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To not want to buy property for fear of WW3?

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Vizella · 07/08/2024 22:06

Hi all,

I’m finally getting to a stage where I’ve saved enough for a house deposit, earn well in a remote finance job and am willing to leave London to go to South Yorkshire and buy a house.

Then a niggling thought in my mind says, if your house is destroyed in WW3, all your savings will go down the drain and you will be left destitute.

I appreciate that it’s a crazy thought to have but Iran and Israel are at each other’s throats and Russia has no intention of backing out of Ukraine. When people had their cities bombed in the past, how did they survive?

Tell me if I’m being unreasonable? If so, why?

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OpizpuHeuvHiyo · 08/08/2024 09:30

If WW3 starts you're much better off in south yorkshire than in London.

And if you own a place, even with a mortgage, you are much more secure in having somewhere to retreat to.

WW3 will either have battlefields far away from us and our main troubles will be shortages, protests and economic turmoil but mostly physically safe, or there will be nukes and it will be over very very quickly and your savings will be no use to you anyway. So really it's best to do whatever you would do if this wasn't a concern.

graceinspace999 · 08/08/2024 09:27

MrsMop1964 · 07/08/2024 23:12

Has someone been watching Threads? It was South Yorkshire (Sheffield) that got nuked .

I don’t recommend anyone watching this. I watched it in my teens and spent ten years in fear.

I have struggled with anxiety throughout my life and I feel like it would latch on to something in the news and be triggered.

I’m wondering if OP has anxiety?

I have done a lot of reading over the years to keep myself in ‘the present moment’ and suggest OP reminds herself that while she’s worrying she’s failing to notice that she’s living her best life now.

x2boys · 08/08/2024 09:26

gizatwirl · 08/08/2024 07:18

OP,I recommend making yourself a nice cup of tea then sitting down and watching Threads,it's on Youtube. If that doesn't convince you to buy your house and live for the now nothing will.

I watched it in the 80,s it gave me nightmares for years .

Starlight1979 · 08/08/2024 09:24

PoopedAndScooped · 07/08/2024 22:29

And you think planes will be running like normal 😱😂
AND if we go to War, America is right there too?!?!?!

Edited

Yes I'm sure if WW3 breaks out it will be easy to just book a one-way flight with Thomas Cook from South Yorkshire to America (the safe part though).

I can just imagine it, bombs dropping everywhere, cities being destroyed, people being killed in their thousands, and OP is sat in the airport lounge with a nice glass of fizz waiting for her flight 😂

x2boys · 08/08/2024 09:22

Vizella · 07/08/2024 22:06

Hi all,

I’m finally getting to a stage where I’ve saved enough for a house deposit, earn well in a remote finance job and am willing to leave London to go to South Yorkshire and buy a house.

Then a niggling thought in my mind says, if your house is destroyed in WW3, all your savings will go down the drain and you will be left destitute.

I appreciate that it’s a crazy thought to have but Iran and Israel are at each other’s throats and Russia has no intention of backing out of Ukraine. When people had their cities bombed in the past, how did they survive?

Tell me if I’m being unreasonable? If so, why?

If WW3 starts i doubt most of us will survive ?.

Starlight1979 · 08/08/2024 09:20

Vizella · 07/08/2024 22:19

America- somewhere remote and with a good enough climate- no tornadoes, hurricanes or earthquakes.

Oh yes America. A lot safer than South Yorkshire 😂

This cannot be real.

Killingoffmyflowersonebyone · 08/08/2024 09:06

Must be a wind up.

Can’t believe anyone thinks America is the place to go if WWIII breaks out.

MsNeis · 08/08/2024 08:57

Avoid big cities or places with important infrastructure. Also consider building some kind of refuge. Not much else you can do, unless you want to go the full prepper's route...

VickyEadieofThigh · 08/08/2024 08:33

MrsMop1964 · 07/08/2024 23:12

Has someone been watching Threads? It was South Yorkshire (Sheffield) that got nuked .

EVERYWHERE got nuked in Threads - it just focused the drama on Sheffield.

I wonder if the OP has the right to live in America? They're not terribly generous with their visas.

newmum777 · 08/08/2024 08:31

I don’t think there would be another WW3 land war like we have had in the past. Sadly it would go nuclear quite quickly. Mortgages will be the last thing in our minds. Let’s hope this never happens!

