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My DM is an extremist

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Summersunshine112 · 04/08/2024 22:34

My parents have always had strong political views, strong racist views, strong fattest views. From a young age I always knew I didn't agree with them and I tried my best to argue back. But I was shouted down and punished for voicing my own opinions. I am ashamed that I have parents who have these views.

However my DM as she's gotten older has begun to have more extreme views. She now follows a far right extreme political party (you probably can guess which one). She has begun watching so much stuff online and since all this unrest recently she's been further sucked into it all. She even told me that she was considering going to a protest in London. She's never said anything like this before.

I have a young DC and I am also worried about them being around my mum. I don't want her extreme views put onto them.

I love my DM because she's my mum but I don't like her as a person and what she believes in and stands for. I feel sad for me. I feel embarrassed and ashamed by her too.

Has anyone else got parents like this? If so what did you do?

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Summersunshine112 · 04/08/2024 22:54

Superstar22 · 04/08/2024 22:41

Simply, I wouldn’t have her round my child. I would also likely heavily reduce contact. We have family like this (in law side) and see them 3 times a year for an hour at the most. Absolutely no time for racist facist dickheads in my life.

I know, I have limited contact atm. I've reduced it further after I found out she had considered protesting.

I just feel sad that my mum is like this and nothing I say or do can change her

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Superstar22 · 04/08/2024 22:41

Simply, I wouldn’t have her round my child. I would also likely heavily reduce contact. We have family like this (in law side) and see them 3 times a year for an hour at the most. Absolutely no time for racist facist dickheads in my life.