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To ask how you would react to this?

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itsoverisntit12 · 04/08/2024 16:05

Husband has barely spoken to me all weekend. It's a constant circle of me having to try and make conversation and get nothing back. I'm mad about it and I've told him so. So went I went to the shop he decided to drive off when I was inside and leave me.

It's only a 10 min walk from home. But I'm fuming. I don't know how to even react or what to say?

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itsoverisntit12 · 04/08/2024 16:15

If I didn't have the kids to sort of be fucking off to a hotel far away because I absolutely hate him so much right now.

Our relationship is constantly me wanting more, wanting conversations, someone to talk to. But fuck all. That's what I get.

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sunsetsandboardwalks · 04/08/2024 16:14

Why isn't he speaking to you?

Has there been an argument? Does he just want some peace and quiet? Surely there's more to it than "he's not talking to me and now he's driven off"?

summerdazey · 04/08/2024 16:13

Gosh

And you've really no idea why he's being like this?

Snacksgalore · 04/08/2024 16:12

Why isn’t he speaking to you?

What happened with the shop? Why is he driving? What are you buying? There is a lot of context missing.

Honestly, I haven’t been in that kind of situation so I don’t know what I would do.

Aquamarine1029 · 04/08/2024 16:12

That would spell the end for me, I assure you.

MonsteraMama · 04/08/2024 16:10

I'd book myself into a hotel for the night, get a nice bottle of wine and spend the evening watching my favourite trashy movies and wondering why I'm married to such a colossal arse biscuit.

Then I'd speak to a solicitor at my earliest convenience. I absolutely would not stand for the level of disrespect your husband has shown you.

Happytimes123456 · 04/08/2024 16:10

That would really annoy me. Surely there must be a reason for him to drive off?

zaxxon · 04/08/2024 16:09

Have you asked him what's going on?

HappyChicky23 · 04/08/2024 16:08

Take your time going home, go get a coffee or a glass of wine

Allfur · 04/08/2024 16:06

Go to the pub