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Anotherparkingthread · 07/08/2024 00:44

Well if we talk totally honestly you are much more likely to get a disease from another person. Cross species isn't really a thing. Lots of kids with verucas tho lol.

Willyoujustbequiet · 07/08/2024 00:37

I'm dog owner

The idea makes me feel sick. Disgusting.

Yourdemonsyourproblem · 07/08/2024 00:32

You do understand that humans don't wash, shed skin cells, pee, spit and have their bare genitals in pools which you're fine to swim in but you have a problem with a dog who is probably cleaner than some humans.
Grow up

SuePreemly · 06/08/2024 22:12

Ethelswith · 06/08/2024 18:57

I was in the Lake District recently, and was beginning to wonder if it was compulsory to have a dog with you at all times.

A few places asked for dogs to be dry, but that seemed to be the only stipulation.

Have you been to the Lakes before? Lots of walkers and enthusiasm for the great outdoors goes hand in hand with dog ownership. It's always been like that. I spent half my childhood on walks with our border collie up one Wainwright or another back in the 80s!

Ethelswith · 06/08/2024 18:57

YeOldeGreyhound · 06/08/2024 14:56

MN is full of threads about how it is vile that dogs are allowed in cafes... they cite hygiene issues, yet those same dog friendly cafes have 5* ratings.

Your are right... it is up to the people who runs such establishments as to whether to allow dogs or not.. and in some place (such as Lake District), the canine £ goes far.

I was in the Lake District recently, and was beginning to wonder if it was compulsory to have a dog with you at all times.

A few places asked for dogs to be dry, but that seemed to be the only stipulation.

Scorchio84 · 06/08/2024 17:59

Wish we had Lidos over here

Hobbes8 · 06/08/2024 17:55

perfectstorm · 06/08/2024 16:56

Aww, that's a shame. I was hoping the Mumsnet bingo card could really kick up a gear.

People do park on double yellow lines when the lido is busy, if that helps you. Not during the dog swims though…they have marshalls.

NoisyDenimShaker · 06/08/2024 17:54

Pollymollydolly · 06/08/2024 12:39

He lives the life he knows he deserves…..he has us well trained to meet his many needs😂

I take it you'll be visting the Lido area, putting him up in a five-star hotel with the best steak, and carrying him into the venue on a velvet cushion? 😂😂😂

LilBowWow · 06/08/2024 17:51

I wouldn’t feed dogs directly before swimming in case they get cramp.

ErrolTheDragon · 06/08/2024 17:44

If you stopped feeding it, and someone else started, do you honestly think doggy would stay loyal to you?

Ours used to spend holidays with lovely 'aunties' who I think fed him better (in his view) than I did, spoilt him rotten... but of course he was always overjoyed to see me. Actually I think he was also happy when he was picked up by DH who didn't do much of the feeding.

KimberleyClark · 06/08/2024 17:40

I cannot take the complaints about dog hair seriously. How many peop,e wear a swim cap when they go swimming? All pools will have human hair in them.

Maybenexttime08 · 06/08/2024 17:33

What's disgusting? Dog hair? I've seen humans do some disgusting things in pools - thank goodness for filters :)

K0OLA1D · 06/08/2024 17:27

AFewScrewsLucy · 06/08/2024 16:45

If you stopped feeding it, and someone else started, do you honestly think doggy would stay loyal to you?

Why would I stop feeding him?

My DC don't feed him and he idolised them

perfectstorm · 06/08/2024 16:56

LlynTegid · 06/08/2024 16:48

Saltdean is about the only place in the area where it is easy to park. Sorry if that is disappointing.

Aww, that's a shame. I was hoping the Mumsnet bingo card could really kick up a gear.

saveforthat · 06/08/2024 16:54

Hobbes8 · 06/08/2024 16:49

I’m pretty sure my other friends would also bugger off if I neglected them.

