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To want to see my boyfriend after his month on holiday?

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bradmore47 · 02/08/2024 14:27

Basically my boyfriend of 2 years has been travelling as he had a month off between jobs - I haven't seen him since 16 July properly (I picked him up from the airport on Weds but I had to insist as we didnt have anything in the diary - and just had to drop him home as he had to look after DD) - he won't commit to seeing me citing summer holidays being difficult. We have an evening event next week to go to but he can't stay the night and then nothing in the diary. I miss him and I just want us to spend some time together but he won't commit because he is still on holiday in his mind. Am I being ridiculous about wanting to see him?

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DaisyChain505 · 02/08/2024 14:39

it sounds like he’s distancing himself from the relationship and doesn’t have the guts to just say out loud that he wants to finish with you.

Sunnydiary · 02/08/2024 14:38

What was he like when you picked him up?

It sounds like he’s not really into you any longer. Sorry.

LightDrizzle · 02/08/2024 14:38

He’s not your boyfriend. I’m not sure what he is but he doesn’t think he’s your boyfriend or that you are his girlfriend.

Tel12 · 02/08/2024 14:37

Sounds like he's moved on.

Buddysbunda · 02/08/2024 14:37

If he wanted to, he would. Send this one back.

FoxtrotOscarFoxtrotOscar · 02/08/2024 14:35

You are a free taxi service and he sounds like a user/loser.

ImCamembertTheBigCheese · 02/08/2024 14:34

Sorry, sounds like he is using this as an excuse to break up. After a month away I would definitely want to spend time with my bf when I came home.

BotDranning · 02/08/2024 14:31

I agree with PP. He doesn't want to. So very sorry xx

completeworks · 02/08/2024 14:29

He doesn't sound interested.

Sinderalla · 02/08/2024 14:28

No YANBU but there's a reason he doesn't want to see you. You need to have that chat with him x

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