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C4tintherug · 03/08/2024 12:00

Why has Michael Jackson not been cancelled?

I don’t understand why a musical has been made out of his music, and why his music is played at school discos and is still everywhere.

After I watched the documentary where the men described how he raped them, I won’t listen to his music at all, in fact, I feel a sense of disgust when it is played publicly.

I don’t understand why we seem to have cancelled everyone else except him. Is it because he died before he was officially found guilty?

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Firefly1987 · 05/08/2024 22:13

ChishiyaBat · 05/08/2024 22:11

So you think him sleeping in a bed with the 3 Culkin siblings is normal?

No but that's not the question is it? We're talking about if he did anything to them, and so far they've said he didn't.

ChishiyaBat · 05/08/2024 22:11

Firefly1987 · 05/08/2024 22:07

He said he slept on the floor and Gavin and his brother took the bed in that clip. He admitted to having Macualay Culkin and his siblings stay in his bed (one a sister, for all the people saying "but why was it only boysss") and they haven't made any allegations.

So you think him sleeping in a bed with the 3 Culkin siblings is normal?

Mirabai · 05/08/2024 22:10

Firefly1987 · 05/08/2024 22:07

He said he slept on the floor and Gavin and his brother took the bed in that clip. He admitted to having Macualay Culkin and his siblings stay in his bed (one a sister, for all the people saying "but why was it only boysss") and they haven't made any allegations.

Gavin later accused MJ of molesting him.

He wasn’t just admitting to the Caulkins he said “many children” and merely used the Caulkins as an example.

Firefly1987 · 05/08/2024 22:07

Mirabai · 05/08/2024 20:48

MJ admitting he shared a bed with “many children”.

Edited

He said he slept on the floor and Gavin and his brother took the bed in that clip. He admitted to having Macualay Culkin and his siblings stay in his bed (one a sister, for all the people saying "but why was it only boysss") and they haven't made any allegations.

ChishiyaBat · 05/08/2024 21:49

saidthebellsofstclements · 05/08/2024 21:44

Same

I just don't understand how people can defend his actions!

saidthebellsofstclements · 05/08/2024 21:44

ChishiyaBat · 05/08/2024 21:39

@Mirabai @saidthebellsofstclements those videos are sickening, no matter how many times I see them everytime they pop up they make my skin crawl! No one can ever convince me that he wasn't a predator and a filthy nonce!

Same

ChishiyaBat · 05/08/2024 21:39

@Mirabai @saidthebellsofstclements those videos are sickening, no matter how many times I see them everytime they pop up they make my skin crawl! No one can ever convince me that he wasn't a predator and a filthy nonce!

saidthebellsofstclements · 05/08/2024 21:10

Nice and normal behaviour.

Michael Jackson
saidthebellsofstclements · 05/08/2024 21:09
Mirabai · 05/08/2024 20:48

MJ admitting he shared a bed with “many children”.

Mirabai · 05/08/2024 20:44

The “art” books were many, many books of naked and semi naked images of children and adolescents all jumbled in with adult porn.

Firefly1987 · 05/08/2024 20:39

Waitingfordoggo · 05/08/2024 14:46

@HungryLittleCrocodile

I think he was stupid to have made young teen boys his friends, and have them stop over, but he was not convicted of any wrongdoing

Stupid is one possibility. But that implies that the only reason he had boys for sleepovers was because of stupidity. Do stupid people generally behave like this with kids? If there was an adult man in your neighbourhood inviting kids for sleepovers, would you tell your kids ‘Oh don’t worry about Barry, he’s just stupid’. You wouldn’t question why Barry wanted the kids to come over?

You seem naïve.

He actually denied inviting kids into his bedroom he says the kids always wanted to stay with him and he never invited them which I think is an important distinction to make. He's not weirdo Barry down the road who kids are afraid of he was the biggest star in the world who most kids would do anything to meet. So completely different dynamics. I'm not saying it means he didn't also abuse them but I think it's important to take these things into account and look at other possible explanations. And yes it was still hugely appropriate and he shouldn't have allowed it to happen but nothing he has admitted to is actually illegal (maybe it should be) but inappropriate doesn't always mean illegal. There's a lot of misinformation about what was found. Literally heterosexual porn and some art books, that he got sent by fans, that's it. If there was anything worse he 100% would've been found guilty.

CosmicDaisyChain · 05/08/2024 20:36

There seems to be a really poor understanding of the difference between evidence and proof.

Americano75 · 05/08/2024 20:24

moonshinepoursthroughmywindow · 05/08/2024 18:04

As much as I dislike abusers, and think he almost certainly was one, it hasn't changed my opinion of him as a musician one bit. I've always thought he had one of the most annoying voices in the music industry.

Oh God, me too. All those silly vocal affectations made my teeth itch.

Plus nonce.

Mirabai · 05/08/2024 19:11

moonshinepoursthroughmywindow · 05/08/2024 18:04

As much as I dislike abusers, and think he almost certainly was one, it hasn't changed my opinion of him as a musician one bit. I've always thought he had one of the most annoying voices in the music industry.

