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C4tintherug · 03/08/2024 12:00

Why has Michael Jackson not been cancelled?

I don’t understand why a musical has been made out of his music, and why his music is played at school discos and is still everywhere.

After I watched the documentary where the men described how he raped them, I won’t listen to his music at all, in fact, I feel a sense of disgust when it is played publicly.

I don’t understand why we seem to have cancelled everyone else except him. Is it because he died before he was officially found guilty?

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pam290358 · 05/08/2024 08:26

Tulipsareredvioletsarebue · 05/08/2024 07:05

They are not though.
The system often fails victims of abuse- either because things never make it ti court, or because it's easier to get out of the siruation if you are a billionaire.
Very few opowerful people get convicted.
Harvey Weinstein had his conviction overturned (!!!!)- does this inspire your faith in legal system? Innocent as they come.
Prince Edward managed to settle out of court. His story in the interview held so well, didnt it?
MJ used vurnerable kids, and had behind him a massive legal and financial machine to support him.

Why is it so difficult for people to accept a simple point of law. Someone asked if Saville had been convicted. The answer is no, he died before anyone knew what he’d been doing. Someone else posted that this was the same as Jackson in principle - basically because everyone knew Jackson was really guilty. That’s absolute nonsense. And what you’ve posted her is totally irrelevant to the point being made. Whatever your feelings about Jackson, he was tried and found not guilty. Legally, at the time of his death he was not guilty. Not so Saville, by way of the fact he was never brought to justice. Fact.

creamofroses · 05/08/2024 08:17

CosmicDaisyChain · 05/08/2024 06:35

Because not all of the 'accurate' descriptions turned out to be accurate. Incidentally, Vanity Fair is not the most reliable of sources.

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Who would you consider a reliable source then? The cops investigating him, and the mountains of rather damning evidence found at his ranch? MJ himself, who is on camera saying he slept in the same bed as these little boys?

Denial is thick on here. It's mystifying.

CosmicDaisyChain · 05/08/2024 07:41

I think a lot of the parents actions damage their own integrity. There does seem a pattern where the parents were happy to allow free access to their children when they themselves were being flown around in private jets, sent on multi thousand dollar shopping sprees and showered with gifts so expensive that most people can only dream of then only when their supply of money was cut off decided to sue. It can't all have just been grooming. All of these parents claim to have been too afraid to say anything but openly admit to using the money for their own gain while they had access to it. Yes it's possible that a global superstar was so powerful that they did not know what to do but there does seem a degree of knowing exactly what to do when they were financially benefiting from the arrangement. Were any of them still living the superstar lifestyle at the time they decided to sue or had their funds already been cut off long before? We've all said nobody would give the creepy binman down the road such easy access to our children but these parents did so freely in return for homes and all manner of other riches.

Tulipsareredvioletsarebue · 05/08/2024 07:05

pam290358 · 04/08/2024 22:59

The two are totally different. Saville was dead before his crimes were discovered. He wasn’t found guilty or innocent because he didn’t stand trial. Jackson stood trial twice and was acquitted. Whatever your personal opinion the law says he was not guilty.

They are not though.
The system often fails victims of abuse- either because things never make it ti court, or because it's easier to get out of the siruation if you are a billionaire.
Very few opowerful people get convicted.
Harvey Weinstein had his conviction overturned (!!!!)- does this inspire your faith in legal system? Innocent as they come.
Prince Edward managed to settle out of court. His story in the interview held so well, didnt it?
MJ used vurnerable kids, and had behind him a massive legal and financial machine to support him.

CosmicDaisyChain · 05/08/2024 06:35

creamofroses · 05/08/2024 01:39

I'm sorry, but how is that related to the drawing of the vitiligo pattern, and other facts that corroborate the little boys he seduced and abused stories?

10 Undeniable Facts About the Michael Jackson Sexual-Abuse Allegations | Vanity Fair

Because not all of the 'accurate' descriptions turned out to be accurate. Incidentally, Vanity Fair is not the most reliable of sources.

creamofroses · 05/08/2024 01:39

CosmicDaisyChain · 04/08/2024 15:30

One person was also ‘accurately’ able to describe how he was circumcised. The autopsy said he wasn’t circumcised.

I'm sorry, but how is that related to the drawing of the vitiligo pattern, and other facts that corroborate the little boys he seduced and abused stories?

10 Undeniable Facts About the Michael Jackson Sexual-Abuse Allegations | Vanity Fair

10 Undeniable Facts About the Michael Jackson Sexual-Abuse Allegations

The author, who spent more than a decade covering the scandal for V.F., shares the key revelations and insights that viewers of the new HBO documentary Leaving Neverland need to know.

https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2019/03/10-undeniable-facts-about-the-michael-jackson-sexual-abuse-allegations

Mirabai · 05/08/2024 00:30

DotAndCarryOne2 · 04/08/2024 23:26

None of which is relevant to this point though. I was pointing out that there is a difference between someone not standing trial because they died before their crimes came to light, and someone actually standing trial and being acquitted. Personal opinion is irrelevant - in the eyes of the law Jackson was not guilty, whereas Saville was never brought to justice. I’ve looked back through the thread and this point has been made several times, by several different posters. I don’t understand why it’s seemingly so difficult to accept.

