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Plane seat drama

387 replies

itstoohotnow · 02/08/2024 12:29

Just returned from a European break, booked 4 plane tickets for DH and 2 DS (19 &16) and I, eldest DS decided too old to go away with mum and dad so stayed at home. I contacted the airline as cheap non refundable ticket but said I can use it as a spare seat between DH and I so all good.

On return flight, only 2 hours long and we have seats A (me) B (spare) C (DH) and D (DS) then a couple with a baby in E & F

Couple with baby realised we were together and pretty much demanded DS moved to seat B - I politely pointed out it wasn't a random spare seat but a booked and paid for one, now I have 2 kids so appreciate it's hard to travel with a little one and would have offered the seat but they were so bloody rude and entitled. I pointed out we had paid for 4 seats and they had only paid for 2 - so asked for a contribution towards cost £30 (by this point they are just demanding the seat because they have a child)

They got pretty rude and offensive (called me a fat b**ch) so I said no, stewardess said was up to me

Should I have given them the seat?

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MintTwirl · 02/08/2024 12:36

Hahaha no as soon as they decided to be rude they sealed their own fate. If they had behaved properly then I likely would have given them the seat(like you said you probably would have aswell) especially if the little one was fidgety without a second thought.

JMSA · 02/08/2024 12:34

Asking for money for the seat is really embarrassing.
But there's no way they should have been so rude:

MimosaCardamom · 02/08/2024 12:33

Prawncow · 02/08/2024 12:32

They were rude and entitled and I know you paid for the seat but it feels a bit greedy to ask for money for it. Either give it to them or don’t.

Why is it greedy?

OP paid for the seat, its HER seat

MrsSkylerWhite · 02/08/2024 12:32

Absolutely not. Awful, rude people.

(I’d happily give up the seat to people who asked politely)

flipent · 02/08/2024 12:32

Absolutely not.

The entitlement of some people is getting out of hand.

Prawncow · 02/08/2024 12:32

They were rude and entitled and I know you paid for the seat but it feels a bit greedy to ask for money for it. Either give it to them or don’t.

Wahine24 · 02/08/2024 12:31

No way!!

HotPotato123 · 02/08/2024 12:31

No way

Marchitectmummy · 02/08/2024 12:31

Nope, classic case of where being rude gets people...no where.

CharlotteUnaNatalieThompson · 02/08/2024 12:31

Like you I'd have given them the seat if they'd asked nicely but as soon as they were rude and demanding no fucking chance

GCAcademic · 02/08/2024 12:30

No way. Not when they spoke to you like that.

Doggymummar · 02/08/2024 12:30

No