Whiny falsetto with strange hiccoughs. Pedestrian composition. Banal lyrics. Weird grindy crotch dancing, And a mashed up face. What’s not to love eh?

The one thing that is interesting about his lyrics, although disturbing, is that they can be now read as a kind of coded confessions.

Mirabai · 05/08/2024 19:01

@WhimsicalGubbins76 You’ve posted a lot of nonsense and now you’re claiming to be “trolled”. Ok. You’re no loss to the discussion.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 05/08/2024 18:35

cupcaske123 · 03/08/2024 15:16

You're coming out with paedophilic excuses in an effort to protect a predator. Bill Wyman said the same thing about 13 year old Mandy Smith, that she had the face of a child but the body of a woman. You're tarring all men with the same brush, I doubt many would find a child alluring.

The only difference with these men is that they are famous. Men (not all but an immense proportion of them) would dearly love to have sex with young girls (or boys) and you'd be naiive to believe otherwise.

The times I was accosted, hooted at, by men old enough to be my father, whilst I was walking to school - in school uniform. These odious men undoubtedly had children of their own and wives at home probably ranting away on a chatboard just like this one, about other paedophiles. But... not my Nigel!

The only difference being that their creepy Nigel isn't famous, hasn't achieved celebrity. Still a paedophile though.

SerafinasGoose · 05/08/2024 18:17

pam290358 · 05/08/2024 18:08

No, but the platform can be sued if they let libellous posts stand. Why do you think posts are taken down all the time ? And your original post very clearly demonstrated that you mistakenly thought the poster was defaming Jackson. At least admit you were wrong.

Original post quoted.

No one who believes it's possible to defame the dead, either through libel or slander, is in any position to 'correct' anyone.

Same goes for anonymous user handles on the internet.

My wording is very clear. To 'libel' someone in UK law means you have to have defamed them in such a way as this would harm their reputation. You cannot 'harm' the reputation of an anonymous screen handle.

Posts are removed from MN all the time and for a variety of reasons as per talk guidelines. They are only defamatory if they attack the reputation of a named individual.

It's like breaking rocks on this site today. Is it the heat?

pam290358 · 05/08/2024 18:08

SerafinasGoose · 05/08/2024 18:00

I have made sense of it, thanks.

You cannot 'libel' an anonymous screen handle.

No, but the platform can be sued if they let libellous posts stand. Why do you think posts are taken down all the time ? And your original post very clearly demonstrated that you mistakenly thought the poster was defaming Jackson. At least admit you were wrong.

moonshinepoursthroughmywindow · 05/08/2024 18:04

As much as I dislike abusers, and think he almost certainly was one, it hasn't changed my opinion of him as a musician one bit. I've always thought he had one of the most annoying voices in the music industry.

SerafinasGoose · 05/08/2024 18:00

Rosscameasdoody · 05/08/2024 17:53

I’m the original poster and I can confirm that my post was nothing whatever to do with Jackson. The poster made some unfounded comments which I took to be aimed at me, that I took exception to. My reference to libellous was in respect of those comments. The poster answered me by telling me they were general comments about the thread, and not aimed at me, but they had tagged me so it seemed personal. If you look back through the thread you’ll hopefully make sense of it.

I have made sense of it, thanks.

You cannot 'libel' an anonymous screen handle.

DotAndCarryOne2 · 05/08/2024 17:57

Mirabai · 05/08/2024 12:52

MJ has himself admitted sleeping in bed with boys and 5 boys have admitted it too. That’s not hearsay it’s direct evidence.

Yep. Direct evidence that he slept in a bed with boys. Not proof that he abused them.

Rosscameasdoody · 05/08/2024 17:53

SerafinasGoose · 05/08/2024 11:06

Read the post again. The second paragraph of it.

I’m the original poster and I can confirm that my post was nothing whatever to do with Jackson. The poster made some unfounded comments which I took to be aimed at me, that I took exception to. My reference to libellous was in respect of those comments. The poster answered me by telling me they were general comments about the thread, and not aimed at me, but they had tagged me so it seemed personal. If you look back through the thread you’ll hopefully make sense of it.

WhimsicalGubbins76 · 05/08/2024 17:41

@Mirabai i genuinely have no idea what you’ve posted, frankly I have more interesting things to do, like cleaning the cat litter tray. Do stop trolling me, find something more worthwhile. You got something wrong, get over, move on and don’t have kids

Mirabai · 05/08/2024 17:15

I can see now what you were trying to say, but unfortunately your written English was confused and inarticulate.

There needed to be a full stop after: He was not found guilty, he was overwhelmingly acquitted of all charges; then no “and” before the next clause relating to Evan. In fact the whole confused para was 3 different sentences all run together.

I ignored your last para as it was so obtuse. If you cannot understand that the trauma of a global sex offence trial for a child would be as bad as the original sex offence, I can’t help you.

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