Exactly. I wouldn't stop feeding her because I love her, just like most people wouldn't consider starving their children. Don't get me wrong though, I love her as a dog, I don't think she is a fur baby or dress her up or any such nonsense but dogs do have personalities and often considered part of the family.

perfectstorm · 06/08/2024 16:54

AFewScrewsLucy · 06/08/2024 16:45

If you stopped feeding it, and someone else started, do you honestly think doggy would stay loyal to you?

Probably would. Dogs are pack animals, and they release a lot of the 'love' hormones around humans they trust and rely on. Cats are colony animals, not pack, so they're oriented towards food and comfort. They'll jump ship and adopt a new owner in a heartbeat. But dogs are like humans, in valuing affection. We dogsit for friends, as we don't have a life right now that can encompass a dog of our own, and one of the dogs genuinely loves us more than the owners. It's actually quite embarrassing. Another tolerates us, but basically longs for the owner to return - other than my husband; she dotes on my husband even though he never walks or feeds her at all.

Dogs have an evolutionary urge to form close social bonds, like people. So yeah, I think dogs are loyal, because they're genetically programmed to be over years of that conveying an evolutionary advantage. Just like we are.

Doesn't mean anyone should have to be anywhere near dogs if they don't like them, far less swim with them. But if you're okay with being in a pool with little kids in swim nappies, then you've probably had more exposure to faecal matter in the water than any dog will bring.

saveforthat · 06/08/2024 16:51

AFewScrewsLucy · 06/08/2024 16:45

If you stopped feeding it, and someone else started, do you honestly think doggy would stay loyal to you?

Yes

Hobbes8 · 06/08/2024 16:49

AFewScrewsLucy · 06/08/2024 16:45

If you stopped feeding it, and someone else started, do you honestly think doggy would stay loyal to you?

I’m pretty sure my other friends would also bugger off if I neglected them.

LlynTegid · 06/08/2024 16:48

perfectstorm · 06/08/2024 12:10

Though I would love it more if someone located a parking concern. Or queues? But mostly parking.

Saltdean is about the only place in the area where it is easy to park. Sorry if that is disappointing.

AFewScrewsLucy · 06/08/2024 16:45

saveforthat · 06/08/2024 16:24

My dog is my friend.

If you stopped feeding it, and someone else started, do you honestly think doggy would stay loyal to you?

Kiztittumne · 06/08/2024 16:26

Shade17 · 06/08/2024 08:06

You’re swimming in water which has literally cleaned the arsehole of every single person that’s used it, a few dogs aren’t going to make much difference.

Brilliant!

saveforthat · 06/08/2024 16:24

Greenbananasoup · 06/08/2024 15:41

Their obsession with bringing their dogs everywhere with them, and especially wanting to swim with them. They rely on you for food, they’re not your friend.

My dog is my friend.

saveforthat · 06/08/2024 16:23

Watchkeys · 06/08/2024 15:35

Could she swim there? ;)

Yes she loves swimming. Swims in the sea often.

K0OLA1D · 06/08/2024 16:21

Greenbananasoup · 06/08/2024 15:41

Their obsession with bringing their dogs everywhere with them, and especially wanting to swim with them. They rely on you for food, they’re not your friend.

My dog relies on me for a lot more than food

WiddlinDiddlin · 06/08/2024 15:52

Greenbananasoup · 06/08/2024 15:41

Their obsession with bringing their dogs everywhere with them, and especially wanting to swim with them. They rely on you for food, they’re not your friend.

.... The swim days at Lidos are not about 'dog owners want to take their dog everywhere' ... they're catering to dog owners who want to go and do fun stuff with their dogs.

You can also take your dog to do agility, man-trailing, parkour classes, trick dog classes, cani-x running and a whole lot more.

Lots of dog owners, good dog owners, take their dogs to do fun stuff because its good for the dog and amazingly, they enjoy spending time with their dog!

Dogs rely on us for a lot more than just food, if thats all someone is supplying their dog then they're not doing a great job there.