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To think this is a REALLY weird thing to say?

60 replies

Sheabutter19 · 05/08/2024 18:19

My DD(4) and I were round at my grandads house. She took off her jacket and was doing around and he said ‘oh strip tease’ and laughed. AIBU to think this is really weird to say about a 4 year old GGD?

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PTSDBarbiegirl · 05/08/2024 18:26

It indicates he probably laughed at Bernard Manning jokes and ‘women drivers’.

PollyPaintsFlowers · 05/08/2024 18:26

Yuck but I doubt he meant anything by it. It sounds like the kind of thing my socially clumsy 83 year old mother would say

FlamingWheelieBinofDespair · 05/08/2024 18:25

Grim.

Bouliegirl · 05/08/2024 18:25

Gross, yup. But I think it’s a stupid type of thing that generation say

StormingNorman · 05/08/2024 18:24

Grim

CucumberBagel · 05/08/2024 18:24

Brother ew.

Radarkeigh · 05/08/2024 18:23

For the really older generation, like 90+ it was probably harmless. Only you know what sort of a man he is!

Sheabutter19 · 05/08/2024 18:20

Dancing around*

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ATribeCalledQuestion · 05/08/2024 18:19

Eww. Gross.

IncompleteSenten · 05/08/2024 18:19

Yes. It is a very inappropriate thing to say.