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to ask why people still do not believe that Islamophobia doesn’t exist and therefore doesn’t need an official definition?

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AdvicePleas · 02/08/2024 00:43

This is a question for the general public , After the recent events , where a horrific unimaginable event that has left a community and parents shattered , reeling from the loss of their babies - the first thing that a significant group did was to attack who they thought were to blame.
and it was the Muslim community.
without verification , confirmation , the hatred was palpable -it was always there.

As a muslim ; every time something like this happens, I know all of us pause and are frightened whether the perpetrators are Muslim and - when they are not - then there are no fingers pointed to whether their religion is to blame for their actions.
the entire community isn’t put to trial.
I am so sad for the senseless loss that the parents and families are going through.
My heart goes our to them,
as my friend who is a hijab wearing Muslim said earlier today -thank god he wasn’t Muslim otherwise they would have come and killed us in our sleep. It hit me to the core how much some people hate us?
I feel this is an injustice to my 70 year old mother who prays 5 times a day, loves her god and has not harmed a single person in her life , my sister who is a confidant professional woman but will not travel out of multi cultural areas for fear of being attacked.

still the government refused to put an official definition for Islamophobia?
having grown experiencing huge levels of it in the early 90/ , I feel that those that do not believe that the Muslim community are hated by other for simply being Muslim are just ignoring it or are part of the problem .
I feel sad for my children , who don’t speak the language their parents speak, only belong to this country but look visibly different and belong to a religion that is hated so much and the government can’t protect them.

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TipsyJoker · 02/08/2024 01:14

I think the UK is a pretty tolerant country tbh. We accept people for who they are on the whole. We have equality laws, hate crime legislation and always promote diversity and inclusion. Just like there are extremists within the Muslim community, there are extremists in other communities. However, these are the minority. Most people are pretty accepting and tolerant, otherwise we wouldn’t have such diverse ethnic groups, races, religions and events like pride, etc. No-ones holding pride events in Saudi or Russia. Catholics are being killed by Boko haram in Nigeria. We don’t stone women to death in this country for being raped and calling it adultery. There are far more dangerous places to be a minority in the world than the UK. I’m not blaming an entire community/race or religion for the actions of an extreme minority and I don’t think the majority of British people are either.

VerySadCase · 02/08/2024 01:12

I don't suppose that anyone can really disagree with the OP when the first response illustrates the nature of the problem so effectively.

Therapy4all · 02/08/2024 01:11

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FFS, he was not Muslim. How many times do you have to be told.

OP I agree with you. I hope you and your family are okay. I'm sorry you have to live like this.

VerySadCase · 02/08/2024 01:08

OP, I hear you. Islamophobia is real and it seems to be getting worse. I hope that you and your loved ones are OK.Flowers

VerySadCase · 02/08/2024 01:07

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How could the hijab possibly have anything to do with the attitudes of the Southport killer when he wasn't even a Muslim?

PinkTeaForMe · 02/08/2024 01:03

Solidarity with you sis. I hope this thread doesn't get derailed.

Ponoka7 · 02/08/2024 01:00

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