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Dd wants to get fat loss injection

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Behappyandbehave · 06/08/2024 16:40

I don't agree. She says 'everyone is taking it and it works'. She is 20 and ND. Also overweight (in the obese category just). Has social anxiety and vapes too much which makes physical exercise difficult as she's too embarrassed. There is no one for her to exercise with and she won't do it alone. She thinks the injection is the answer. Help!

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ObsidianTree · 06/08/2024 18:48

I think it goes to show how beneficial these drugs are as there are a lot of people on here saying they wish these drugs were available when they were younger etc.

I think now this is available young people with weight issues have the options to use these drugs and get their weight issues under control. Along with losing weight these drugs truly help you change your health and eating habits and hopefully done correctly can instill life long healthy habits.

CombatBarbie · 06/08/2024 18:46

NCfor24 · 06/08/2024 17:10

I would suggest OP, that you read the Mounjaro threads on here....100s of us having great success and losing steadily whilst following a sensible calorie controlled diet. The injection merely takes away cravings and makes sticking to a diet sustainable without feeling deprived.

There isn't anything to fear. It isn't a quick fix. It isn't a way to starve oneself thin. It is prescribed by doctors.

Your daughter is an obese adult and wants to do something to benefit her health. I think you should support her. Encourage her to do research and consider how she might follow a sensible, healthy diet long term once she had lost the weight.

As far as I am concerned the dangers of obesity outweigh those of the specific medication I have chosen to take.

There is some ridiculous and unnecessary scaremongering on here and I am pretty certain those doing it have no experience of the medication at all but are jumping to "it's bad, you'll die!" the same way you seem to be.

I think the issue is that the DD thinks it's a miracle cure with no effort involved. If she won't exercise or follow a calorie controlled diet I can see why op is concerned tbh

unsync · 06/08/2024 18:46

If she's tried everything else and has failed, it might be worth exploring. It could potentially save her from a long life of being overweight and miserable. She needs to know that despite what SM shows, it is not a quick fix and you do need to make lifestyle changes as well. She will still need to address her eating habits and doing some exercise will also be of benefit.

Mercurysinretrograde · 06/08/2024 18:43

I’ve been on Ozempic for 4 months with good results but I would hesitate with this. Is she able to pay for it herself and to inject herself? And remember when to do it? If the answer to any of these is no then don’t go there. If she is able to take on this responsibility including cost and administering the injections then she may also be responsible enough to reform her eating habits and take up exercise. If not you’re both wasting your time and subjecting her to health risks and she will go back to eating afterwards with increased enthusiasm. You’d be better cutting out junk food and any snacks at home and going for a family walk once a day. The injections are hard work with nasty side effects and if she does not stick to a proper diet while on them she will struggle with nausea and diarrhea/constipation. It’s not much fun and not an easy fix.

NeedSomeAnswersPlease · 06/08/2024 18:42

@ObsidianTree yes but medication for weight loss has been around a lot longer. I've always been told that you have to do it the "right" way

farfromideal · 06/08/2024 18:42

Thelittleweasel · 06/08/2024 17:33

You can get it online from Boots [which surely must be legitimate] and it costs about £200 per week. You start with a lower dose and increase every month if you wish. You just are not interested in food. Started November and very successful so far

Unless Boots are very expensive, I think you mean £200 a month nota week.

My Medexpress prescription was 150 for a month

ObsidianTree · 06/08/2024 18:41

NeedSomeAnswersPlease · 06/08/2024 18:39

I've spent the last 4 years losing 4-5 stone and then stopped for six months. I really wish I'd been told about this 3 years ago

In the UK they've only been out for a short time. Mounjaro since February this year. Wegovy /ozempic I'm not sure. Ozempic maybe a year, ozempic since late last year ish. So really only recently we've had access to them.

NeedSomeAnswersPlease · 06/08/2024 18:39

LoquaciousPineapple · 06/08/2024 18:34

I wish I'd been able to use Mounjaro to get a grip on my weight when I was 20. Instead, I spent 15 years slowly gaining more and more and losing all my self-esteem and ability to enjoy life without constantly feeling embarrassed.

I'm now facing at least a year until even Mounjaro has helped me get back to the weight I was when I was 20, never mind a healthy BMI.

If you don't want to fund it, that's fine. Although I absolutely would if I could for my child in future if they have inherited my tendency towards obesity. But if she's paying for it herself, you should keep your opinions to yourself and help ensure she's getting it from legitimate sources.

I've spent the last 4 years losing 4-5 stone and then stopped for six months. I really wish I'd been told about this 3 years ago

ObsidianTree · 06/08/2024 18:35

letsjustdothis · 06/08/2024 16:58

Big risk of thyroid cancer, doesn't actually teach you to eat better, put the weight back on when you stop.

Edited

Thyroid cancer was found in mice but not in any humans so far. There is a risk, but so far not been proven to cause thyroid cancer in adults. These drugs have been available in the US for a few years now, ozempic longer and nothing reported there so far.

LoquaciousPineapple · 06/08/2024 18:34

I wish I'd been able to use Mounjaro to get a grip on my weight when I was 20. Instead, I spent 15 years slowly gaining more and more and losing all my self-esteem and ability to enjoy life without constantly feeling embarrassed.

I'm now facing at least a year until even Mounjaro has helped me get back to the weight I was when I was 20, never mind a healthy BMI.

