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Shamima Begum

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Mamabear04 · 07/08/2024 14:30

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cm2n8xv61x3o

I'll admit I actually don't know much about this apart from it being on the news when it happened and I did watch a documentary about it. Do you think she should be allowed to have British citizenship? I mean she was a child when it happened, surely she was groomed? And now stateless, doomed to live indefinitely in a camp with nowhere to go? I think running away to join Isis is of course absolutely awful but surely she should be treated as a child that was groomed? Or am I missing something?

Shamima Begumphotographed at Roj Camp in Syria, where she is currently interred with other women who were members of Islamic State, on March 14, 2021.

Shamima Begum loses citizenship removal appeal bid

The 24-year-old will not be allowed to challenge the removal of her British citizenship at the Supreme Court.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cm2n8xv61x3o

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ghostyslovesheets · 07/08/2024 18:16

queenofdarkness666 · 07/08/2024 14:51

You mean the thousands of young working class blonde girls who were groomed in poor Northern towns and whose grooming the police and local authorities ignored for decades? If only their stories got as much airtime as her story.

They where not all blonde -what an odd statement. But if you care about teenagers being groomed and manipulated then yes just like them, so I guess you feel she should come home?

Incidentally that case was pushed into light by a health worker and the girls themselves and the main reason the police and social services didn't act wasn't 'race' but a misogynistic view of young women including thinking they knew what they where doing and profiting from it. Very similar to the views about this 15 year old - and that's wrong - yes?

NotWhiteIsAColour · 07/08/2024 18:16

Of course. She is British. It's racist to remove her citizenship just because her parents are of Bangladeshi origin especially when Bangladesh have clearly said they won't give her citizenship. It sets a very nasty precedent that shows that clearly not all British citizens are equally British in the eyes of the law.

MelIy · 07/08/2024 18:10

Exactly. She is not the acceptable (white) face of a victim

It's mostly the bleeding heart white middle class defending her... and you can't call her a victim (nonsense) and then accuse anyone who disagrees with that as being racist.

TheYearOfSmallThings · 07/08/2024 18:09

I think it was the right decision. She has never given any indication that she feels any remorse or takes any responsibility for anything she has done. I actually think she has been quite honest about her belief that she is entitled to return to the UK for her own benefit without changing any of her views.

macaroniandcheeze · 07/08/2024 17:44

Campcritters · 07/08/2024 15:03

She’s definitely a scapegoat but not enough people really care that much because she isn’t particularly likeable.

Exactly. She is not the acceptable (white) face of a victim

MooseBreath · 07/08/2024 17:43

I think she should be allowed to have British Citizenship, as she was born and raised in the UK. I also think she should be rehabilitated as an inpatient and then placed on terrorism watch lists for the rest of her life, with no access to a passport.

SundayBloodySunday · 07/08/2024 17:39

RedWinePoliticsAndHair · Today 14:41
Kids frequently play stupid games and she was a kid. She's had what, three or more babies die and is stateless in a camp? Even though she was born a British citizen? It's terrifying. If it can happen to her it can happen to you.

Totally agree with this. @Pottedpalm , really don't think it's ridiculous at all.

TickTockTickTok · 07/08/2024 17:19

The decapitated heads in the bins have also had their lives put on hold somewhat.

BingoBangow · 07/08/2024 17:16

User7171 · 07/08/2024 17:06

@Aussieland

How about they remove your citizenship when you make a stupid decision at 15 led by a friend telling you she has moved to an awesome place where everyone is happy? And then your children all die and you are left living in a camp?

Well when you put it like that, it could happen to anyone couldn't it?

One minute you're doing your GCSE's, listening to pop music and chatting with friends about fashion, boys and your hobbies. The next you've wandered off into the middle of a festival of rape, beheadings and suicide bombings, cheering on deranged terrorists in an enclave that's trying to return to the dark ages, thousands of miles away.

Only by luck that it wasn't us, isn't it?

🙄

Exactly 👏👏

Can’t believe the number of people calling it a ‘stupid decision’ made at 15 and suggesting it’s something any 15 year old could do…!

