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King or super king bed?

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Oldermum84 · 06/08/2024 10:39

We need a new bed frame and mattress and I'm debating whether to get a king or super king. Currently we have a European (IKEA) double which is 140cm wide, so the king size at 150cm doesn't seem much more. I'm average size but DH is tall and large.

Our room isn't that big. It's 12ft4 x 9ft8, the longer wall being the head of the bed. The only furniture in the room will be a chest of drawers against the wall at the foot end (with about a foot of space between that and the bed so can just walk through and open the drawers) and bedside tables (small wardrobe is built in in the corner). I'm going to get rid of my dressing table but that's ok as I don't really use it.

Will a super king bed be ridiculously big in this room? Is sacrificing pretty much all floor space for a bed worth it?

YABU: super king is too big for this room.

YANBU: go for the super king.

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Imonaplane · 06/08/2024 16:24

Super King but get a zip and link - two separate mattresses which zip together. You won't feel any movement from your DH. Also, you can get king sized pillows so that you don't need three to fill the space.

TonTonMacoute · 06/08/2024 16:02

I would love a super king but we weren’t prepared to sacrifice the floor space and I’m glad we didn’t, but only you know if it’s worth it or not.

We have just bought a lovely new king size, as a PP said the bed linen is quite a bit more expensive

Gassylady · 06/08/2024 15:22

We have a super king and really love it. Our bedroom is big enough that we still have plenty of room to move around. But the duvet cover is a pain in the bum to change on my own, much easier as a two person job. We also bought an amazingly comfy mattress that needs flipping top to bottom. It is almost impossible to do because it is sooo heavy. If you go for it I would suggest a mattress that only needs rotating head to foot.

budgiegirl · 06/08/2024 15:15

Love love love our super king bed. We have a fairly large bedroom, but I would gladly have one in a smaller room. Bedding is easier to find these days, and I don't find it too difficult to change.

Our kids are grown up now, but when they were young, we could fit all three in the bed with us, it was lovely! Sometimes a child would crawl into bed with us in the night and we wouldn't even notice.

Watermelonistheanswertoallthings · 06/08/2024 15:00

For bedding, turn the duvet cover inside out. Put the naked duvet on the bed. Place the cover over the 2 corners then roll the cover over itself until it is right side about. Then turn it round so the buttons are at the bottom of the bed.

No heavy lifting and it's done by one person easily.

Buy deep fitted sheets so your aren't fiddling around with them. Always put the most awkward corner on first I.e. the one beside the narrow wall and bedside table and work round the the easiest corner. Simple!

Definitely get it delivered. We brought ours home ourselves and nearly gor divorced on the stairs as I wasn't lifting my end high enough to go over the landing bannister. I'm 7" shorter and half your bodyweight "D"H.....I was very glad of the extre room in bed that night😂

Coffeebreakneeds · 06/08/2024 14:49

We had a superking when ours were younger and it was amazing as there was so much space when they came in at night or for a cuddle, would highly recommend with little ones. We went back to a king when we moved (even though we had space for a super) as the bedding is huge and always felt like a chore it was always expensive to buy we didn't need the extra space. I think I prefer the super, but I am more than happy with a king, and I wouldnt want a bed to take over the room, I like floor space!

HuggingAnIcePack887 · 06/08/2024 13:45

BCBird · 06/08/2024 11:20

Logistics re getting it.up.thr stairs is something to consider too

@BCBird surely that's the delivery company's problem? No idea how they got ours in but not really my problem

jolota · 06/08/2024 13:45

We currently only have a king but would absolutely sacrifice floor space/bed side table space to fit a super king in our room. The extra space and comfort when sleeping would be so worth it in my opinion.
We have a toddler that likes to sleep in our bed so currently their cot is attached to the side of the bed so we have a lot of extra space anyway as one of us ends up half in there, I like the security of knowing she couldn't roll off the bed in her sleep that the cot brings but a super king and her staying in the middle would probably be more comfortable and more spacious.

HuggingAnIcePack887 · 06/08/2024 13:44

Super king 100%. I sacrificed a bedside table for it. No regrets.

LlamaDuke · 06/08/2024 13:42

We have a superking and love it. It's great having the extra space, although you have to pay extra for bedding of course.

