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To not want to buy property for fear of WW3?

212 replies

Vizella · 07/08/2024 22:06

Hi all,

I’m finally getting to a stage where I’ve saved enough for a house deposit, earn well in a remote finance job and am willing to leave London to go to South Yorkshire and buy a house.

Then a niggling thought in my mind says, if your house is destroyed in WW3, all your savings will go down the drain and you will be left destitute.

I appreciate that it’s a crazy thought to have but Iran and Israel are at each other’s throats and Russia has no intention of backing out of Ukraine. When people had their cities bombed in the past, how did they survive?

Tell me if I’m being unreasonable? If so, why?

OP posts:
gizatwirl · 08/08/2024 07:20

gizatwirl · 08/08/2024 07:18

OP,I recommend making yourself a nice cup of tea then sitting down and watching Threads,it's on Youtube. If that doesn't convince you to buy your house and live for the now nothing will.

Sorry LovelyDaaling,didn't mean to quote you there!

gizatwirl · 08/08/2024 07:18

LovelyDaaling · 07/08/2024 22:56

You can't live your life thinking like this. Yorkshire won't be top of the hit list in WW3.

OP,I recommend making yourself a nice cup of tea then sitting down and watching Threads,it's on Youtube. If that doesn't convince you to buy your house and live for the now nothing will.

FreightTrain · 08/08/2024 04:36

😂

CheekyHobson · 08/08/2024 02:10

samarrange · 08/08/2024 01:21

New Zealand has a lot of earthquakes...

Depends where you live, some parts don’t have earthquakes at all.

ObelixtheGaul · 08/08/2024 01:58

TBF, I grew up during the cold war and had massive concerns about our house not having a cellar. I worked out if we moved really quick, we could make it to my friend's house which has a cellar during the four minutes warning.

I went off the idea after reading 'The Domain' in which one character's house collapsed leaving him unable to get out of his cellar after his food ran out so he died anyway (at the time the novel was written, the idea was there would be an all-clear after a period of time, can't remember how long). Of course, the other big problem for survivors in that novel was the mutant killer rats everywhere. Kind of puts a dampener on surviving.
Sorry, OP, I know it sounds like I am taking the piss, but at the time for me, it genuinely was a real fear, so I do understand your concern, but agree with others that it's not good to restrict your life because of a possible war that will be fought in the way you imagine, and your options if it does happen might not include being able to buy your way out with liquid assets.

PyongyangKipperbang · 08/08/2024 01:37

samarrange · 08/08/2024 01:21

New Zealand has a lot of earthquakes...

Good point. I stand corrected.

DickEmery · 08/08/2024 01:35

As long as politicians are threatening to use nuclear weapons, you can be sure they won't.

The only times anyone used them on civilians, they didn't warn beforehand.

So by that measure this is possibly a v safe time, nuke-wise.

Regardless if it does happen, if you're in your own house you can take the doors off, prop them against the walls and live behind them. That's what they told us in the 80s anyway. If you did that in a rented house you'd lose your deposit, for certain.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 08/08/2024 01:22

Oh sure… when WWIII starts you want to run to America where all the guns are…typical 🤣

samarrange · 08/08/2024 01:21

PyongyangKipperbang · 08/08/2024 01:17

the states that dont have those things are the ones closest to Russia........

Aus wont have anyone, so maybe New Zealand? Or South Asia as the aggressors are less likely attack those nearest to themselves (yes China, I am looking at you).

New Zealand has a lot of earthquakes...

PyongyangKipperbang · 08/08/2024 01:17

Vizella · 07/08/2024 22:43

Of course I know that, I meant a state in America that specifically doesn’t have these things 😊👍

the states that dont have those things are the ones closest to Russia........

Aus wont have anyone, so maybe New Zealand? Or South Asia as the aggressors are less likely attack those nearest to themselves (yes China, I am looking at you).

samarrange · 08/08/2024 00:55

I remember reading a story from early 1982 about a Canadian couple who were very worried about the threat of all-out nuclear war. They did their research and found a spot that they calculated was the least likely to be either impacted directly or suffer from the subsequent fallout.

They and their children arrived in Port Stanley about two weeks before the Argentinians. 🤷‍♂️

CheekyHobson · 08/08/2024 00:52

You could just cut out the middle stages and buy a house in New Zealand - it’s where all the billionaires who are worried about WW3 are planning to bunker down.

Bellsbeachwaves · 08/08/2024 00:48

Plus how do you know the computers or banks won't collapse in some ww3 apocalypse. Then where would your savings be?

...if you're going to really go for the slightly potentially irrational thinking...

Bellsbeachwaves · 08/08/2024 00:46

You'd own the land if your house got bombed if it's freehold

Biggaybear · 08/08/2024 00:44

Vizella · 07/08/2024 22:14

Somehow in my mind, WW3 is much more likely to happen than being hit by a bus 😅 It’s crazy, I know.

Statistically its not.

I've always said to my kids not to do "what ifs". You think of 20 & I could think of 20 more. Just not worth it. Live your life & let things happen. You cant stop the world turning so why try.

ZenNudist · 08/08/2024 00:37

Thinking about it my house has see 2 world wars, or the people who live here have.

You are nuts. Don't let fear rule your life.

Dobest · 08/08/2024 00:35

I'm starting to worry about WW4.

letsjustdothis · 08/08/2024 00:34

Just search for properties with cellars, you'll be fine.

lolit · 08/08/2024 00:33

Thanks op, I really needed this laugh

Sarahzb · 08/08/2024 00:22

Mate. Really? And Yellowstone could blow up...

Waterway · 08/08/2024 00:21

If ww3 starts who says you’re even able to get to America? Or that they wouldn’t also be involved.

not buying a house on a fantasy ww3 situation is bonkers, if you have the opportunity to get out of renting don’t let this anxious thought stop you.

RedToothBrush · 08/08/2024 00:21

So where are you going to live DURING WWII?

I mean you are either going to die or still need somewhere to live.

Everyone else with a mortgage would have similar issues about how they pay. The banks aren't just going to kick everyone out. Who is going to enforce it? Squat for a few years.

You'll be destitute but have somewhere to live!

Cantrushart · 08/08/2024 00:20

You've got two choices, convert your savings into gold or buy shares in arms manufacturing companies. The second one might be more reliable.

Lovingsummers · 08/08/2024 00:20

SaltAndVinegar2 · 08/08/2024 00:17

well that's a bit dim..how do you get food water and protection when it's in extremely short supply in a war situation? By spending money on it. A few thousand in the bank would be more useful in the immediate short term than a house that you can't sell

I have good enough survival skills to safely get myself water from nature, but everything would probably be so contaminated it would be beyond salvage. Any bottled supplies won't last long. If it came to a serious attack, it really doesn't matter what you do or don't have. We're all going to suffer. Might as well have enjoyed a nice house and garden while the going was good!

SaltAndVinegar2 · 08/08/2024 00:17

BBCONEANDTWO · 07/08/2024 22:08

If there is WW3 the house and money would be the last thing you'd care about - food, water, protection would be your main concern.

well that's a bit dim..how do you get food water and protection when it's in extremely short supply in a war situation? By spending money on it. A few thousand in the bank would be more useful in the immediate short term than a house that you can't sell