A stupid decision for a normal 15 year old would be pinching a bike, drinking alcohol in the park until you’re sick or telling lies that you were with friends at the cinema but actually went out clubbing….. Joining a terrorist organisation is not even slightly similar and I’m stunned at the number of people who think it is.

prh47bridge · 07/08/2024 17:12

Feelinadequate23 · 07/08/2024 16:58

On a personal level I don't like her and don't care what happens to her. I don't buy the "she was 15" arguments. Most 15 year olds know murder and suicide bombing is wrong and don't go to actively participate/support it.

On a more fundamental level, however, I don't think she should have had her citizenship removed. She was born in the UK and it sets a dangerous precedent of ignoring the rule of law. It is also blatantly racist in that if my white, blonde, christian-background daughter (who was also born in the UK) did this there is absolutely no way she would have her citizenship revoked. Given a life sentence, maybe, but not have citizenship revoked. That's why I think it needs to be reinstated, regardless of what Begum is actually like/if she feels remorse, etc.

I want to be able to trust that our government and legal system actually follow the law (don't take it for granted that they do, by the way - they are currently ignoring declarations of the ICJ regarding Israel, so they very much pick and choose which laws they want to follow, which is pretty terrifying).

Do please explain how the rule of law has been ignored. The decision to remove her citizenship was entirely lawful.

Regarding your charge of racism, see the case of Anna Chapman who had her citizenship revoked for spying for Russia. The only reason your daughter wouldn't have her citizenship revoked is that it would leave her stateless. Whilst Begum is stateless now, the decision at the time did not leave her stateless. She became stateless on her 21st birthday when she allowed her Bangladeshi citizenship to lapse.

DancefloorAcrobatics · 07/08/2024 17:11

I don't think she should have been stripped of her UK citizen ship.

For those who think otherwise, there was an interesting programme on R4 a little while back, about a grandfather searching for his grandchildren in the camps.

They also interviewed women trapped there, similar to Samima, they are well and truly trapped in no man's land!
They are human beings, whose lives are on hold until someone, somewhere decides otherwise.

I'll try and find it later when I have a bit more time... (a quick search didn't bring it up, so I hope it's still available!!)

SundayBloodySunday · 07/08/2024 17:07

mirax · 07/08/2024 15:36

Are the Afd running slave markets, blowing up infidels and burning people alive? If so , yes, never ever let your blue eyed darlings return home.

@mirax
How wonderfully hysterical. This girl has not killed anyone though. If I'd said IRA, would that have helped? "Blued eyed" enough to make my point? Blued eyed people are capable of the same level of violence as the non blue eyed. Hth

User7171 · 07/08/2024 17:06

@Aussieland

How about they remove your citizenship when you make a stupid decision at 15 led by a friend telling you she has moved to an awesome place where everyone is happy? And then your children all die and you are left living in a camp?

Well when you put it like that, it could happen to anyone couldn't it?

One minute you're doing your GCSE's, listening to pop music and chatting with friends about fashion, boys and your hobbies. The next you've wandered off into the middle of a festival of rape, beheadings and suicide bombings, cheering on deranged terrorists in an enclave that's trying to return to the dark ages, thousands of miles away.

Only by luck that it wasn't us, isn't it?

🙄

GreenIvyy · 07/08/2024 17:03

So relieved its been the final NO! How of much tax payers money has been spent on this so far. Hopefully thats the end of it. Shes made her bed, she can bloody well lie in it

HorsesDuvets · 07/08/2024 17:00

Aussieland · 07/08/2024 16:55

Yes she was. As much as anyone else born in the UK. Until they removed her citizenship and left her stateless. How about they remove your citizenship when you make a stupid decision at 15 led by a friend telling you she has moved to an awesome place where everyone is happy? And then your children all die and you are left living in a camp? But it’s fine because the courts said you aren’t British so there 🤷‍♀️

She did not openly show remorse initially at a time when she was still very much under the watch of ISIS and could have been punished in the camp if she had criticised them.

Even if she personally is a terrorist it really doesn’t matter. She is a British terrorist if so and should be dealt with through British courts

She's not British.

