that I can eat a roast dinner/chocolate/jacket potato with butter and full day cheese etc and really enjoy it (it just means I’ve used up a lot of my daily calories in one go at times)

I tried slimming world once and was miserable (and didn’t lose anything!) as I didn’t have any foods to look forward to and all the low fat stuff just meant I never felt satisfied.

When I did do fasting, if I was craving a particular food I would just think to myself : “You can have that tomorrow” and knowing that made it much more manageable! Well done OP

greengreyblue · 10/08/2024 08:03

@macaroniandcheeze look up the work of Dr Jason Fung on insulin and fasting.The body holds hundreds of thousands of calories in energy when overweight. When we don’t consume food, the body will switch to using these stores. Obviously it’s not for everyone and should be done carefully.

macaroniandcheeze · 10/08/2024 02:39

Each to their own but not eating for 36 hours is alarm bells to me.

If a thin person told you she was starving herself for 36 hours at a time you’d consider it an eating disorder.
But an overweight person is congratulated and encouraged, because we value weight loss above all, over mental and physical health.
As a society we actively encourage disordered eating practices in overweight people and that is quite disturbing when you really think about it.

I’m not trying to piss on anyone’s parade - seriously OP if it works for you, that’s fine. I don’t have individual diet advice to give nor do I know anyone’s medical history on this thread. But it is much more extreme and unsustainable long term than standard 18:6 fasting, and prolonged periods of not eating followed by eating whatever you want is not only building on an unhealthy relationship with food, it’s creating a dysfunctional relationship with your body’s natural hunger and satiety signals and creates anxiety and stress (mental and physical) around restriction and being “allowed” to eat - something our body literally has to do, is programmed to do.

AInightingale · 10/08/2024 02:02

Yes, I can see how a shake would be better on a fast day to keep nutrients up - though I genuinely like green smoothies, they're very energising.

peachgreen · 09/08/2024 23:46

I do OMAD and I love it. I’ve lost 6 stone and feel like a different person. I genuinely feel unwell when I eat during the day now, sluggish and bloated and miserable. It wouldn’t work for everyone but it works brilliantly for me.

Takeitonthechin · 09/08/2024 23:42

Can I ask what ADF stands for?
Well done btw, this is an inspiring thread