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Dismayed by comsumerism

111 replies

goneveryquiet · 03/08/2024 23:08

To think that this is mockery of the highest level.

In a country of food banks and poverty a well know department store has opened a shop selling fake food as toys. It's sold out and people are paying £50 for a chip with a cute smile.

AIBU that we have lost touch with reality l? Consumerism gone mad?!

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serialcatbuyer · 04/08/2024 00:10

ll09sm · 04/08/2024 00:06

Sick?

What, like ill with a physiological condition? Or distrurbed like a serial killer.

Do enlighten us about with which of those two categories is appropriate for someone buying or selling children’s toys.

It's not the people buying and selling. It's just the idea of it. OP is right, about pieces of toy food being sold for £50 while children go hungry

HearTheMessenger · 04/08/2024 00:09

People spend money on all kinds of toot. Some of them are billionaires. Other people starve. It's not ideal but it seems to be how most people want things to shake down.

shuggles · 04/08/2024 00:08

@EatTheGnome People buying those toys have worked hard for their money

I will politely remind you that people who can't afford the £50 fake food toys have also worked hard for their money, and in many cases, moreso by doing physical and dangerous manual labour work.

ll09sm · 04/08/2024 00:07

goneveryquiet · 03/08/2024 23:12

I just hope they are making a donation to a local food bank

And then going on Facebook to post about it.

Or better still, coming on MN and telling everyone about how virtuous they are. Like this post.

ll09sm · 04/08/2024 00:06

serialcatbuyer · 03/08/2024 23:44

Yeah, it's kind of sick

Sick?

What, like ill with a physiological condition? Or distrurbed like a serial killer.

Do enlighten us about with which of those two categories is appropriate for someone buying or selling children’s toys.

ll09sm · 04/08/2024 00:03

So you are getting all worked up about a department store selling expensive toys. Like they have been doing for over 100 years?

Honestly, how do some people get the day with so much shrieking and pearl clutching.

JustTalkToThem · 04/08/2024 00:02

And Lego are selling houses when people are homeless!!

OhMrPleasant · 04/08/2024 00:01

I guess it depends how you frame it.

If you say it's people buying fake food as a plaything for their children while other children go hungry because their families can't afford the real thing then yes, it seems insensitive. Not quite as bad as posh oiks burning £50 notes in front of beggars though.

But you could also argue that any toy that replicates the real world is insensitive to someone somewhere, and most of us aren't going to agonise over every purchase to decide if it's appropriate to buy, they just want to give their kids the latest thing, and sadly that's nothing new in this consumerist world.

I do think rampant consumerism needs to be addressed though as our poor planet is littered with so much unnecessary stuff, but I think there are more important aspects of this to address than types of toys.

CranfordScones · 03/08/2024 23:54

But we're not really a country of poverty and foodbanks, are we?

And neither are we a country of Marie Antoinettes saying, "Let them eat £50 toy food" which is how you seem to want to paint things.

ButWhatAboutTheBees · 03/08/2024 23:51

EatTheGnome · 03/08/2024 23:44

Gotcha! X

Just wondering how they can make such a broad statement that people who spend £50 on a toy won't give to charity

Mostly cause I wouldn't consider £50 on a toy the realm of the ultra rich, just the "living comfortably and can splurge a little sometimes" category who are usually some of the biggest donators, people who can see how close they are to needing the help themselves and donate to them

EatTheGnome · 03/08/2024 23:44

ButWhatAboutTheBees · 03/08/2024 23:35

I was referring to the poster who said people who can spend £50 on a toy aren't the people giving to charity

Gotcha! X

serialcatbuyer · 03/08/2024 23:44

Yeah, it's kind of sick

EllenLRipley · 03/08/2024 23:35

Is it just jellycat toys that annoy you? If so why? Are non food related frivolities for children ok?
Weird hill to take a stand on op

mothsandgoths · 03/08/2024 23:35

Outrage for the sake of being outraged.

Someone please think of the children

ButWhatAboutTheBees · 03/08/2024 23:35

EatTheGnome · 03/08/2024 23:29

Well people that don't have money can't donate something they don't have.

To be crude, I don't think homeless people are topping up the food banks.

I was referring to the poster who said people who can spend £50 on a toy aren't the people giving to charity

Runnerinthenight · 03/08/2024 23:33

Jellycats are fabulous!!

Selfridges is a high end store. Pretty much everything is expensive. Have you seen their ladieswear??

Buy them or don't buy them. The End.

LikeAFineMerlot · 03/08/2024 23:33

EatTheGnome · 03/08/2024 23:28

It wouldn't matter. I don't need to justify how I spend my money. Hut if you want to play that game, I'll answer of you answer:

Have you spent any money this month that wasn't a charity donation?

@LikeAFineMerlot I think OP os referring to the jellycat experience where you can queue up and buy a themed toy. Like your kid buys "fish and chips" but it's actually a soft toy and they sales assistant role plays with the kids. Not that you could be expected to know that given that OP cannot articulate herself without talking in riddles.

Thank you, I have no idea what they are wittering on about.

But people always spend money on things that could be got for cheaper, because that's what people do

Adviceneeeeded · 03/08/2024 23:32

Most things are bought as a want and not a need. It's not going to stop people needing food banks...

If Mrs jones decided she was going to buy one of those toys and then changed her mind. I doubt she would be thinking about the food bank and then donating the equivalent to it. She would probably think, oo I saved myself £50 and go about her day.

I think the toys are over priced but so are most things people buy without necessity.

EatTheGnome · 03/08/2024 23:32

Devilsmommy · 03/08/2024 23:25

@EatTheGnome People buying those toys have worked hard for their money and can spend it as they like. They are also the ones in a position to make regular charitable donations.

People who can spend that kind of money on toys aren't the people who make charitable donations

So if I donate 10% of my salary each month, volunteer, and put stuff in food banks, by your logic I'm still not allowed to buy a soft toy? So what am I allowed to spend my money on? 100% to charity, same as you, yeah?

EatTheGnome · 03/08/2024 23:29

ButWhatAboutTheBees · 03/08/2024 23:28

You know that do you?

Well people that don't have money can't donate something they don't have.

To be crude, I don't think homeless people are topping up the food banks.

EatTheGnome · 03/08/2024 23:28

goneveryquiet · 03/08/2024 23:22

You've been haven't you Biscuit

It wouldn't matter. I don't need to justify how I spend my money. Hut if you want to play that game, I'll answer of you answer:

Have you spent any money this month that wasn't a charity donation?

@LikeAFineMerlot I think OP os referring to the jellycat experience where you can queue up and buy a themed toy. Like your kid buys "fish and chips" but it's actually a soft toy and they sales assistant role plays with the kids. Not that you could be expected to know that given that OP cannot articulate herself without talking in riddles.

Sethera · 03/08/2024 23:28

Well, yes - this is capitalism, I'm afraid. £50 toys are barely a speck of ice on the tip of the iceberg when you consider the money that is squandered on all sorts of nonsense while some live in desperate poverty.

LikeAFineMerlot · 03/08/2024 23:28

Yes.

I'm the one who doesn't make sense

Biscuit
ButWhatAboutTheBees · 03/08/2024 23:28

Devilsmommy · 03/08/2024 23:25

@EatTheGnome People buying those toys have worked hard for their money and can spend it as they like. They are also the ones in a position to make regular charitable donations.

People who can spend that kind of money on toys aren't the people who make charitable donations

You know that do you?

oObyeOo · 03/08/2024 23:27

goneveryquiet · 03/08/2024 23:25

@LikeAFineMerlot that doesn't even make sense Biscuit

Er, yes it does! Your OP doesn’t make sense