Name change here as I don’t want to be recognised with my other threads.
We are due to travel to France this weekend and stay for a week. We are going to see my parents for the weekend (they are french) and go for a few days in Normandy. Dd is now refusing to go, saying she hates it there, she is not confident at all with her french (my fault). We went at Christmas last year for the first time in at least 10 years and she said she hated it, felt depressed there.
I think Covid didn’t help at all as we didn’t go to France for 2 years and she has a massive blockage about going.
I have pleaded with her..and she reluctantly said yes she was coming but then changed her mind again. I got her a ticket to Reading to see her favourite artist, I booked for the 2 of us to go to Paris in December as she really wanted to go to find a compromise with her.
I can’t leave her because she is not matured enough, I don’t trust her, she would be the kind to not close the fridge properly, leave rubbish everywhere, she refuses to do anything pretty much.
We have no family that could help us.
We have a 20 years old daughter who really wants to go, we can’t cancel the holiday.
AIBU to lose my shit with her ?? What would you do ?