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To be concerned about my toe

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Ihaveaquestionn · 05/08/2024 00:47

Solid oak bar stool fell directly across my toes today.

I have EPIC bruising, pain I can only compare to childbirth and a weird tingling/numb feeling underneath the toe.

Pain is currently so bad I can’t sit still or think about anything else despite having taken paracetamol and codeine.

I have iced and elevated it most of the day.

My husband says there’s no point having it seen as they will just advise rest and ice. Thinks I’m over reacting.

admittedly I have health anxiety so am imagining worst case scenarios of blood clots, losing my toe, the bone being broken and not healing properly and causing problems down the line

Pic attached and any advice/reassurance welcome

To be concerned about my toe
OP posts:
GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 05/08/2024 11:05

You do need to get it seen, so glad you're going to gerlt medical attention.

Your big toe is different to your other toes, it's important it heals properly if it is broken as it can cause ongoing problems if it doesn't.

Not particularly impressed with your DH's attitude if I'm honest - you've potentially got a broken bone and he's refusing to help you, that's not normal OP.

Ihaveaquestionn · 05/08/2024 10:54

Thanks all - walk in today then!

It just feels so rock solid underneath it would make sense that blood has pooled there or whatever people have been saying.

Will keep you all updated.

Weirdly it’s not excruciatingly painful when I’m moving around, only when I stay still!

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Karentoo · 05/08/2024 10:53

Ihaveaquestionn · 05/08/2024 01:06

@UncharteredWaters ive had paracetamol every 4 hours and mostly recently paramol which is paracetamol and codeine. Nothing is touching the sides.

It felt a bit better earlier so I stupidly was walking around doing the washing and cleaning a bit!

this was before the bruising really started

Please go to A&E. I know it's a pain in the arse to wait god knows how many hours, but please go.
I had a similar injury 30+ yrs ago, couldn't get medical treatment because of where I was at that time. I now have arthritis in that joint, it never quite healed correctly and it does affect my life. I wish I could go back and do things differently. Big toes are suprisingly important.

LostTheMarble · 05/08/2024 10:43

The way you describe it was exactly what happened when I broke my toe. Since it wasn’t the big one there wasn’t much to be done, if it had been they’d have given me a boot (I fell downstairs so thought best to get checked out as thought I’d snapped something in my foot). Otherwise I found crocs to be a lifesaver with plenty of cotton wool!

Investinmyself · 05/08/2024 10:38

I had a similar injury. When it didn’t improve I went to minor injuries for an xray. It was reassuring to know not broken. Treatment was to strap it with tape. I’d definitely get checked out it’s what minor injuries or walk in centres deal with.

Hoppinggreen · 05/08/2024 10:35

I am not generally one to say go to A&E but you will need an xray and a lot of walk ins (if you even have one, we don't) don't x ray and will send you to A&E anyway.
Its awful, DH spent 7 hours in our new "flagship" A&E recently but it might be the best option

caringcarer · 05/08/2024 10:27

You could have fractured it. They might give you Codeine for pain which is stronger than paracetamol or things you can buy over the counter.

MatildaTheCat · 05/08/2024 09:27

Get it seen as soon as possible. Not only might you have a fracture but you may also have a build up of blood under the toe nail which is excruciating and requires treatment.

Take a deep breath and get to a local unit asap.

Didimum · 05/08/2024 09:20

mackerelabashed · 05/08/2024 02:34

GP won't do anything. She needs urgent care/ minor injuries where they can x-ray

Not all areas have a minor injuries unit.

Kipperthedawg · 05/08/2024 06:38

I've done this several times. Dropped a hoover on it, frozen ice bottle from the freezer shot out and landed on it. I'm accident prone it seems! But it has never been broken, the pain was from the blood pooling underneath. You need to go into the walk in so they can drain the blood and x ray.

RunningThroughMyHead · 05/08/2024 06:31

Personally I would ice for the next few days and let the swelling and bruising subside. When it's inflamed, there's very little you can do due to the pain. If it's still painful in a week, then visit the GP.

FormerlyPathologicallyHappy · 05/08/2024 06:24

I’m a podiatrist. I broke my big toe years ago. I didn’t even buddy strap it. It healed without incidence as a lot of things do.

Dh wanted me to go to A&E but I refused and sent him out to get fish and chips instead.

garlictwist · 05/08/2024 05:42

You're not meant to take ibuprofen for the first 48 hours as it interferes with the body's natural healing process. You must get an X-ray. If it's broken and you don't deal with it correctly you'll have a lifetime of issues.

mirrorlife · 05/08/2024 05:28

unimpressive from your husband. That needs to be seen. A friend of mine lost his toe in similar circumstances so I would always take injuries like that seriously.

