So me and my partner have our own separate place, I live in a house and he lives in a flat in a tower block.
The main reason we don't have our own place together is because he refuses to give up his flat which he has had for over 15 years and it is rented through the council.
He will only do this when we are able to purchase a property in both our names.
Anyway I have just moved into a house through HA on a market rent scheme and he is now trying to invite his friends and family over which I really have an issue with and it starting to grate on me.
He is acting as if it his home despite having his own flat.
I have never been invited to any of his friends houses and one of his cousins has been rude to me in the past.
I don't want these people in my home.
I love my privacy and have never been the one to have social gatherings in my home.
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His brother does not allow people in his home as he also likes his privacy and now all of a sudden my partner is wanting to invite him and his partner over for dinner.
I don't think I am being unreasonable but my partner is making me feel very bad about this.
I have never had my friends/family at his flat.
I have told him they will just have to visit him him in his own flat as my home is not a social club.
I barely know some of these people.
AIBU?