Flossyts · 07/08/2024 17:00

I agree with prior posters re being a child and being groomed. I also think, if we do think she’s a threat, surely we would prefer her in Britain where she can be watched very carefully?

Feelinadequate23 · 07/08/2024 16:58

On a personal level I don't like her and don't care what happens to her. I don't buy the "she was 15" arguments. Most 15 year olds know murder and suicide bombing is wrong and don't go to actively participate/support it.

On a more fundamental level, however, I don't think she should have had her citizenship removed. She was born in the UK and it sets a dangerous precedent of ignoring the rule of law. It is also blatantly racist in that if my white, blonde, christian-background daughter (who was also born in the UK) did this there is absolutely no way she would have her citizenship revoked. Given a life sentence, maybe, but not have citizenship revoked. That's why I think it needs to be reinstated, regardless of what Begum is actually like/if she feels remorse, etc.

I want to be able to trust that our government and legal system actually follow the law (don't take it for granted that they do, by the way - they are currently ignoring declarations of the ICJ regarding Israel, so they very much pick and choose which laws they want to follow, which is pretty terrifying).

Aussieland · 07/08/2024 16:55

User7171 · 07/08/2024 15:51

Who's talking about ethnicity?

She clearly isn't British. The courts have said so.

The end.

Yes she was. As much as anyone else born in the UK. Until they removed her citizenship and left her stateless. How about they remove your citizenship when you make a stupid decision at 15 led by a friend telling you she has moved to an awesome place where everyone is happy? And then your children all die and you are left living in a camp? But it’s fine because the courts said you aren’t British so there 🤷‍♀️

She did not openly show remorse initially at a time when she was still very much under the watch of ISIS and could have been punished in the camp if she had criticised them.

Even if she personally is a terrorist it really doesn’t matter. She is a British terrorist if so and should be dealt with through British courts

Golden407 · 07/08/2024 16:46

bilbodog · 07/08/2024 14:36

I agree with you both - she should be brought back along with any other british women and children. Unfortunately this thread will be set upon soon by others who disagree.

How dare they disagree! For what it's worth I think as a British citizen she's a problem Britain should deal with. However she's hard to sympathise with.

parkrun500club · 07/08/2024 16:42

Qwertys · 07/08/2024 15:30

Is the fact she married a man in his mid 20s immediately after arriving in Syria not evidence enough of grooming for you?

If a white 15-year-old married a man in his 20s would that be grooming to you?

It's not permitted in the UK, with good reason.

And times have changed, when I was a teen, we always went out with boys and young men who were unsuitably old. I briefly dated a 26 year old when I was 19. OK I wasn't 15. It may not be acceptable now but don't be so determined to shout grooming, as if women don't have free will.

And to address another poster's point, the Daily Heil isn't making the decision - the highest judges in the land are, and they aren't silly old codgers from 1970s courts who tell rape victims they were asking for it, they are sensible, intelligent, highly educated professionals.

I really couldn't give a stuff about her. I am far more concerned about all the women who will be murdered by men this week. As if there haven't been enough already in recent months and years.

K0OLA1D · 07/08/2024 16:40

ButterflyHQ · 07/08/2024 16:28

They served their sentence and were freed.
SB should serve a sentence here. Not be dumped on another country. We have to manage our own criminals.

Maybe people should read the thread

Coatsoff42 · 07/08/2024 16:29

Everyone who thinks she was too young at the age of 15, I remind you of scarlet Jenkinson who planned and carried out the murder of Brianna ghey at the age of 15.

15 is old enough to know what’s right and what’s wrong.

ButterflyHQ · 07/08/2024 16:28

K0OLA1D · 07/08/2024 14:44

What about the kids who killed James Bulger? Should they be forgiven?

The 2 kids who were in the news recently who killed the 19 year old? Them too? They're still children after all

They served their sentence and were freed.
SB should serve a sentence here. Not be dumped on another country. We have to manage our own criminals.

MelIy · 07/08/2024 16:24

Syrians would almost certainly rather have her there themselves than have her living the life of luxury in a UK prison (before serving 1/3 and being released)

Huggingatreedoeswork · 07/08/2024 16:16

Nope