Thatusernamewastaken · 08/08/2024 08:28

Can just imagine the Supreme Leader of Iran gathering his generals in the war room and shouting "this, this is where we strike!" as he points to Mexborough on a map of the world.

Iamiams · 08/08/2024 08:26

OP in the movies all the alien invaders decide to invade in remote parts of America. So that’s a consideration.

RoseUnder · 08/08/2024 08:24

What’s your job, OP?

Instead of feeling helpless you could change career to work in a field that is involved in mitigating the chances of World War III. Government, intelligence services, United Nations, NATO, defence, development agencies, even many top corporates have teams working to advise and influence States on international relations. All of these organisations offer a range of jobs to a range of skillsets, from HR to PR, cleaners, comms, researchers, to ops, policy makers and IT. Many UK based roles available even for international orgs. May help you feel a bit more pragmatic about the relatively low risk of armageddon, and like you’re doing something positive? Plus, buy the house and ignore your siblings!

BMW6 · 08/08/2024 08:24

Aw OP you really haven't thought this through.

In the very very unlikely event of WW3 you'd have about 30 seconds to get to an airport, buy a ticket, board and take off. One of the first things that'll happen is closure of all airspace and cancelling all flights anywhere.

All banking transactions will also be shut down so no monies will be going anywhere.

Roads (those not destroyed in bombing) will be closed and troops will be ordered to shoot anyone trying to go anywhere.

You won't be going to the next town never mind overseas!

If you are really that worried either move to this mythical "safe" US state now so you're in situ when it all goes tits up, or buy a place here in the country where you can build a shelter and stock it ready.

In either scenario don't forget that hundreds (or thousands) of survivors will also want your shelter and supplies and they will kill you in a heartbeat to get it, so you need guns and ammo.

All in all your best bet is buy a house and get some therapy for your anxiety.

Edingril · 08/08/2024 08:07

I have seem some insane stuff on here this up there

Qwertylife · 08/08/2024 08:04

brightonrock123456789 · 07/08/2024 22:19

This !!!

This

qwertyasdfgzxcv · 08/08/2024 08:00

Bloody hell. What a thread. Thanks for that morbid thought. But, if it does happen, my input is very little and I'm of the belief that worrying doesn't help. I'm sensing you are a very anxious person generally OP.

Bettedaviseyes111 · 08/08/2024 07:53

If WW3 starts then we’re all dead anyway so it’s a moot point.

You can’t forecast the future, buy your house and live in the now.

Sallysoup · 08/08/2024 07:50

Unless you have your savings in cash under your bed, do you also think you'll be the only one trying to empty your savings account in the event of an imminent attack? How do you think that will play out?

NeedSomeAnswersPlease · 08/08/2024 07:45

This is crazy.

Why do you do ANYTHING when WW3 could start tomorrow?

Also, if WW3 has made it to South Yorkshire, it is absolutely too late to be fleeing to America

Sallysoup · 08/08/2024 07:43

So in this scenario the war has reached sleepy Yorkshire, presumably millions of brits are homeless and displaced, the NHS is completely overwhelmed, presumably water and power are also heavily affected at this point, but BA flight 237 to New York is scheduled and on time and your sat in the airport lounge eating your fry up? 😅 sounds like a plan

SalemsPot · 08/08/2024 07:39

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meganorks · 08/08/2024 07:39

Vizella · 07/08/2024 22:19

America- somewhere remote and with a good enough climate- no tornadoes, hurricanes or earthquakes.

LOL to thinking America is a safe country! Honestly, I'd let the nuke get me rather than move to 'middle of nowhere' America!

But if you really think it is, why don't you move there now? It will be a lot easier now than when WW3 has broken out.

JohnofWessex · 08/08/2024 07:31

Vizella · 07/08/2024 22:43

Of course I know that, I meant a state in America that specifically doesn’t have these things 😊👍

But they all may end up with Trump or whoever succeeds him

JohnofWessex · 08/08/2024 07:30

The point I suggest of a house is that whatever else happens you can still live in it - assuming that hoards of Londoners who previously would never have gone 'sarf of the river dont try and take it off you after whatever disaster has ocurred