If you don't want to fund it, that's fine. Although I absolutely would if I could for my child in future if they have inherited my tendency towards obesity. But if she's paying for it herself, you should keep your opinions to yourself and help ensure she's getting it from legitimate sources.

grapesstrawberriesplease · 06/08/2024 18:31

@VoyOySaveloy Mounjaro has taught me to reach for higher calorie, more nutrient dense snacks like nuts and seeds rather than quick fixes like chocolate bars, crisps and biscuits. It’s taught me to listen to my hunger cues and not just boredom or emotional eating. It’s helped regulate my hormones and lower my blood sugar also.

I’m very aware that many people pile the weight back on when stopping MJ, but at the heart of it, my cravings for UPF’s have stopped and I’m now genuinely really fancying higher fibre, higher protein snacks. It’s teaching me to listen to my hunger and not fill up on pasta and carbs (SW), calling chocolate ‘syns’ (SW) or calling food ‘points’ (WW). I will probably continue on a low MJ dose for as long as possible.

Thegreatgiginthesky · 06/08/2024 18:31

I would support her but make sure she realises that unless she lifts weights alongside the medication around 50% of the weight loss will be muscle and then when she stops the drug her TDEE will have decreased and she will put the weight back on and end up with a higher fat % than what she started with.

With these drugs it is vital that lifestyle changes happen alongside.

ObsidianTree · 06/08/2024 18:27

Might be controversial but if my kids struggled with their weight when adults, I'd be happy for them to take the injections. I wish this was available when I was in my 20s and struggling with my weight instead of now when I'm in my 40s and have spent my whole life battling my weight.

If your daughter is likely to go through her whole adult life struggling to lose weight, these injections will improve her quality of life so much. I'd support her for sure. Maybe do your own research into them. Mounjaro is the best one available.

Edit to add... As long as she gets it prescribed and doesn't buy it from beauticians etc. Asda, boots, superdrugs to name a few that prescribe it. There are other places too, but the ones I've mentioned you will recognise.

VoyOySaveloy · 06/08/2024 18:26

grapesstrawberriesplease · 06/08/2024 18:23

@VoyOySaveloy I have tried both SW and WW and both diets left me with incredibly disordered eating and toxic mindsets. They’re awful and don’t teach anything of real value once you’ve stopped following the plan. They exist to make money, they’re a business first and foremost and rely on people repeatedly coming back, and back, and back.

I’m all for weight loss injections for younger women if they’re deemed necessary!

What does mounjaro teach you of real value once you stop taking it?

Do you really think the injection manufacturers aren't a business first and foremost too? Only it's a lot more expensive than a slimming club

AhBiscuits · 06/08/2024 18:24

Can she afford them? They are fantastic, changed my life.

CatherineParr · 06/08/2024 18:24

I'm interested. What are the side effects?

grapesstrawberriesplease · 06/08/2024 18:23

@VoyOySaveloy I have tried both SW and WW and both diets left me with incredibly disordered eating and toxic mindsets. They’re awful and don’t teach anything of real value once you’ve stopped following the plan. They exist to make money, they’re a business first and foremost and rely on people repeatedly coming back, and back, and back.

I’m all for weight loss injections for younger women if they’re deemed necessary!

Abouttoblow · 06/08/2024 18:22

Thelittleweasel · 06/08/2024 17:33

You can get it online from Boots [which surely must be legitimate] and it costs about £200 per week. You start with a lower dose and increase every month if you wish. You just are not interested in food. Started November and very successful so far

Boots are charging you £200 a week?
Which one are you using? That seems very expensive.
I saw Mounjaro at £189 from Asda pharmacy online. That was for an injection of 4 doses which lasted a month.

Ottervision · 06/08/2024 18:21

letsjustdothis · 06/08/2024 17:01

She doesn't need to do any exercise, just eat better. I would take her to a nutritionist so she can learn what she should be eating, when, and why.

Lol. I mean most of us know all those things and yet so many people are still overweight.

That will not work. And its very patronising.

grapesstrawberriesplease · 06/08/2024 18:21

@letsjustdothis you’re talking complete rubbish. Obesity carries a far higher risk for cancer than any medication. Do you question people who take antidepressants? Or pain medication? Or contraceptives? Those meds carry risks, yet no one seems to bang on about their safety. Yet when it comes to mounjaro etc, everyone wants to chime in with incorrect facts.

In animal studies there was a tiiiiiiny risk of cancer in the thyroid. No confirmed cases in human trials. Stop spreading misinformation.

VoyOySaveloy · 06/08/2024 18:20

Also there is no way I would be putting a healthy 19 year old on it as a first line way of losing weight. When I signed up with Voy, I was asked all the other ways I had tried to lose weight and had to send in a picture of myself to be checked by a doctor.

I think it's a useful medication for older women who have tried everything but haven't ever managed to maintain weight loss (even though it didn't work for me). It's not a first line weight loss tool for a healthy young woman. She should try slimming world or something first.

Notsuchafattynow · 06/08/2024 18:16

I've lost 44lb on Morunjaro. Wish it existed years ago!

I'd encourage her to use a proper online pharmacy rather than buy it via a dodgy mate or tik tok.

VoyOySaveloy · 06/08/2024 18:16

If she is only just into obese category she may not qualify for mounjaro.

I am one of the people it didn't work for. Gave me horrific constant waves of anxiety and a pounding heart. Unfortunately I couldn't live with it.

Thudercatsrule · 06/08/2024 18:12

I lost 30kg over a year. Only mistake i made was not exercising enough so im not as toned as id like to be, but going to the gym regularly now will hopefully help.

Olika · 06/08/2024 18:00

@tobee I am using other methods to loose weight.

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