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To contact this jazz band and tell them to stop using this word?

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FauxWhiteOrchid · 03/08/2024 10:25

There’s a local jazz event taking place soon and the bio describes the band as “Dixieland”. I remember the Dixie Chicks apologising and changing their name.

The word derives from the American South and is also used in a Confederate song. Here’s the full Wikipedia page for “Dixie”. Basically, its usage is racist.

I was surprised to see the word at all but also not surprised as I live in a very white Reform/Tory voting area.

AIBU to contact the band and ask them to change their description? Or leave them alone? I know what the reaction will be if I do contact them: just music blah blah been a traditional word for this style of jazz blah blah world gone mad woke blah joy thief etc. But I see no reason to use this word in this day and age.

WWYD?

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LlynTegid · 03/08/2024 10:38

I don't live in a 'very white area'.

LlynTegid · 03/08/2024 10:38

Contacting them and saying why the Dixie Chicks changed their name is reasonable to do. Until they did I was unaware of the connection and I doubt I was alone.

FauxWhiteOrchid · 03/08/2024 10:36

Why? What have I done?

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Bigearringsbigsmile · 03/08/2024 10:36

I think you need to stop policing other people's language and concentrate on your own behaviour.

heldinadream · 03/08/2024 10:35

FauxWhiteOrchid · 03/08/2024 10:32

Interesting that 86% have voted that I am BU.

It's easy enough to click a vote. I'd wait for more comments before drawing any conclusions if I were you.

FauxWhiteOrchid · 03/08/2024 10:34

Thanks @heldinadream.

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FauxWhiteOrchid · 03/08/2024 10:32

Interesting that 86% have voted that I am BU.

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heldinadream · 03/08/2024 10:31

I put three asterisks in that word but formatting decided I only needed one! 😂

heldinadream · 03/08/2024 10:30

I think it's positively a good idea for you to do that. They may know already, in which case they are choosing to ignore it at best. They may not know in which case you are giving them information. Language evolves. No-one would call a band n*er band, and this is - if at the moment more obscure - no better.
Good for you OP.

FauxWhiteOrchid · 03/08/2024 10:25

Forgot the link.

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dixie

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