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109 replies

Curiousto · 01/08/2024 22:15

Would you date a guy who thinks it's great that a 19yr old he met on a plane 15 years ago gave him a blowjob in the airplane seat?

He was 40 when this happened. They ended up dating for 3 months.

He's 54 now. He thinks it's something to be proud of.

I've got an 18 yr old daughter. I'm feeling rather repulsed.

I've been on several dates with him. Getting on well. Now this has come out and I'm wanting to kick him off the sofa in my home that he's currently sitting on next to me.

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MulberryBushRoundabout · 01/08/2024 22:21

Nope, gross. Additionally so as this has come out as a story he’s proud of to a potential new girlfriend, not a exaggerated tale of sexual prowess down the pub (also gross, but more contextually appropriate).

HurdyGurdy19 · 01/08/2024 22:21

He's made up a lovely story for you, to try and make you think he's had an "interesting past". How on earth could anyone get into position to do that in any case - unless they were flying first class. No one else saw them, and made any kind of fuss about it?

I'd not go further with him for making up that kind of fantasy and expecting you to believe it!

ShellSeaSand · 01/08/2024 22:20

Hideous. I am sorry OP.

pippapipps · 01/08/2024 22:20

End the relationship get rid of him now ..disgusting perv yuck 🤮

IceCreamWoes · 01/08/2024 22:19

Nooooooo

Sublunar · 01/08/2024 22:19

No of course not. Why would you even need to ask?

Jellytotsburnmytongue · 01/08/2024 22:18

Nope

MermaidMummy06 · 01/08/2024 22:18

Hell no. It may have been 15 years ago but he's still brags about it. 🤮

But I have high standards & this isn't the kind of person I'd want in my life. It might not bother others.

CountFucula · 01/08/2024 22:18

Yuck. Hell no.