I wasn’t talking to you I was responding to @pam290358 claim that

“Whatever your personal opinion the law says he was not guilty.”

I simply pointed out that one of the law enforcers involved in the investigation is on record as saying he thought he was guilty.

I’m not sure why you find it hard to understand that a. People don’t need pointing out that MJ was not found guilty whereas Savile was never tried as they’re aware of it and b. It’s irrelevant to the issue of whether MJ was, in fact, a paedophile.

DotAndCarryOne2 · 04/08/2024 23:26

Mirabai · 04/08/2024 23:11

One of the FBI agents who worked on the investigation didn’t think he was innocent though. He said that if WR and JS had been ready to talk/testify at the time, the case would have been much more likely to succeed. I think he’s right. Indeed I think if those boys had brought a case together MJ would have gone to jail.

None of which is relevant to this point though. I was pointing out that there is a difference between someone not standing trial because they died before their crimes came to light, and someone actually standing trial and being acquitted. Personal opinion is irrelevant - in the eyes of the law Jackson was not guilty, whereas Saville was never brought to justice. I’ve looked back through the thread and this point has been made several times, by several different posters. I don’t understand why it’s seemingly so difficult to accept.

Mama2many73 · 04/08/2024 23:17

HungryLittleCrocodile · 03/08/2024 14:28

Your choice. I don't believe it. I think he was stupid to have made young teen boys his friends, and have them stop over, but he was not convicted of any wrongdoing. People who say 'just because he wasn't found guilty doesn't mean he was innocent' say this, because they're so desperate for someone to be guilty, even though there isn't a shred of proof of their guilt. If there HAD have been, MJ would have been found guilty and convicted!

How naive are uou? 'He would have been found guilty had there been a shred of proof!'

When there's money and international stars people turn a blind eye. Just look at the RKelly court cases.

Initially taken to court and found NOT guilty even though LOTS of people including his music team/company knew what was going on.

However a few years later thanks to some amazing detectives, families and a very peristent reporter, subsequent charges were filed, including the same earlier ones , and he was found guilty of massive number of charges. He thought his fame would keep him safe, saw himself as invincible in the same way MJ did.

DotAndCarryOne2 · 04/08/2024 23:13

SerafinasGoose · 04/08/2024 12:07

No one who believes it's possible to defame the dead, either through libel or slander, is in any position to 'correct' anyone.

Same goes for anonymous user handles on the internet.

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Try reading that that post again. The poster wasn’t referring to Jackson. They were defending themselves against a poster who had quoted them and appeared to be accusing them of saying some pretty unpleasant things, which they actually hadn’t. Nothing at all to do with defaming or libelling the dead.

Mirabai · 04/08/2024 23:11

pam290358 · 04/08/2024 22:59

The two are totally different. Saville was dead before his crimes were discovered. He wasn’t found guilty or innocent because he didn’t stand trial. Jackson stood trial twice and was acquitted. Whatever your personal opinion the law says he was not guilty.

One of the FBI agents who worked on the investigation didn’t think he was innocent though. He said that if WR and JS had been ready to talk/testify at the time, the case would have been much more likely to succeed. I think he’s right. Indeed I think if those boys had brought a case together MJ would have gone to jail.

pam290358 · 04/08/2024 22:59

Tulipsareredvioletsarebue · 04/08/2024 16:41

Which was kind of my point- the fact there was no conviction did not mean he was not a dangerous pedo.
Many rich and famous get away with the worst crimes because their money protects them, and MJ was no different.

The two are totally different. Saville was dead before his crimes were discovered. He wasn’t found guilty or innocent because he didn’t stand trial. Jackson stood trial twice and was acquitted. Whatever your personal opinion the law says he was not guilty.

Mirabai · 04/08/2024 22:56

CosmicDaisyChain · 04/08/2024 22:55

I believe the documentary put forward a number of very credible arguments. As I said, I've never really been able to tell one way or another. I still think there's a lot we will never know. I just don't think it's that clear cut.

It depends what you call credible.

CosmicDaisyChain · 04/08/2024 22:55

Mirabai · 04/08/2024 22:51

If you believe that you’ll believe anything.

James Safechuck was a 36 year old man when his father was sued over distribution of profits. The company was worth around $8.5 million in total. The plaintiffs claimed to be owed roughly $300k (around £230k). The matter was settled out of court.

Can you really believe a 36 year old man would invent sexual abuse against a global star to help his father raise cash for business?

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I believe the documentary put forward a number of very credible arguments. As I said, I've never really been able to tell one way or another. I still think there's a lot we will never know. I just don't think it's that clear cut.

Mirabai · 04/08/2024 22:51

If you believe that you’ll believe anything.

James Safechuck was a 36 year old man when his father was sued over distribution of profits. The company was worth around $8.5 million in total. The plaintiffs claimed to be owed roughly $300k (around £230k). The matter was settled out of court.