My advice? Take your time and shop around when it comes to your new mattress though. I'm still try to find my Goldilocks mattress solution (ie just right) and I'm really struggling - most of them just feel too bloody hard, even if they're marketed as 'medium firm'.

Fortunately, many companies offer a sleep guarantee period, so you're not obliged to keep an unsuitable mattress if it doesn't work for you (assuming it is undamaged and you've used a mattress protector).

MissRainbowBrite · 06/08/2024 13:40

Definitely a superking, we upgraded 2 years ago and would never go back. You each have your own space and don't feel each fidget in the night, it's amazing. The bedding isn't too tricky either, I'm only short with short arms and can change the covers on my own, I usually use two pegs on the top corners to hold it in place.

Laiste · 06/08/2024 13:39

For me it would be too much.
Too much huge bedding and just too much .... bed! I like plenty of air/space to walk around, not be squished up against walls by the bed.

Our bedroom is apx14ft x14ft with clothes in a dressing room so just bedside tables a couple of big plants and the bed in the room - loads of space - but i still wouldn't want to go bigger than King. It already takes 2 wash loads to do our bed as a high thread count makes the bedding heavy. The flapping of big sheets and covers ect and getting it all dry ...

If i had staff to do the washing and changing it might be different .... 😂

Silviasilvertoes · 06/08/2024 13:37

Superking every time.

Carebearsonmybed · 06/08/2024 13:33

I really miss my super king. You spend a 1/3 of your life in your bed don't scrimp on it.

Cheeesus · 06/08/2024 13:32

Yeah a king is 15cm wider than a double. Even for IKEA.

I wouldn’t want to manage a super king duvet cover, so it depends if you would be ok with two duvets. Super king would be a pita to dry and manhandle, and duvet covers are harder to find and really expensive. That’s only my superficial opinion though.

pizzatrucker · 06/08/2024 13:30

It isn't the logistics of the bed frame it is whether you can get a 6ft mattress up your stairs without bending it.

We struggled to get our 5ft mattress up our stairs and into our bedroom when we moved in so when we upgraded to the super king we went with a zip and link, 2 individual 3ft mattresses that zip together. You cannot feel the zip as it is tucked slightly down the side of the bed.

Best bed we ever bought. Lots of places do super king bedding these days.

discoballdave · 06/08/2024 13:26

@Oldermum84 A little messy but if you line them up just right, add a blanket to the foot of the bed and some scatter cushions it looks fine. To be fair, the superking bed needs more styling anyway as essentially you've got room for three pillows across so you've got to offset that anyway.

Oldermum84 · 06/08/2024 12:03

discoballdave · 06/08/2024 11:49

We have a superking in a smaller room and wouldn't be without it now. We also have two single duvets on it in the same pattern bedding and it's changed our lives.

I've heard of this being a thing - does it not make the bed look messy?

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discoballdave · 06/08/2024 11:49

We have a superking in a smaller room and wouldn't be without it now. We also have two single duvets on it in the same pattern bedding and it's changed our lives.

RabbitsRock · 06/08/2024 11:34

I’ve noticed there are more Superking duvet covers around these days.

Oldermum84 · 06/08/2024 11:31

Thanks all so far. The replies say super king but the vote is split?!

@Brbreeze yes we have 2 young kids.

@Gettingitrightfirsttime 🤣👍

@Watermelonistheanswertoallthings that's great to hear it works in your size room.

@PivotPivotmakingmargaritas not looking to move.

@BCBird have found a nice bed frame where you can pay £90 for them to take to your room and put it together so will do that so it's not out problem!

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Gettingitrightfirsttime · 06/08/2024 11:22

A superking bed is LIFE CHANGING

Brbreeze · 06/08/2024 11:22

If you are at a stage of life where you have/will have young children, I’d go super king.

We had a king for years but it doesn’t fit a toddler who wants to sleep horizontally between you both. Upgraded to a super king before baby 2 arrived and we all fit in it better.

Sweetteaplease · 06/08/2024 11:22

Super king, everytime

BCBird · 06/08/2024 11:20

Logistics re getting it.up.thr stairs is something to consider too