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To not want to buy property for fear of WW3?

212 replies

Vizella · 07/08/2024 22:06

Hi all,

I’m finally getting to a stage where I’ve saved enough for a house deposit, earn well in a remote finance job and am willing to leave London to go to South Yorkshire and buy a house.

Then a niggling thought in my mind says, if your house is destroyed in WW3, all your savings will go down the drain and you will be left destitute.

I appreciate that it’s a crazy thought to have but Iran and Israel are at each other’s throats and Russia has no intention of backing out of Ukraine. When people had their cities bombed in the past, how did they survive?

Tell me if I’m being unreasonable? If so, why?

OP posts:
JMSA · 08/08/2024 00:15

I sometimes think that on Mumsnet, if there's nothing in life to worry about, some members will think of something anyway!
Sorry OP! Just try to enjoy this position you're in and don't let fear take over.

Isittimeformynapyet · 08/08/2024 00:13

PerfectTravelTote · 07/08/2024 22:31

How is America immune from WW3? Do you have a visa for America? Billionaires might have enough money to go wherever they want in the event of a large war but your house deposit isn't going to do the trick, especially if Stirling falls or there's a run on the bank.

At any given point in time there are wars going on somewhere in the world. Now is no different.

I can't see why Stirling would be any more vulnerable than any other Scottish city.

Katemax82 · 08/08/2024 00:06

There won't be ww3 though will there? A nuclear bomb here and there would put an abrupt end to it

Bouliegirl · 08/08/2024 00:01

You buying your house or not will make no difference in the event of WW3

RogueFemale · 07/08/2024 23:56

If you're that worried, rent a place on a remote Scottish island, and convert your cash savings into gold bullion. Then worry about where to stash your gold bullion safely.

Elphame · 07/08/2024 23:52

Vizella · 07/08/2024 22:10

Not necessarily. If my savings are liquid, then I can pay to escape somewhere safer. If they’re locked in a mortgage then I’m no better off than a poor person.

Money is virtual now.

Unless you keep your savings in cash under the bed, it won't survive the technological collapse should WW3 wipe out the banking and commerce computer systems.

Snowless · 07/08/2024 23:52

Will money be worth anything if WW3, because if I had food I wouldn’t sell for a million pounds. It’s just plastic paper with no real value!

viques · 07/08/2024 23:51

Vizella · 07/08/2024 22:10

Not necessarily. If my savings are liquid, then I can pay to escape somewhere safer. If they’re locked in a mortgage then I’m no better off than a poor person.

Better to convert your money into something that will be useful post apocalyptic war. Bottled water is my go to. Small bottles that I will be able to barter for other things. And before anyone starts going on about plastic bottles and landfill can I just remind them that in a post nuclear world items in landfill will be a resource not a liability.

InsensibleMe · 07/08/2024 23:47

Vizella · 07/08/2024 22:19

America- somewhere remote and with a good enough climate- no tornadoes, hurricanes or earthquakes.

I don’t think they will let you in.

wellington77 · 07/08/2024 23:43

Terriblegizzard · 07/08/2024 22:20

I’ve not re-seeded my back lawn for the same reason. It’s a lot of work, and what’s the point if the Russian’s nuke it?

Edited

I think Monty Don did an episode on this recently 😂

wellington77 · 07/08/2024 23:37

I think you need to stop buying so much tin foil and wake up! There’s a reason we’ve had a cold and not hot war since after WW2. Mutually assured destruction…. Ignore the hysteria in the press

StripedPiggy · 07/08/2024 23:33

Just when you think MN couldn’t possibly get any more batshit, someone surprises you.

Well done, OP. You’ve raised the bar.

Port1aCastis · 07/08/2024 23:30

Have you been watching Where the Wind Blows?

Just buy a property asap OP as WW3 may never happen but your rent and property prices will increase.

waterproofed · 07/08/2024 23:29

Have you considered counselling for your anxiety?

DBD1975 · 07/08/2024 23:28

Sorry to add to the issue but I don't think household insurance would cover you in the event of WW3 and if it did can you imagine how long you would have to wait to get your claim paid?

Corksoles · 07/08/2024 23:23

NamelessNancy · 07/08/2024 23:21

And they'll definitely ok a visa for the OP to rock up for an indefinite amount of time.

This!

Plus WW3 will leave international airtravel and foreign currency exchange completely unscathed and operating totally normally.

AffIt · 07/08/2024 23:22

I've just bought a house a mile away from a major nuclear Naval base.

If and when the red button is pushed, I won't know a thing about it. I'd rather be a shadow on the ground than try to survive a nuclear winter.😀

Itiswhatitis80 · 07/08/2024 23:22

Hardly any houses got bombed in South Yorkshire in world war 1-2.

NamelessNancy · 07/08/2024 23:21

Dinosweetpea · 07/08/2024 22:25

Yeah because America definitely won't be involved in any war and they definitely don't have earthquakes, hurricanes or tornadoes 🙄 Safest place on earth...

Edited

And they'll definitely ok a visa for the OP to rock up for an indefinite amount of time.

Coffeeandgranola · 07/08/2024 23:19

So I can totally relate to your thought process here OP. I went through years of catastrophing so many global events and panicking myself into all kinds of thoughts and actions that were so disproportionate. Later on in life I went for therapy for some seemingly unrelated issues that turned into a whole can of worms, and found that working through those knots relaxed my whole mind. I wonder if there is something underlying that you could get professional help to unpick here?

Lovingsummers · 07/08/2024 23:19

I would choose to buy my house, enjoy my garden and the local area and live my best life. If the worst happened, I've enjoyed my time rather than doing nothing out of fear.

Education79 · 07/08/2024 23:18

We have a neighbour down the road from our farm who is prepping for armageddon, they have half a garage full of tins and bottles and have made plywood shutters for the windows (not sure how much use that will be) and have sand bags in their shed.

My wife said should we get some stuff in, I said no point, they have all the stuff already, but we have a shotgun and they don't😁

OlympicsFanGirl · 07/08/2024 23:18

You need to call your GP.

And a financial advisor.

Magehemela · 07/08/2024 23:18

MrsMop1964 · 07/08/2024 23:12

Has someone been watching Threads? It was South Yorkshire (Sheffield) that got nuked .

This!

Leeds is also a likely target because it's a financial hub.

As someone else pointed out, Skegness is a bit safer, or the very North of Scotland.

Mittye · 07/08/2024 23:15

Gold, guns, knives, food/water and the ability to use them/fight would be your only essential items. You would be better being crushed by your house falling on top of you.