Can you really believe a 36 year old man would invent sexual abuse against a global star to help his father raise cash for business?

CosmicDaisyChain · 04/08/2024 22:29

Mirabai · 04/08/2024 22:22

As I said upthread that documentary was funded ultimately by Sony. Who own a major stake in MJ’s catalogue.

I don’t know what “timed their lawsuits.. conveniently” even means? Convenient for what?

Well it tells you that in the documentary. The family of one owed a hell of a lot of money in a failed business and were about to be sued for a ridiculous amount of money. That was a rather convenient time to suddenly decide to take out a lawsuit against the estate for approx the same amount they were about to be sued for.

Mirabai · 04/08/2024 22:22

CosmicDaisyChain · 04/08/2024 22:19

Personally I wouldn't no. I can't imagine anyone thinking it was ok if it was Nigel the dustman from number 38. The parents in many cases freely gave access to their children because they also benefitted from being a friend of the king of pop and were totally starstruck.

I've never really been able to tell one way or another. The YouTube documentary Michael Jackson - Square One has made it even more difficult for me because it presents a very different view of how these children entered his circle. It presents some pretty compelling evidence of extortion. Even the recent young men who made claims had timed their lawsuits rather conveniently. It's a long watch but certainly gives a different perspective on many angles of the case and does come over very credible.

As I said upthread that documentary was funded ultimately by Sony. Who own a major stake in MJ’s catalogue.

I don’t know what “timed their lawsuits.. conveniently” even means? Convenient for what?

CosmicDaisyChain · 04/08/2024 22:19

Clueless2000 · 04/08/2024 17:58

Ok, let’s say you don’t believe the men in the documentary who accused him of abuse. Fine.

But you must have seen the interview with him where he happily admits he had boys stay over at his house. In his bed. Boys he didn’t really know. If he was not a super talented pop star but instead, a shop worker, bank manager, bin man - whatever, just a regular man - would you think that behaviour was normal and ok? Does that it scream massive red flags to you? Would YOU let your child stay at a stranger’s house, let alone in their bed??

Personally I wouldn't no. I can't imagine anyone thinking it was ok if it was Nigel the dustman from number 38. The parents in many cases freely gave access to their children because they also benefitted from being a friend of the king of pop and were totally starstruck.

I've never really been able to tell one way or another. The YouTube documentary Michael Jackson - Square One has made it even more difficult for me because it presents a very different view of how these children entered his circle. It presents some pretty compelling evidence of extortion. Even the recent young men who made claims had timed their lawsuits rather conveniently. It's a long watch but certainly gives a different perspective on many angles of the case and does come over very credible.

CantHoldMeDown · 04/08/2024 19:14

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What?! Parents shouldn't be doing this kind of thing either, they are far more likely to be abusing their kids than any stranger is, fact. My mum also used to put me in the bath with my dad, there was absolutely no need for that. Especially since I was old enough (7/8) to still remember it now. Why would a grown man need to be in the bath with a child?! The dad or other male family member is the biggest threat to any child, not some stranger. I certainly wouldn't have allowed my parents to do that if I had kids, they could forget ever seeing them.

ChishiyaBat · 04/08/2024 18:44

HungryLittleCrocodile · 04/08/2024 14:08

Because he's innocent. Proven innocent in a court of law.

HTH.

No it doesn't help, just because a jury found him innocent, that doesn't mean he was innocent and you know that. As far as I am concerned he was guilty as sin and his victims are the ones who should be defended nor a dead nonce!

Clueless2000 · 04/08/2024 17:58

Ok, let’s say you don’t believe the men in the documentary who accused him of abuse. Fine.

But you must have seen the interview with him where he happily admits he had boys stay over at his house. In his bed. Boys he didn’t really know. If he was not a super talented pop star but instead, a shop worker, bank manager, bin man - whatever, just a regular man - would you think that behaviour was normal and ok? Does that it scream massive red flags to you? Would YOU let your child stay at a stranger’s house, let alone in their bed??

PhillipMontyTomato · 04/08/2024 17:38

There isn't any dispute that Jackson shared his bed with young boys because he admitted it himself.

Fans come up with strange, improbable explanations of why he would have done that.

The problem is that five of the boys he shared a bed with say that Jackson did sexually abuse them.

So, what's more likely? That Jackson is the only adult man ever to have some innocent reason for constantly being alone in bed with little boys or that those boys/men are telling the truth?

The fans are grasping at straws and a musical to celebrate Jackson's life is in the worst possible taste.

Tulipsareredvioletsarebue · 04/08/2024 16:41

pam290358 · 04/08/2024 16:36

No. He was dead by the time the scandal broke.

Which was kind of my point- the fact there was no conviction did not mean he was not a dangerous pedo.
Many rich and famous get away with the worst crimes because their money protects them, and MJ was no different.

pam290358 · 04/08/2024 16:36

Tulipsareredvioletsarebue · 04/08/2024 15:15

Also was Jimmy Saville ever convicted?

No. He was dead by the time the scandal broke.

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