I hope your sister can help but even if not I would encourage to get it seen asap today.

Chickendinner24 · 05/08/2024 05:24

Oh op! Yes you need to go somewhere with an xray machine. Get some bags packed now. Take dc in their buggy and hopefully your sister or someone can pick her up from the waiting room. Or can you go now and dh deliver dc to you in buggy before he starts work? Can he start work a bit later?

Ihaveaquestionn · 05/08/2024 05:13

Thanks all - I have slept for about ten minutes at a time every couple of hours. The only thing that seems to help is standing up and putting weight on my foot and kind of marching on the spot, sounds very odd but elevating it makes it so much worse!

Ive taken the highest doses of paracetamol with codeine AND ibuprofen and it hasn’t done anything.

Unfortunately my husband is unlikely to take the day off work so have messaged my sister to see if she can help, as I don’t think I can cope with this pain plus a 3yo at home let alone at a walk-in clinic.

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CardiffNameChange · 05/08/2024 03:54

@Ihaveaquestionn for big toes you do need it assessed and they treat the break as it’s essential for normal walking function. If you have a minor injuries unit nearby or even a bit further you get seen far quicker than A&E

Bertgotkinky · 05/08/2024 03:35

Always worth getting that checked out as it’s giving you so much pain. Lots of bones in the feet and it’s likely you may have broken something. Not sure (I’m not a doctor) there’s much they can do other than X-ray it, give you stronger pain killers and maybe strap it up to the toe next to it to give it some support. Rest and feet up, chocolate and Netflix you’re onto a winner.

ClaudiaWinklepanda · 05/08/2024 03:31

Go and get it looked at, OP, this is from the NHS website.

To be concerned about my toe
DreamTheMoors · 05/08/2024 03:20

I’m not gonna lie, OP - that looks awful.
It looks painful and miserable and terrible.
You need to make up your mind where, and go!
If you decide to go in the morning, I hope you can sleep tonight.
Sending love.

Wowwww · 05/08/2024 02:53

Drs only really care if big toes are broken due but yours could be so worth getting xray minor injuries.

QuestionableMouse · 05/08/2024 02:35

GemmaJen · 05/08/2024 02:11

Get up to the walk in centre in the morning, if its a break with nail bed damage it needs seeing. I had a break a couple of years ago with a crush and twist injury , went to walk in centre, they had to remove the nail. Had x ray to confirm break, was given boot and crutches and refered to fracture clinic. You need to keep off the foot for a while even if it's just severe bruising. And driving wouldn't be advisable.

Can your partner take the day off tomorrow, get you to the walk in centre and get you set up at home to make looking after DC easier for the next week or so? You'll likely be advised to keep it elevated and to not walk on it for several days.

Stepped on by a horse?

mackerelabashed · 05/08/2024 02:34

Didimum · 05/08/2024 00:51

I’d definitely go to the GP considering your pain level. They will also be best to assess you for the things you’re worrying about. I dropped an electric piano on my toes 12 years ago. Big toes were completely black. My nails didn’t fall off but were deformed for a few years afterwards. Now just a little ridge in them. My mum’s toe was driven over years ago, her nail did fall off. But grew back fine.

GP won't do anything. She needs urgent care/ minor injuries where they can x-ray

theveryhungrybum · 05/08/2024 02:29

I broke my big toe once and the pain level sounds similar to yours. I had it x-rayed because of the importance of a big toe in gait, and although the GP didn't think it was broken, it was. I taped it to the next toe, and it healed without any further intervention. However, the fracture extended from one toe joint through to another, so calcification has formed in the joint and I can't bend that toe properly now. I'd have it looked at so that you know how best to manage the injury.

GemmaJen · 05/08/2024 02:11

Get up to the walk in centre in the morning, if its a break with nail bed damage it needs seeing. I had a break a couple of years ago with a crush and twist injury , went to walk in centre, they had to remove the nail. Had x ray to confirm break, was given boot and crutches and refered to fracture clinic. You need to keep off the foot for a while even if it's just severe bruising. And driving wouldn't be advisable.

Can your partner take the day off tomorrow, get you to the walk in centre and get you set up at home to make looking after DC easier for the next week or so? You'll likely be advised to keep it elevated and to not walk on it for several days.

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